The confusion between the unreal and the real, bringing the unreal to the reality, and living the re

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There are a pair of brothers, and their family lives on the 80th floor. One day they came home from a trip and found that the building was out with power! Although they were carrying large bags of luggage, they didn't seem to have any other choice, so the elder brother said to the younger brother, let's go up the stairs!

So, they started to climb the stairs with two large bags of luggage on their backs. When they climbed to the 20th floor, they started to get tired, and my brother said, "The bag is too heavy, so let's put the bag here and take the elevator to get it when the call comes." So, they left their luggage on the 20th floor, which was much easier, and continued to climb up.

They talked and laughed and climbed up, but the good times didn't last long, and when they reached the 40th floor, the two of them were really tired. Thinking that they were only halfway up, the two began to complain to each other, accusing each other of not paying attention to the building's power outage announcement, which would end up like this. They climbed as they argued, and just like that, they climbed all the way to the 60th floor.

By the time they reached the 60th floor, they were so tired that they didn't even have the strength to quarrel. The younger brother said to the elder brother, "Let's stop arguing and finish climbing it." So they silently continued to climb the stairs, and finally arrived on the 80th floor!

Excitedly coming to the door, the brothers found that their keys had been left in their bags on the 20th floor.

Some people say that this story is actually a reflection of our life: before the age of 20, we lived under the expectations of our families and teachers, carried a lot of pressure and baggage, and we were not mature enough and incapable, so our steps were inevitably unstable. After the age of 20, I left the pressure of everyone, unloaded my burden, and began to pursue my dreams with all my might, and I lived happily for 20 years.

But when I reached the age of 40, I found that my youth had passed, and I couldn't help but have a lot of regrets and regrets, so I began to regret this, regret that, complain about this, and hate that, and spent 20 years in complaining. When I reached the age of 60, I found that there was not much left in my life, so I told myself not to complain anymore, but to cherish the rest of my days! So he silently finished his remaining years.

At the end of my life, I remembered that I seemed to have something unfinished, and it turned out that all our dreams were left in the 20-year-old youth.

The most important thing is for people to know what their dreams are. to work in that direction. You know. The time to come is like this. Cherish the present and don't be on the move.

I'm also a sophomore. I watched countless anime in my life.

I love the internet.

Despise the real society.

Feel the reality vicious.

The world is cruel. Only in anime can there be carefreeness.

Know now. I never regretted it.

Because. That's how I feel.

I hope you enjoy it too.

And not abandoned.

Comics are great, but you can't think of yourself as comics.

People want to live, don't think about unrealistic things all day long, you first think, if you can't become an e-sports player after graduation, how will you live?

E-sports players eat young people's meals, and there are very few famous ones.

Suggestion: Study hard, participate in more campus activities, and read two books of realistic works, such as "The Ordinary World". In this way, life can be found.

The medicine is bitter, and the advice is against the ear, and I don't listen to you.

It would be best if you could turn your fantasy into an ideal, if you could turn your game into a career, if you could turn your anime into a study, if you could turn your reading into an experience, it would be the best.

How do you love how no one can help you, the only person who can help you is yourself, you are empty and boring about life, it is your mentality that is wrong, if you want to live a meaningful life, it depends on what kind of mentality you have to treat life.

Let's face it, of course. Unreal doesn't exist after all.

Living in the unreal, one day you still need to come out and face reality.

Because people live in reality, they need to eat, drink, pull, and so on.

In reality, there are many rules that require that you can't always do what you want, and in the illusion, when you want something, what do you think is the point. In reality, you are tired but you can live, and in the illusion, there will be a day when you can't live. We can't do without the unreal, and many of our ideals can only exist in the unreal.

Life is a game, and it's illusory.

Face to face! Life is not going well, that is certain, but what is more valuable is not our escape, but how to face the successful people around us, are they a success? Isn't it also a matter of countless attempts and failures to succeed?

As for the loss of this problem, you are even more unrestrained, what you have now is not necessarily yours, because in our life, you have a time to have, naturally there are times to lose, this is only a matter of time, look a little away, we can live a little better, I think, if we often think about what we have lost before, you think, will your life be happy? Will it be happy.

This is not a happy life, as long as you have a good heart, say good things, do good deeds, and are willing to suffer small losses, you will be happy all day long, no one will take it away, others do wrong things do not take it to heart, so as not to pollute your heart, to remind yourself not to be taken by others, otherwise you will live in fear, it is recommended that you watch the "Happy Life Lecture", listen patiently, there will be gains.

People should face the reality when they are alive, what is yours is yours, what is not yours is not yours, and you must see your own situation clearly! Don't force it, let alone resort to any despicable means. There is no point in doing that, and you will only be embarrassed in the end.

