What to do if a 12 year old child is timid. I m timid.

Everyone has their fears sometimes, why? Because in the face of unknown things, we always don't know how to deal with and face, so we are full of curiosity about new things, it is normal to be timid, but blindly inexplicably timid, that is, you have not opened your heart to face things, so you have to open your heart, relax your mind, face the things that make you afraid, don't dodge, think more

Walking in the park is a distraction, can you practice your guts? You should have more contact with people and face more things that you are afraid of......+1208613442 if you can, but if it's mine, it's my yo (*hee-hee, hope.)

Timid, that's with Ben people deceiving themselves, you often compound the problem into a complex, don't think too much!

First of all, we should look at what we are afraid of, and then train ourselves in a targeted manner.

It's normal to be timid, and you can exercise your courage more.

<>1. Give more positive encouragement to children, especially when children are particularly withdrawn, unwilling to communicate with others, afraid of seeing people, etc., we must give more positive encouragement and support children to play and communicate with others. When children become inferior, cringe, fearful, and afraid, they should not be overly criticized, but should appropriately take children out for a walk, take a walk, and sell sports, appropriately increase interpersonal experience, so that children can have more successful experiences, so as to gradually accumulate self-confidence from successful experiences.

2. Children should also be allowed to be independent, such as playing with children of the same age in the community, or going out to play with relatives and friends, so that children and grandchildren have a certain space for autonomy, and learn to solve and deal with problems by themselves when they are facing, only in this way can children become brave.

3. Children should also be encouraged to do more groundbreaking things, more groundbreaking ideas, or let children boldly try new things, you can let children buy new toys, encourage children to explore how to play by themselves, or take children to the playground to play challenging game projects, these methods can make children brave.

1. Give more positive encouragement to children, especially when children are particularly withdrawn, unwilling to communicate with others, afraid of seeing people, etc., we must give more positive encouragement to children, and support children to play and communicate with others. When children become inferior, cringe, fearful, and afraid, they should not be overly criticized, but should take children out for a walk, shopping, and exercise, and appropriately increase their interpersonal experience, so that children can have more successful experiences, so as to gradually accumulate self-confidence from successful experiences.

2. Children should also be independent, such as playing with children of the same age in the community, or going out with friends at relatives, so that children have a certain amount of autonomy and learn to solve and deal with problems by themselves, only in this way can children become brave.

3. Children should also be encouraged to do more groundbreaking things, more groundbreaking ideas, or let children boldly try new things, you can let children buy new toys, encourage children to explore how to play by themselves, or take children to the playground to play challenging game projects, these methods can make children brave.

1. Children's timidity is generally related to the family environment, because parents are the child's first teacher, so if the child is timid, parents should first find the reason in their own aspects. Some parents are too doting on their children, the sedan car is too blind and the safety awareness is too strong, and the children say that it is dangerous to do anything, and over time the children feel that the reliable way is not to do anything, do not touch, so the children are naturally timid and afraid. In addition, often scare the child, for example, when the child is crying, the mother and father will scare the child and say what to do, or the child will go out to play, and the father and mother will say that there are bad people outside, and the child will leave a fear psychology.

2. Children should be trained from an early age, and children's self-confidence should be trained. Parents should pay attention to guessing and cultivating in terms of courage, so that children can learn to be brave. Parents should not spoil their children too much, do not let their children do anything, and let their children do everything.

Then parents should let their children participate in more sports and exercise their children's courage through sports. In addition, it is necessary to let children have more contact with the outside world, take children to travel more, have more contact with the outside world, and don't be too strict, which will lead to introversion and lack of self-confidence. It is necessary to train children from an early age to have more contact with the outside world, and to teach children to do more things from an early age, so that their courage will gradually grow.

Go with the flow and don't rush it.

Children's timid bad psychological behaviors are gradually developed with age, under the influence of environment and education, and cannot be expected to be overcome overnight, we must follow the principle of gradual progress, patient guidance.

If the child is afraid to go shopping by himself, parents can take the child shopping with him first; Tell your child about the general procedure for shopping, go to the same store next time, encourage how much to buy, etc. At first, your child may be afraid to speak, but you can help him get started and then ask him to move on. After a few times, the child gradually became familiar with the store, and the parents can watch the child buy it by himself from a distance, and then let the child go to other stores alone.

Don't blame or humiliate your child in public.

This will only increase the child's stress and frustration, making him more timid and withdrawn. When the child refuses to call someone, do not force him to call in front of the guest, and do not say that no one can scream, but is a dumb person and other scolding and humiliating words, but should wait for the guest to leave before patiently educating and encouraging the child.

Expand your child's reach.

Parents should consciously let their children have extensive contact with society, guide their children to contact with other people, and let them unconsciously participate in activities such as games, shopping, and receiving guests. For children who dare not go to others to play, you can take him to play with other children first, and when he is infected by the joy of others, invite other children to invite him and encourage him to actively participate.

Let go and hone your child.

We must dare to let go and let our children be tempered in the ocean of life. Some parents always treat their children as children, or are afraid that they will not be able to withstand the beatings, so they say: you can't do it, you are still young.

Parents' arrangement will develop children's timid and fearful character, lack of independent spirit and adaptability, once they leave their parents, they will look panicked, and they don't know what to do early. Moderate setbacks and tribulations are indispensable assets for a child's growth. Parents should not take it away easily, but let their children play freely.

Children are especially fond of playing with sand and mud, and parents should try not to interfere with how they play.

I looked, did I jump, how high I jumped.

Don't jump on the roof, I'll have to take you down.

Oh, old Wu Chi, it seems that I am quite powerful.

Don't be so surprised, just get used to it.

Isn't it, is it that scary?

6, Shi LiIt's healthier to be scared, and it's more daring to be scared.