What to do if you can t be a person, ten manifestations of not being a person

What is a smooth way to behave?

1. Reservations: Excessive disputes are not beneficial to oneself and are unself-contained. In general, one should not rush to express one's attitude or express one's opinion, leaving people uncertain. Cautious silence is shrewd evasion.

2. Know yourself: Promote your most outstanding talents and cultivate other aspects. As long as you know your strengths and grasp them, all people will be prominent in something.

3. Never exaggerate: Exaggeration is detrimental to the truth and can easily make people doubt your opinion. The shrewd person restrains himself, shows caution, speaks concisely and to the point, and never exaggerates himself.

Overvaluing oneself is a form of lying. It can damage your reputation and have a very negative impact on your relationships. It is detrimental to your grace and intellect.

4. Adapt to the environment: survive the fittest, don't spend too much energy on chores, and maintain a good relationship between colleagues. Don't show off yourself every day, or others will get bored with you.

There must always be something new to the people. People who show a little bit every day will keep expectations alive and won't bury your talents.

5. Learn from each other's strengths: learn from others' strengths and make up for your own shortcomings. When communicating with friends, treat everyone with a humble and friendly attitude.

Treat your friends as teachers, blend useful knowledge with humorous words, and what you say will be praised, and what you hear will be learned.

6. Be concise and concise: conciseness can make people happy, make people like, and make people easy to accept. Verbosity and cumbersomeness will confuse and annoy you, and you will miss your goal. A concise and clear tone will definitely make you do more with less.

7. Never be arrogant: often talk about your strengths and show off your advantages in front of others. This invisibly devalues others and exalts yourself, and the result is that others look down on you more.

8. Never complain: Complaining will make you lose credibility. When you don't succeed in what you do, you have the courage to admit your shortcomings and try to make things work out.

Moderate self-examination will not make people look down on you, on the contrary, always emphasize objective reasons, complaining about this, complaining about that, will only make others despise you.

9. Don't lie and lose trust: Lying to friends and colleagues will lose the trust of friends and colleagues, so that friends and colleagues will never believe in you again, which is your biggest loss. We must avoid big words, we must do what we say, and we would rather not say what we can't do.

10. Be far-sighted: When wealth is prosperous, you should think of poverty, which is easy to do. Smart people prepare for winter. Be sure to make more friends. Maintain good relationships with friends and colleagues, and one day you will value people or things that don't seem important right now.

Kindness, honesty, morality, quality.

1. Big mouth, saying bad things about others everywhere, and calculating.

2. Dishonesty, unfilial piety, dishonesty, and many ......

3. I can't speak, I can't do things, I have no conscience, and I don't know how to learn about Entu.

4. She likes to talk back, and she will say a word when others say it.

5. Like to speak loudly.

You tell her something, and he screams out loud, which is embarrassing.

6. Regard the kindness of others as cowardice, and the humility of others as the capital of your wanton behavior.

No matter how hot the heart is, it will cool, and no matter how big the measurement, there will be an intolerable day.

7. Throw your little temper at others.

At home, you are the little prince and princess of your parents, but outside, no one needs to look at your face, they can completely abandon you and leave you alone.

8. Gossip about others behind your back.

Other people's business is always someone else's, what does it have to do with you? You won't say anything more, but you will always leave people with a handle.

9. Laugh at others.

Laughing at others is a manifestation of your low quality, why should you lower your worth because of the ignorance of others.

10. Complain that others are indifferent to you and don't pay enough attention to you. In your heart, there is also a division of people into three, six, nine, and so on.

Ask my boyfriend Something happened to my family and my mom was very badly injured and told her she didn't say a word of comfort and didn't reply to me until late I was angry She said that it was hypocritical to comfort people.

The first answer is that for quiet and clean, people with good character will not choose absolute quiet and absolute cleanliness casually, and people with bad character will choose absolute quiet and absolute cleanliness without consideration.

Second, in terms of attitude towards doing things, people with good character will not be treated so-so, and people with bad character will only be lazy.

Third, in terms of dealing with people, people with good character will not deceive others casually, and people with bad character will blindly treat people who are easy to deceive as fools.

Fourth, in terms of image, people with good character always pay attention to their image in front of others, and people with bad character do not care what kind of image they show in front of others.

Fifth, in terms of words and deeds, people with good character will not casually say that others are not, and people with bad character will always smear their so-called unaccustomed people.

Ask if this is a character issue or if you don't know how to be a person.

I don't know how to be sophisticated.

Question: My dad died, I didn't tell him, but the people around me should have told him, and he didn't call me.

Question: That's an ex-boyfriend, and my friend said he had a character problem, but I don't think he can be a human being.

Thank you, teacher. Answering whether there is a problem with character, in fact, it is easier to see from many aspects, such as some details, whether he respects the old and loves the young, will he close the door quietly, this kind of small details can be seen, if you can't be a person, the difference is relatively big, others are very rude, it's one of the good things, now it's an ex-boyfriend, stop loss in time, I wish you better and better

1. Big mouth, saying bad things about others everywhere, calculating, 2. Dishonesty, unfilial piety, dishonesty, and many more.

3. I can't speak, I can't do things, I have no conscience, and I don't know how to learn about Entu.

4. She likes to talk back, and she will say a word when others say it.

5. Like to talk loudly, that is, if you tell her something, he will scream loudly, which is very embarrassing or something.

6. You can't tell the difference between joking and talking seriously, sometimes when it's an obvious joke, they will think that you are sarcastic about her, so they will scold her. All kinds of tiredness!!