Try to be yourself, don't deliberately target someone or something, and don't be jealous or exclude others, which is irrational and unnecessary. That's just a sign of lack of confidence! Why do you have to live so unconfidently!

Everyone has their own style! Everyone has their own strengths or weaknesses, learn from each other's strengths! There is still a long way to go, and a better tomorrow is waiting for us!

So let's be realistic! Don't let unnecessary worries and abnormal ideas surround you! Have fun!

Satisfied. What kind of attitude you have towards life, what kind of attitude life will treat you! Positive, optimistic and enterprising.........

You may not have enough self-confidence, and your own strength is lacking, so you must be self-reliant!

If you are embarrassed, you should consider many aspects, such as your family's financial situation, and which two people's financial ability to work in the future. Treat the elders, and deal with people, since you are confused, which of these should be considered, marry love, the future life is very cruel, which depends on how deep your love is, marry life, if you don't feel it at all, I advise you to forget it, you say yes... Or don't get married.

Character is very important ...

In the face of reality, we will strive to move towards our dreams, and if we have dreams, we will be motivated.

Recently, I have been analyzing some cases, and those who are very happy and those who seem to be very unfortunate complain all day long, and the final result proves that people who downplay real life and take the illusory world seriously are extremely happy.

I don't understand it very well, but I slowly understand it and find that this is actually a positive attitude towards real life, and it is also a good and effective way to find happiness.

Since the illusory world is unreal, it proves that you can imagine the process and the result by yourself, and of course this kind of storyline can be carried out according to your own subjective wishes, then of course people are extremely happy in this hand-like world, and everything can go smoothly.

But real life is different, a lot of what you think is often contrary to reality, making you work hard and feel that life is very hard, this is the reality of real existence.

But when a person can treat the misfortunes and difficulties in real life as illusory, and treat himself as a person, although this difficulty is extremely real, although he can also feel some pain, but the mind will pass, because illusory things will eventually pass, so that Jian Shan can relax in the real world and treat everything that happens peacefully, is it much easier.

In this way, if you imagine real life as illusory, then you will feel a lot less pain, and if you take the illusory world as real, you will feel that life is much happier, and the same thing is just that the concept has changed, but the result is the difference between heaven and earth!

Therefore, people should not take life too seriously, let alone take life too seriously, and can realize the illusory happiness and the suffering of reality, then what else can make you worry and annoy you in this world?

Reality and illusion are opposed to each other, and they are both mutually referential, depending on who you regard as a reference and who you define as reality.

Life can't be changed, but the reference can be changed, the definition can be changed, one's own heart can be changed, when all this changes, the real life that seems to have not changed, in fact, has reached the opposite side that we can control, isn't this a complete change?

If you haven't been able to get rid of the hardships and worries of reality, you might as well try to make reality illusory, and make the illusory Zen cavity realistic, maybe this is a good choice!

Today is realistic, because it is fantasy for you to grasp tomorrow, because we can't predict it many times, and yesterday is both realistic and illusory, because time will keep precipitating the past.

Long-lasting love is in your heart, just as many people often ask if there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love.

We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness of the other person.

And happiness, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then the eternal love is by your side, not that you have the eternal love next to the book, but that you have created the eternal love.

I believe that as long as there is love, pure happiness will definitely exist

In fact, everyone will be frustrated with reality because of some people and things, and think that it is not justified. Therefore, everyone once liked to indulge in fantasy, unrealistic world! Whether you can get out of the fantasy world, return to reality and work hard again, and work hard for the people you love again, has become the root of success!

Scheming is only one of the qualities of God's creation, just as some are honest, some are optimistic, and some are suspicious. In fact, you should learn how to make friends, make friends and make the right ones, you will find that the reality may not be as terrible as you imagined! A real friend is not a person who is together all day long, talking and laughing, and the so-called gentleman's friendship is as light as water, and the real friend is that he (she) can share your worries for you when you are confused, and silently solve your difficulties when you are in trouble!

In many cases, you don't talk much, and he or she doesn't laugh with you like the people around you, and you should talk to this kind of person from your heart!

Feelings are originally a two-sided thing! It can make you feel extremely happy, but on the contrary, it can also make you feel extremely sad, but what is worthy of your love is not the person who likes beef and he likes beef, but the person who you eat egg whites and he is willing to eat egg yolks! Only in this way will there be less conflict and more joy between you.

Long-lasting love is in your heart, just as many people often ask if there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love.

We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other person, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it's in love before marriage or after marriage.

Ordinary life. As long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist