I don t know what ,,,, good way to communicate

You just don't know what kind of topic to find, what kind of way to continue the conversation, you can pay more attention to current news, such as housing price issues, recent hot topics and the like, if the other party says something to you, you can agree with him, you can also put forward a little bit of your own ideas, in addition, you can also use these hot topics as an introduction, so that everyone has more chat content, such as talking about the Olympics and other topics that everyone is more concerned about. And you can also ask some questions about the other party, such as you live in **ah, etc., most people like to talk about themselves when chatting with each other, so if you ask him some questions about him, he will be more interested, all you have to do is to give a certain response, of course, don't ask people too private questions, such as how much money you earn a month. Slowly you will get better, be bolder, encourage yourself to speak, and hope that you will get better and better.

I also have the same problem as you, I don't know if it was because I didn't learn the Chinese well and my vocabulary knowledge was relatively weak, or because I was more introverted, or because I lacked social experience or had less contact with people. It's just hard to communicate with others. I'm working on it right now, too.

I think it should be helpful for me to read more prose**, think more about problems, and have more contact with the outside world.

I'm in the same situation as you.

I'm listening to what others say first.

If it's your own interest, get involved.

If not, just sit on the sidelines and listen to others.

That's good.

Silence is golden, and listening more is also a way to respect others.

Learn to listen first, don't think about what you should say, just listen carefully to what others are saying and why they say that, and understand the other person's life interests and behavior. After understanding, it is natural to have doubts.

Either tell the other person something about yourself, and then the other person asks, are you there.

It's that simple.

If you want to join a friend's conversation, then you have to have common interests with everyone, and if you talk about something you like to talk about, I think you will naturally be willing to talk a little more, and have time to read more books related to friendship. When you talk about it, whether you have the same opinion as everyone else, speak up and you will enjoy communicating after a long time. Hehe.

I don't say a word that I should say about what I should say about the internal items, and not a word that I shouldn't say.

I'm also an introvert, not very familiar with people, and I don't usually speak

I'm just like you! I used to have a lot of things to say with my classmates, but now I don't seem to know what to say, and when I walk home from school with her, there is silence all the way.

I think this change may be due to the fact that I have grown up, and when puberty has arrived, it is normal to be unable to communicate a little.

I'll teach you a few tricks, I'm working on it right now:

1. When talking to others, be sure to find a common language, don't say those things that make it difficult for others, and don't embarrass both parties.

2. Conversation must be decent, swear words are hard to hear!

3. Practice more, exercise more, participate in more social activities, such as speeches and debates, and boldly express your own opinions, and your self-confidence, courage, and communication skills will definitely improve to a certain extent.

4. When communicating, be sure to maintain a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere, smile a lot, and don't be too restrained.

5. If there is really no way, there is no way at all, then keep silent, silence is golden. But I still don't agree with this method, this is the next policy!

There are two reasons why the mouth is stupid and can't speak: less knowledge and less talk. So, we need to get the right medicine.

First of all, you must build self-confidence and dare to change yourself. You can read more books, cultivate some of your hobbies, participate in more activities, and experience more things to increase your knowledge, and the more you know, it is often easier to talk to people. Moreover, in some activities and social occasions, you can also see that others are talking by themselves, the so-called once born and twice cooked, and you can also learn from others next time.

Again, you need to think a little about yourself when you speak, and don't say things that hurt others, so as not to cause misunderstandings.

How people who can't talk change.

1.Introverts are mostly people with a lot of inner activities, and they tend to have too much mental activity, and the actual performance is definitely not able to keep up with the speed of thought, and they often miss the best time to reply to others when organizing their own language, resulting in short-term embarrassment, and in terms of performance, they can't speak.

2.To solve this problem, we need to start with psychological problems, first of all, don't have too many inner activities, everyone's way of behavior is created by their own growth environment, and they will have their own habitual way of dealing with anything, and this way of expressing it straightforwardly can change the situation of not being able to speak.

3.Don't raise the standard of your own speech too much, you are an ordinary person, not an orator diplomat, and not every topic you say needs to be legally responsible, and you can clearly distinguish the difference between chat and business activities, or commitments.

