My girlfriend, her parents don t think well of us

Then according to the modern practice, get on the boat first and then make up the ticket, provided that the woman agrees.

Find a job first and do it well, and you will have results. People will agree. You have to prove yourself to the woman's people.

This is normal in this era, isn't it now an era of naked marriage? Most people nowadays are very realistic. Don't overthink it.

I must firmly believe that although there is nothing now, it does not mean that there will be nothing in the future, I must believe in myself first, and then act My girlfriend has confidence in her. In the end, after the efforts of the two of them, they persuaded the old man. (Be sure to set yourself a goal and make an example in a few years).

Besides, if you keep insisting, your girlfriend will also love you, as long as you insist, even if your parents don't agree, there won't be a few parents who are willing to make their daughters unhappy. As long as you stick to it, there's nothing wrong with it!

Then it's better not to be together ... Otherwise, it will be difficult to get it in the future.

The future is not necessarily the current job (is it a good job to have an establishment?). ）。Only hard work will lead to good work.

If someone you really like is separated, you may not be able to find it in the future.

She has to be favored by her parents or not, and although their affairs have a certain impact on you, the future life is a matter for the two of you.

It is recommended that you live separately in two places first, after all, they are all from the countryside, and it is not easy to find a job with an establishment. Now there are many people living separately in the two places, the wife is at home with the children, and the man goes out to earn money.

After a few years, the economic foundation is stable, and then find a way to be together. Things are constantly changing, and as long as the emotional foundation is good, it will definitely develop in a good direction.

Hope it helps.

One trick: Pick up his mom and dad to where you live.

In this life, there are only a few decades of life, and you have to live your own life, and don't let external factors affect you.

A woman lives her whole life, why should she dedicate her youth to a useless man? If you really love her, you should make a show. Only when you make a show and get the approval of both parents is it really perfect.

Otherwise, even if it is against the will of the parents, they are forced to be together. The kind of beautiful love between you and me will be slowly worn out by trivial things. In the end, it was just helplessness.

I suggest that you first find a place that is most suitable for your own development, and develop it for a year or two, so that the other party's parents can see your potential and let them rest assured that they can hand over their daughters to you. And then make plans, the most important thing for a man is not love but career.

It depends on what you think, if you have confidence in yourself, you can accompany her, you will not be unable to eat wherever you have the ability, and your girlfriend will trust you more.

Choose the job with a high salary and a promising future, and your girlfriend's family will always agree to it as long as your girlfriend wants to stay with you.

If your girlfriend's parents look down on you, I think it's okay to end the relationship. Even if you end the relationship now, it will also affect the development of your relationship, and this will also become a contradiction in your breakup. Therefore, I think that if you can break up as soon as possible, then you can break up.

And I think this is also unacceptable for the man.

Although we all say that the relationship is our own business, I think the relationship still involves the family, so I think that the family of both parties is very important for the progress and development of the relationship, and this can also promote the better development of the relationship between two people. And the approval of both families can actually enhance the self-confidence in the relationship, so I think this is also very important. And if the woman's parents look down on you, I think this is the woman's family's disapproval of you, so this is also very important.

And if the woman's parents don't approve of you, then I think it will be very difficult for you to develop in the future, and you will also have a small pimple in your heart. So we can see that getting parental consent and approval is actually very important. And if the woman's parents don't approve of you, it will also increase your burden and pressure, and you will feel very tired and tired in this relationship, so I think this is also very important.

So I think if the woman's parents look down on you, I think it's okay to end the relationship, and this will also hit your self-confidence, and it will also make you have conflicts in your own heart, so I think you can get out as soon as possible.

It should be continued. Your girlfriend's parents look down on you, mainly because you don't have a career. Then you work hard, make more money, and make the other party look at you with admiration. You have to believe that there is no such thing as being poor, as long as you are willing to work hard, then you will definitely have an income.

Of course, you have to continue, the other party's parents look down on you, then you have to make a show to fight for your girlfriend, even if the other party's parents look down on you, he didn't give up on you, why should you give up on her? You don't want to give up a girl who really deserves to have for the sake of face.

My girlfriend's parents look down on me, in fact, you can also see the attitude of the other party's parents towards herself, and the other party should not support the marriage, my opinion is that it is best not to continue the relationship, because the influence of parents is very important in marriage.

Does the people in your girlfriend's family look down on you, including your girlfriend herself, if so, you don't need to maintain the relationship anymore. Because even if you come together, in the end, you have always been inferior, but they have always been high, and your parents are treated the same as you in their eyes. You will definitely not be able to dominate your later life, you can only dominate your girlfriend or your girlfriend's family, which is very aggrieved for you and your parents.

How does he look down on you, is he dishonoring your self-esteem? If that's the case, then there's no need, if it's because you're not in a good condition, at least you should try to work hard, instead of complaining here, if you really love him, after all, which parent isn't for their children?

Should. The opinions of your parents should not be an obstacle to your relationship, as long as two people truly love each other, no matter how big the difficulties are, they can get through it together, and I really hope that you can go on.

It depends on whether you like your girlfriend or not? If you like it very much, you should continue it, if you don't like it very much, I don't think you need to continue anymore, because your girlfriend's parents look down on your girlfriend and want to be with you, so you need to see if you love him or not?

