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It's a good thing for a friend to talk to you about everything, which means that he has a good relationship with you, but if your friend is too verbose and can't stop, it may make you feel distressed, because you have a lot of things to do, and you may feel that chatting like that is a waste of time, but you are embarrassed to directly reject the friend who is chatting with you, then you can think of some indirect ways to reject your friend.
When your friend is chatting, you can suddenly be silent and don't make any response, it's best to pretend that you can't hear your friend's words, let your friend talk there, and soon your friend will find out about this situation, and may know that you are not interested in his chat content or know that you don't want to chat, and you don't have any meaning to talk alone, and if no one listens to the words is no different from a person talking to yourself, your friend will stop chatting with you. It's rude to your friends, but you won't mind.
If you don't think you can do something like that, you can do that, if you have someone else around you, you just pretend to talk to that person, and talk about things that your friend is not interested in, and you rarely respond to your friend, and slowly your friend won't interject or even talk. Or you can deliberately take out your mobile phone and use the chat tool to chat with others, and it is becoming more and more popular, and respond casually or not to your friends, no one will be bored and continue to chat with a person who does not respond to them, and there will be no chatter and non-stop. There is also the fact that you suddenly pretend to say that you have forgotten that you have something, or deliberately answer a **, just explain it to your friend, and then you can end the chat with your friend.
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Everyone has some friends around them, and some people have to talk to their friends every day. But not everyone likes to chat, and some people feel that talking to friends is a waste of time. But they themselves don't know what to do.
I think, first of all, you need to calm your mindset. Why do you feel that your friend is wasting time talking to you, and make your own reason or the other person's reason? If it's your own reason, then you should try to change yourself.
But if it's the other party's reason, we can hint at them or point out the other person's problem directly.
Then, ask yourself what you think your friend should look like. Some people make friends because friends can bring us help and happiness, when we are usually bored, we can talk to friends, have fun, and pass some time by the way, otherwise what is the difference between friends and strangers on the road. And the relationship between friends needs to be maintained, and it requires the joint efforts of both parties.
To maintain a relationship, communication between both parties is essential, and we can get a lot of information from the other person's language. Even if the relationship between two people is close, but there is nothing to say, then the relationship between the two people will become weaker and weaker, and eventually become strangers.
Moreover, when a friend talks to him, sometimes the other party needs his help when he encounters something. Then we can listen carefully to what they have to say and then help them. When their problems are solved, they will naturally stop bothering themselves.
In our conversations, we can also express our own opinions, practices and attitudes. The other party may be "infected" subtly, and gradually become the same as himself, so he will not dislike the other party.
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It's a good thing that my friend talks to me about everything, but I think it's a bad attitude if I think my friend is talking to me about everything, it's a waste of time. This is something that my friends think is not good. When a person feels that his friend feels that he is wasting time talking to him, this is the coldness of a person's heart.
This will discourage a good friend's friendship with him.
If I encounter this situation, it is a situation where my friend and I have nothing to talk about. I'll feel very honored. When you feel that you feel that you have an unreserved attitude in front of your friends, don't you feel that this is your own honor, a person can talk about everything about himself, I feel that it is a person's trust in himself.
I would be very honored to have a good friend in the world who can trust me so much. In addition to my family, I am very, very happy to be able to trust my friends so much. I don't think it's a waste of my time.
Just imagine, how many people in a person's world can meet who can have a situation where they have nothing to talk about, which is a happy thing. When you feel that sometimes you can't find someone to talk to, your loneliness will definitely come naturally. At this time, I think it will be a little difficult to find someone to talk to me.
Then at that time, you will feel that when your friends and you have nothing to talk about, it is not a waste of time at all. So when a friend talks to you about everything, you should feel that this is a happy time.
So don't be in the midst of blessings and don't know blessings, this is your own sad thing. So when a friend talks to you about everything, don't feel like a waste of time, you should be happy.
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I think you have to understand each other at this time, because at this time your good friend can tell you anything, so it proves that your good friend has a confidence in you, and then your good friend likes you, so I can't say that you reject your good friend too directly at this time, because I think at this time, I will have a very bad impression of you when you directly reject a good friend, so at this time, it will be very bad for your personal interpersonal relationship to deal with. Therefore, you must not directly refuse others at this time, which is very rude. <>
And then if you really think that these things are particularly interesting and a waste of your time, then I think at this time you can communicate with your friend and believe that he will also understand you, many times you have to be busy with some of your own things, so I think at this time, if you are really busy and have a lot of things to do, then at this time you directly make it clear to him that he will also understand you, I believe that friends will understand each other, Because as long as there is mutual understanding, two people will do something better between them.
At this time, you must pay attention to your etiquette and your behavior, because only in this way will you do some behaviors to be more good to your friends, produce a good effect, so that your friends will not think that you are a very bad person, so that your friends will not have a big opinion on you, and I think your friend is really worth your friends, because he said a lot of things to you at this time, That means that she actually trusts you unreservedly to have such a friend, which is actually really very good, and you have to cherish it.
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Feelings also take time to cultivate, don't friends complain about each other?
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You have to know that your friends talk to you as the closest person, and you feel that you are wasting time mostly because you don't treat him as a good friend, a good friend is to learn to listen.
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Time is money, tell him that wasting other people's time is to kill him.
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I don't think it's good for you to do this, after all, he is your friend, and telling you everything proves that he trusts you.
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You still have to adjust your mentality, people will tell you this when they treat you as a friend, you have to be patient, otherwise you will definitely regret losing such a good friend.
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Treat you as a true friend, and if you speak from your heart, you should enlighten her well, how can you feel that you are wasting time? Personally, I think your friend is very irresponsible.
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Sometimes people don't know the blessings in the blessings, friends are to make friends, whether it is work or friendship, it is necessary to take good care of it with heart and time to get better and better.
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