4.In business negotiations, it is not extroverted and talkative, people who can be aggressive and have the upper hand in momentum can get the final victory and benefits, and what is more needed is the assessment and consideration of introverts in a variety of factors in professional knowledge, so not being able to speak does not mean that they are incapable.

5.Introverts want to talk more, they need to fill in their life experiences, discover more of the good in life, and don't be imprisoned in their own thoughts and turn a blind eye to the little things in life. Eat something delicious every morning, take a nap in the sun at noon, and have your audience as long as you want to speak.

01 Eye contact.

Whether you're talking or you're listening to someone else, looking into the eyes of the person you're talking to can be an effective technique. Through eye contact, you can convey the topics that everyone cares about and encourage the person you are talking to.

02Stay confident.

As a communicator, your ultimate goal is to deliver the message you want to convey in order to make some kind of impact. But many people do not achieve the expected results, the main reason is that they are not confident enough when communicating, do not firm their position, communication is a two-way process, when you remain confident, the other party will also be affected by your attitude, value your speech, your point of view, your ideas.

03Be sincere.

To be genuine is to be true to yourself. To be genuine, you first need to know who you really are. You clearly understand what your values are and what your goals are. Be sincere, humble, and don't hide denial.

You can communicate less, don't work hard.

If you know that you can't communicate, then try to communicate with the other person more to express your thoughts, and think about how you can express your thoughts clearly. Also, sometimes express your own opinions, and explain your thoughts and opinions without hurting others, so that you will gradually communicate.

Everyone who is not very good at communication often has some things before that make them basically not talk, basically a quiet person, and they don't really want to share their hearts with each other, so they slowly develop the thinking idea that they don't like to communicate with each other, and they slowly become their current self.

If you want to change that, you have to talk to them. Communicate more, share your own experience, and communicate your emotions more will make you better integrate with everyone, will make you better adapt to the new environment, and can also make you more cheerful and optimistic, not as extreme as before.

Just like every child can't speak at the beginning, only by listening to adults slowly and slowly practicing speaking on their own can they gradually learn to speak. And after that, you will also learn to sing, recite, and read poetry as many people as you can do it.

And just like communicating these things, if you don't say it, you won't know how to say it, and you will never be able to express your true thoughts, but it will make some people misunderstand your heart, so sometimes communication is indeed a good tool, let others understand you, let others try to get close to you, warm you, and make your heart happier.

Whether or not to communicate, whether to communicate is a matter that reflects a person's emotional intelligence, so this matter is quite important. You should practice more and talk to people more, try to open your heart to communicate with each other sincerely, and sincerely think about others, so that it will not take long for you to learn to communicate and improve your emotional intelligence, and more people will like you.

Won't communicate, there may be reasons for your personality. Some people are naturally cheerful, so they are more likely to make friends, while some people are more shy, so they generally don't have easy to make friends. So if you don't communicate with your friends because of your personality.

Then you might as well deliberately exercise to exercise your courage and cheekiness. Spend more time with people you don't know. Learn the skills and skills of speaking.

Secondly, you are not very good at communicating with people, which may also be because your knowledge is too narrow. Because you don't have a lot of topics to talk to, you can't find a common topic to talk to each other. Because there is no common language, it will become an obstacle for you and your friends to communicate.

It's the reason why both of you are embarrassed. So if you want to communicate with different people, then you must first expand your knowledge, when you have a wealth of knowledge and connotation, you will have more topics to communicate with others.

Furthermore, when you communicate with someone, you need to learn about their preferences, temperament and personality from some of their actions and conversations. Basically, you can have a good idea in order to grasp a degree and communicate with each other more reasonably.

If you want to be elegant and funny in your interactions with people. Then you might as well exercise your eloquence ability. Read more books to improve your emotional intelligence.

And when you communicate with others, always be confident. There is no need to make yourself feel inferior or superior to others because of some external reasons. Do not be arrogant, not impatient, not humble or arrogant.

Communicate confidently and politely with others.

Communicating this kind of thing is only good at it or not, and there is no will. I really didn't say it, but I can say that the weather is really good today, and the moon is so round tonight, haha.

First of all, don't be too restrained and lively in the communication, otherwise the other party will feel a little embarrassed in this way. It is better to be more comfortable during the communication process.