What can I do to make myself more cheerful? Eloquence is better!?

First of all, what we need to do to change is to at least understand ourselves and try to talk to our souls. We have to ask ourselves a few questions:

1. Who am I? Who the hell am I? Why did I become the "me" I am today, all the "me", whether excellent or lame, are actually not the real me!

Is that right? For example, I was a person that everyone liked at that time, and I am a person that everyone hates now, so which is the real "me". Friend, let me tell you, your true self has never changed, it is just a natural and unnatural reaction in order to adapt to the current environment.

So, we have to recall the original "me" and put all the extra things down, just like you did when you were born. Nothing belongs to the original you, no matter how unsatisfactory it is, it doesn't belong to you, let it go!

2. Since you have found your true self, everything is malleable. It means that yesterday's is history, it will no longer affect you, you have to start over, give yourself a suitable goal, as long as you are willing to work hard, everything can change.

3. At this point, the rest of the world is too simple! Isn't it eloquence, since you have cleared everything you have, like a glass, you have poured out all the water in it, you can accept the new one!

There are many ways, I won't repeat them here, believe in yourself, you can definitely do it!

I used to be very introverted, but I had to overcome it, I went out to exercise on my own, I didn't have the opportunity to create opportunities, I was more with cheerful people, I did sales work, and I was rejected to go again. Slowly, the personality changed.

Find someone to brag about it.

Hello friends, first of all, through your questions, you can see that you are a motivated person, but I personally think that you need to take action with self-motivation, you can be confident in your usual life and study, communicate more with your friends, treat your friends with a sincere heart, and usually participate in more group activities, if you like literature, you can read some celebrity speeches and other books, such as motivational speeches, Jobs' speeches, etc., so that you will get a lot of exercise and improvement invisibly, I wish you a happy life!

Be bold, peaceful, optimistic, and friendly. Getting along with people can also exercise your eloquence.

Try to communicate with others and get out into the crowd.