How can I make my son rely on himself for everything?

Cultivate good habits of independence from an early age, such as letting them do their own laundry and housework is the most basic, and later they will reflexively do these things to prove their responsibility.

First of all, teach by word and deed, as a parent, you have to solve your own things by yourself, and then use these as examples to tell your son, and over time, he will form this kind of thinking.

This thing should be cultivated from an early age, when a child is two or three years old or 30 years old, he should be allowed to dress and release all kinds of things, we should not spoil him, and then when he grows up and matures, it is his own business to do homework and clean up his room.

When your child is in trouble, encourage them to solve it on their own and guide them in the right way. After a long time, they will be able to rely on themselves.

First of all, parents should set an example for their children, parents should do their own things, don't ask others for help, and then influence their children to do their own things.

Cultivate from the details of life, for example, if a child falls, let him get up on his own, rather than quickly helping him up.

Let your child learn to clear his mind on his own and think of appropriate solutions. We educate our children, not to prevent them from making mistakes, but to let them find the right way to deal with things and people through making mistakes. The best nutrition for your child is to inject energy into your child's growth so that he can cope with tomorrow's life.

In fact, this is a bit too early, how can a child know how to rely on himself so quickly, he should be allowed to adapt slowly.

First of all, you have to ask him to trust you, and you have to walk around with your son more often, and you have to get to know him better.

Let him know what responsibility is, no one can help you if you can't do your own things, and you have to pay for your actions.

Parents should not dry up their children's decisions and let them make their own choices. When he encounters difficulties, let him face them and solve them on his own.

Usually encourage your son's own hands-on ability, and often tell your child that you must rely on yourself in everything.

You can slowly train your child to complete a small thing independently, so that your child has a sense of achievement.

I have a younger brother and sister who wears clothes or something, and my brother can only do it by himself, and every time he takes the initiative to do something, I will praise him, and he prefers to do things by himself.

Cultivating children's ability to live independently is indeed a very important issue, and it mainly depends on the correct guidance of parents. It is the parents who have the initiative in this matter. Parents should think about this issue clearly and thoroughly, and true love must not be doting, but going to the church to raise children according to the law of children's growth.

An important way to solve this problem is that parents should consciously learn relevant knowledge and work hard to practice, and the whole society and experienced educators should also strive to do some effective work.

Suggestions: 1. Parents should first set an example for their children, so that they know that their parents are self-reliant, which is teaching by example. 2. Parents often tell their children stories about heroes and models (historical, modern, domestic, foreign, local, people and things that children are familiar with, etc.), so that they can understand the truth and how to do it.

3. To tell a story, let it listen, the premise is that the parents love and pity the child, the child respects the parents, and the seniors are in harmony, so that it can be effective. 4. To clarify the specific requirements of self-improvement, not too high, to be appropriate, such as: study, life, housework, etc., in practice, so that they can realize that everything must rely on themselves, rely on the truth of self-improvement, persist in it, and count it as a good habit of hard work.

5. In childhood and adolescence, parents should encourage them to read more biographies of leaders, great men, scientists, heroes and other characters, so as to realize that relying on oneself is to set up ambitions, grow up to do great things, and serve the society and the country wholeheartedly, so that they can pretend to have lofty aspirations, achieve careers in their lives, and live up to their parents' expectations.

Conclusion: Children's ability to imitate is very strong, as long as adults do something, then children will follow what they do. Besides, exercising the limbs can develop the brain, so labor is the best way to develop intelligence.

But parents always don't let their children work, because they love their children. In fact, on the contrary, if you don't let children do anything, this will make children breed inertia, and over time the brain will shrink. The more the brain shrinks, the more lazy the person becomes; The lazier a person is, the more the brain shrinks; And so on into a vicious circle.

By the time the child grows up, it's too late.

Parents should give their children the correct guidance and ideological education. It should also improve the shortcomings of the child, and the independence of the child should also be cultivated, and the child should learn to do things on his own.

Parents should learn to let go appropriately, should improve their children's single-shirt ability and self-care ability, and then should also let children know how to think independently, and should also think of their own solutions when encountering bridge problems.

Parents must cultivate their children's autonomy, must let their children do what they can, and praise their children more.

Throughout a child's life, it still depends on the parents, and the parents are the class teachers who will never retire the children.

Xiao En was fortunate to meet Teacher Chao Shen Senxia and Teacher Meng, who were very attentive to teaching the children! They are all full of love. Consistent and deliberate practice has enabled Xiao En to master certain basic knowledge.

What I need to do is to do a good job in the implementation of what I learned in school that day, and do a good job of bridging between them and the school, this key link, I can't do it well, everyone feels tired, especially the child, he often complains about the hardship and tiredness of learning, and the inefficient learning makes him escape, always saying that he is not happy to play! I focused on protecting his psychology of playing, so I landed more, and I didn't do the connection between the simple filial piety method and the classroom, and the benign cycle was not formed.

These days I strongly want to start again day more challenging and I find that it helps my thinking clearly! Heal my anxious mind to a certain extent!

Self-discipline and perseverance itself give me the strength to grow myself!