7. I was influenced by them when I played with them before, and I tried this before- Later, when I offended people, I knew that something was wrong and began to alienate them ......

8. Don't take the kindness of others as cowardice, and the humility of others as the capital of your wanton behavior. No matter how hot the heart is, it will cool, and no matter how big the measurement, there will be an intolerable day.

9. Don't always be so arrogant and unruly, when you claim to be the pride of the sky, you may only be like dust on the soles of your feet in the eyes of others.

10. Don't mess with others about your little temper, at home you are the little prince and princess of your parents, but outside, no one needs to look at your face, you can completely abandon you and leave you alone.

11. Don't gossip about others behind your back, other people's affairs are always someone else's, and you will do it, you won't have anything more, but you will always leave a handle for people.

12. Don't laugh at anyone, that's the embodiment of your low quality, why should you reduce your worth because of the ignorance of others.

13. Don't make excuses for your mistakes, a mistake is a mistake, and no matter how much you whitewash it, it's futile. Explanation is disguise, and disguise is the beginning of a mistake.

14. Don't complain that others are indifferent to you and don't pay enough attention to you, because in your heart there is also a division of people into three, six, nine and so on.

15. Don't resent God's injustice, God is fair to everyone, but your youth is gradually passing away in your sorrow.

If you don't know how to be a person, in fact, your emotional intelligence will be relatively low:

1.Make loud noises in public places. Completely indifferent to other people's feelings, only concerned about their own actions.

2.Littering, damaging public goods.

3.It's not the one who talks about others behind their backs.

4.He doesn't trust people very much, and he is always suspicious of what others think of him.

5.Everything is to think about yourself first, and you are more selfish.

6.Speak very directly, hit the shortcomings of others, and do not give others face7I don't know how to respect others, and I don't know how to respect the old and love the young.

8.One set on the surface, one set on the inside, is not good to others from the heart.

9.Often quarrels with people and is unreasonable.

10.I don't understand the world of people, and compare myself.

In the process of communicating together, I always love to drill the horns. I don't put myself in the other person's shoes when I'm chatting. Do things in a calculating way and so on.

It's all bad performance, and it needs to be improved slowly.

There are also bullying others, bullying the big and the small, doing the same hard things as others, thinking that they are the hardest, and not considering how hard others are.

Those who speak badly will not behave in the world.

The performance of not being a human being is: often suspecting that what others are doing harbors bad motives, narrow-mindedness, and difficult to get along with. Treat life events with a complaining attitude, reminisce about the past, and seldom be satisfied.

In addition to this, other manifestations include trying to please everyone, and as a result, they have to act by the faces of others.

I wanted to curry favor with all sides, but it turned out that I was not a person inside and out. I don't want to do small things, and I can't do big things. Refuse to try new ways of life and work. Take a passive approach to life. There is no beginning and no end to doing things, and you have to think differently. Nothing can never be taken seriously.

Life goals are too high, detached from reality, and still unable to achieve them after a long struggle. As a result, frustration and depression inevitably arise. There is no standard of being a man, and the grass on the wall falls with the wind all day long. Obey others in everything, never have personal opinions, etc.

The last thing we want in our lives is for our efforts to become meaningless.

What we don't want to see is that our efforts are meaningful, but they become "other people's meaning".

Taking the credit of others for one's own use is not only a moral issue, but also a manifestation of inferior quality.

I believe that no one will be unclear about the fact that people are different from each other.

Since they are different, it is normal for them to have different personalities and ideas.

Seeking common ground while reserving differences, putting aside disputes and living in harmony is not a difficult issue to understand.

But there are always some people who ask others to agree with themselves, otherwise they will use all kinds of sarcasm or imply that the other party does not understand the so-called "true meaning of life" at all.

If you don't agree with him, he will attack you, as if you don't agree with him as if you were his enemy.

Everyone understands the truth of compromising reality, but not everyone understands the truth of compromising the status quo:

1. Disrespect for others, blind arrogance.

2. Speaking without credibility and lying repeatedly.

3. I love to show off and talk exaggeratedly.

4. Yang and Yin are violated, and the outside is inconsistent.

5. There is no principle to violate the law and discipline.

6. Bullying has no love.

7. Pride and arrogance and self-righteousness.

8. Treacherous, cunning and hypocritical.

9. No literacy, no upbringing.

10. Vulgar language has no connotation.

The three major responsibilities of being a man].

The three responsibilities of being a man: make your parents proud, make your woman the happiest, and maintain a noble soul;

The three responsibilities of being a woman: take care of the family, make your man the happiest, and maintain your extraordinary and unique self!

7 trump cards of being a man] Reliable - the golden sign of being a man; Broad-minded - to be able to tolerate people in order to accommodate the world; Good tie-up - left and right can be smooth in everything; Thick and refined - to be kind, to be shrewd; High-mindedness - ambitious, angry is better than fighting; Good to work together - seek common ground while reserving differences, it is difficult to achieve the climate alone; Be able to do things - to be a man must have several real skills.

Be a man] When there is adversity in life, remember to be patient; When life is good, remember to be restrained; When life is proud, remember to be bearish; When you are disappointed in life, remember to follow fate; When you are in a bad mood, you need to be self-contained; When you're in a good mood, you need to dive.

Selfish, ungrateful, no manners, no quality.

1: I don't know how to be grateful.

2: Unfilial piety.

3: I don't know how to be satisfied.

4: Not motivated.

5: No sense of responsibility.