Your girlfriend's parents look down on you, and if your girlfriend genuinely likes you, you don't have to pay attention. Work hard to improve yourself during your relationship. Make your girlfriend's parents impress you.

You should continue the relationship, and if her parents look down on you, you have to cheer yourself up and make them look up to you.

Your girlfriend's parents look down on you, so you have to know how to change yourself, work hard to improve your personal ability, and make yourself better.

As long as you and your girlfriend have a particularly deep relationship together, then you should work hard for this relationship, at least don't give up this emotion easily.

Yes, let your girlfriend persuade her parents well, and at the same time, you should also go to work well and show your ability to do it, I believe you can.

First of all, you have to know what your girlfriend's parents don't like about you, if it's your appearance, you can't change it, but if it's something else, you have to give them a feeling that you can get.

If the other party's parents don't like you very much, I don't think it's necessary for you to continue to fall in love with him, because the other party's family should affect the development of the relationship between the two of you, so for the insecure love, don't continue.

This relationship should not be continued, because it is easy to break up without the blessing of parents, and such a relationship is also very unstable.

If you don't have enough confidence and ability to prove that her parents look down on you, then get together with your girlfriend and be friends, of course, if you have confidence, you might as well prove to them that you are worthy of her daughter's love, the key is that you don't look down on yourself, and use their actions.

You should continue the relationship, you can improve your ability and change the way your girlfriend's parents think of you.

I think you should continue this relationship, your girlfriend's parents look down on you, it's not your girlfriend who looks down on you, and besides, they look down on you, you have to make a show to them.

This is very normal, no one asks about the flat living in the downtown area, and the poor have distant relatives in the mountains, since ancient times. It's human nature, don't blame anyone. Only you are strong, and other people's finances are around you.

If one day you are really strong, then you will finally be grateful to those who once looked down on you.

It could be, but maybe it's something else, like: Right now you're poor, but are you motivated? Is it a potential stock?

After all, my girlfriend's mother hopes that her daughter will not be unhappy because she is poor in the future, so it is recommended that you make yourself strong as soon as possible and reassure your mother, so that she will not ignore you and will welcome you more. Come on!

Every time you go to your friend's house, his mother doesn't want to pay attention to you, as if you don't exist, you think it's you who is poor and looks down on you. It's possible, but you need to ask your girlfriend why, and you need to buy more.

Ignore your explanation. Not very happy with you. This time you. All you need to do is need. Sweeten your mouth. A little better attitude. Let his mom. Feel that you are truly in love with her daughter. Slowly she will accept you.

Every time I go to my girlfriend's house, her mother has this attitude, which means that he doesn't approve of you as a future son-in-law, so he doesn't meet her standards, so he ignores you like this. The point is that the two of you really like it, then you have to fight for their approval through some efforts of your own and through your own actions.

I think most of the reason she doesn't like you is because you're poor. It's not that the girl's mother is more snobbish. Because there are a lot of mothers who want their daughters to marry rich people, because they think that as long as their daughters marry rich people.

At least they don't have to worry about money. If you have money in your hands, life doesn't have to be so hard. Because their previous generation has experienced the hardship of not having money.

Every time you go to your girlfriend's house, his mom ignores you as if you don't exist. I think it's possible that her mother is also more withdrawn at heart. He may be able to communicate together normally, but in fact, due to his personality, he is reluctant to speak.

I think that no matter what, first of all, don't suspect that your mother doesn't want to talk to you because you are poor, but in fact, if you don't get an argument, I don't think it's cranky. First of all, you must believe in yourself, you must believe in other people, or their practices, maybe there are just some misunderstandings here.

Her mother ignores you, maybe she can't accept her daughter marrying out so soon! worked hard to raise her daughter so big, the feelings must be very deep, and you have to understand her mother's mood more. Seriously, parents have a process of accepting their sons-in-law, as long as you behave well, they will accept you sooner or later.

Also, don't think about it, it doesn't matter if the boy is poor now, as long as he is self-motivated, everyone will look up to him. As long as you truly love each other and can give your girlfriend happiness, her mother will definitely bless you.

It's not that you're poor. This is a deliberate attempt to tempt you! If your girlfriend likes you, you don't care what your girlfriend's mother thinks of you.

All you have to do is treat her daughter well. No matter what your girlfriend's mother thinks of you, you should be polite. Don't have a small belly chicken intestines.

Be generous, enthusiastic, and polite. Only by getting the mother-in-law can you get her children.

It's straightforward, and you feel right. That is, yours. It doesn't feel wrong at all, he really looks down on you.

That is, I can't look down on you to have such a performance. And this performance just says a lot about his mother's. Discerning.

And that vision speaks for itself. He does anything to you. Despise.

Can't afford it. Nature. Ignore you or say.

It's just that it's his daughter's side. will. I'm basically waiting to see you.

And under normal circumstances, he is direct. Only those who look down on you will behave like this. Generally speaking.

An aunt and a half. And you're half of a child he doesn't look down on at all. Only.

Take out something that makes him feel comforted. Maybe he will change his opinion of you.

That's what you think, why did her mother let you go to her house? It's giving you a chance. Maybe it's because you're poor, it's not that she looks down on you, or her mother is a little worried, afraid that her daughter will suffer a lot after marrying you, after all, your family is rich, and you will be much better off after marriage.

You can't change your poverty, but you can change your other intentions, your heart for her daughter, and your thoughts about your future life.