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Hello, if you like it, you like it, what should I do? If you have a woman in your forties who is acceptable in your selection criteria, then see if the other person is also interested in you. Best wishes.
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This is just a kind of segregation, and it does not mean that all young people have such preferences, everyone's preferences are different, and of course, everyone's position is different, so they will be very different in terms of choosing a mate, and in terms of who they like.
Maybe some young people like the older woman because this woman can give a lot of help in terms of economy and material, and this young man wants to get something for nothing and saves a lot of effort, so he will naturally make such a choice.
Of course, it is also possible that this older woman has a lot of charm, although she is older, but we do not belong to young girls in terms of strength, which will naturally lead to young people liking women in this area, which is understandable, because after all, the strength is there.
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Every woman likes different men, some people like men who are a little older, some people like people who are the same age, and some people like people who are much younger than themselves, this is the radish and cabbage have their own love. Most of them will choose some mature and stable men who are older, because middle-aged women have lived most of their lives and are more calm.
Most people like older men and middle-aged women have experienced a lot of things and have seen through some things, and they will no longer pursue some flashy things and people like young people. Women of this age group will basically find men who have economic conditions, a stable life, and a good personality, because they just want to live the rest of their lives and accompany each other well. Women over 45 will find a person around 50 to 60 years old, too young men, they can't grasp themselves, and the other party is immature, so most women over 45 years old like some older men.
There are many such examples around, they live very happily, and the two of them go out to travel together and have a good time.
There is a small number of people who like to find <> with their peers
Still influenced by traditional concepts, women like to find someone of the same age, feel that there is a common language, and two people can speak together. Women mainly think from the perspective of their own feelings, but in reality, they will face a problem when they find their peers, that is, most of the men of this age have a heavy burden, the children do not have a family, most of them are studying, and after women enter the door, they will face the problem of getting along with their stepsons and stepmothers. There are fewer people who get along well, because the ideal is always very plump, the reality is always very skinny, and there will always be such and such problems.
There are also a small number of people who like men who are younger than themselves <>
Now some people just like to find young men, because they feel that they have had a divorce experience, so if they want to find a man with children, they will not have the same heart with themselves, and it is easy to get along with problems. So I wanted to find a man younger than myself and avoided a lot of contradictions. However, life is your own, and whether you can get along well or not needs to be managed separately.
Forty is not confused, whether it is a man or a woman, you should be rational and calm to deal with your emotional problems, and whoever you like is fate. As long as you think about it, go boldly pursue it, maybe the other party is your true destiny.
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When a single woman reaches the corresponding age, the man who likes how old he likes will change accordingly, especially a woman in her forties, who will make a large adjustment, perhaps being single for a long time is not fanning the flames, but rather fanning the flames.
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In recent years, young men who like women in their fifties have shown an unabated trend, which shows that women in their fifties contain great charm, and the charm will exude a strong attraction, otherwise young men will turn a blind eye, women in their fifties have experienced the splendor of summer flowers, as if stepping into autumn leaves, and the sunset will make men feel infinitely better.
1. Women in their fifties have both free and idle money.
Young men who like women in their fifties are very likely to fancy the economic foundation of women in their fifties, and have retired, and their pensions will bring a steady stream of income, although men do not eat soft rice, but they will take into account the amount of bread or bread in advance while having love, young men will make realistic and practical choices, either struggle for a few years or will relieve the economic pressure of daily life, not only young women will marry older men out of material considerations, And young men will still marry older women out of material considerations.
2. Lack of innate maternal love.
Some men are extremely lacking in innate maternal love, so they will like women who are twenty or thirty years older than themselves, and men who often lose their maternal love since childhood are most likely to love women in their fifties, who can be cared for by women in their fifties and considerate by women in their fifties, although there is no innate maternal love, but can create or create acquired maternal love, whether it is a woman in her fifties or a woman in her forties, it will be in the scope of consideration, It is impossible for a man who has always had innate maternal love from childhood to adulthood to experience the bitterness of not having maternal love since childhood.
Women in their thirties and fifties have a taste.
The so-called taste is feminine, women are like this, the older they are, the more femininity will increase, both men and women need to practice, the longer the years of cultivation, the greater the invisible and seductive taste, as for men in their fifties who are popular with young women, in fact, the principle is the same, life should treat people and things is from strange to familiar, until practice makes perfect, women in their fifties will have both connotation and heritage, although no longer like flowers, but external beauty and inner beauty will disappear from the other, Inner beauty will gradually replace external beauty, external beauty will decline with age, inner beauty is increasing day by day, and young men will naturally be attracted to deep inner beauty.
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Her maturity appeals to you.
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40 years old can make others look at you intently. A 40-year-old woman is able to attract you with an elegant temperament. So this kind of woman generally gives people the feeling that she has a taste in her lifestyle, and she is much younger than the age of 40, so this kind of woman who can live and dress up.
Therefore, it will attract the attention of some men. So when you like this 40-year-old woman. It is also very in line with men's aesthetic psychology.
But what I want to say is that if there must be an age gap between this 40-year-old woman and you, you'd better give up on that idea. Because this 40-year-old woman may only look at you on the surface. In fact, the two of you may not be able to get along together, so I said that it is better to think calmly, but don't easily pursue it very much.
On the road of love, everyone will be full of confidence at the beginning. But who can withstand the test of love marriage and real life? That's why I say that as a young person, don't choose a woman who is much older than you.
A 40-year-old woman is about to enter menopause, and a 40-year-old woman is already a middle-aged person, and she often values a sense of security when it comes to marriage. So your quest may not be rewarded. So I said it would be better to dispel that thought.
If you are really lovesick and can't forget this 40-year-old woman, then I think you should get in touch with her slowly, and see how her temper is and how she behaves in life. If it's really late and your request, I think as long as you can promise to treat people sincerely, then show your sincerity, I think this woman will be moved by you, and in the end it will really succeed.
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It seems that you are unrequited love, find someone to pour out the melancholy in your heart, and you must learn to retreat bravely. If you find that you like someone who doesn't like you, you must dispel the "mirage" of love, get rid of the illusory love network you weave as soon as possible, and use the power of reason to get emotional relief. It is very unwise to blindly pursue others, or indulge in the quagmire of unrequited love and hunger, which will only lower your personality and make others look down on you.
Since she has said that she doesn't want to fall in love, then you can't force it, right? But there are no absolutes in everything, you can also test it to see how she reacts, if it really doesn't work, I think you have to give up!