After the breakup, she had a better life than me. I can t stand the fact that the other party is bet

Updated on psychology 2024-05-27
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Kindness.. How can she hurt you so much and say you can be friends.

    I can only tell you that this person is not worthy of your love so deeply, and don't be a so-called friend with her. Obviously, she doesn't have any feelings for you anymore.

    As for your pain and inextricability, it should be understandable, especially the first love, I also have a first love, and I can't extricate myself, but time can solve everything, and you tell yourself deeply, she doesn't love me anymore, she is not worthy of my love, you have to find the person who is worthy of your love. I think the first thing you have to do is to be ruthless, cut off contact with her, and then put your energy into other things, to find your own girl. Trust me, it won't be long before you're out of it.

    Finally, I wish you to find your own half as soon as possible, let go of what is not worthy of love, for such a woman, don't even be a friend, and men should be ruthless. good luck~

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    To be honest, I advise you not to think about her anymore, because she feels very happy now, this is also what you want to see, if you can't be a couple, you can at least be friends, and some can't even be friends, at least you can still watch her happy, although you will be sad. But at least you know about her, don't you? Give blessings, make up for love with love!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's going to be a long time, and she's not a good woman to hear from you. Looking for something fresh, there will be a breakup in about 3 or 4 months.

    Again, I'm talking about distraction. Can listening to sad love songs numb? You should listen to festive songs. That's how first love is.

    You might as well take the time to reflect on how to replace a woman.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Two approaches. 1。Suicide.

    2.Live well.

    There's no love at all these days, it's just that the two of you are together. It's as if the two of them also happen to be together. It's not that you're bad, it's that he doesn't know how to cherish it, and you're not used to it. Or can't you live without her, man? I can't even put it down.

    If you want something, let him go, he can come back to you, he will always be yours, if he doesn't look for you, it's not yours at all.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you look at this kind of thing, you will live better than her.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

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  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    <>This is the mentality that everyone will have, the happiness that you didn't get when you were with me, I hope you can't get it from anyone in the end, in fact, this is because our memories are too sweet, and everything in the past cannot be replaced by anyone, so if you can still live well now, it means that everything before is denied. When something is appreciated or accepted by the other party, two people will come together. On the contrary, what one party says and does is not appreciated or accepted by the other party, and there are not a few people who break up through this kind of love that does not produce feelings through communication.

    In the end, the rejected party is often narrow-minded, afraid that the other party will live too well and forget about himself.

    The second way is to forget, let go of the past, it has nothing to do with you whether your ex is good or not, your ex is like a stranger, we can't control the life of a stranger, it's better not to think about it, and live your own life. Since you love each other, you want each other to be happy and happy. Even if you break up, you should bless her (him), after all, you have had a relationship with each other.

    If the other person is not doing well, what can she (or he) do if she (he) can still remember you? Everything is a thing of the past. If you want her (him) to have a bad time just because you are afraid that the other person will forget you, it is really too selfish.

    I think this mentality may be caused by my own lack of self-confidence. If the lover has no fate to the end, we should not blame him or blame ourselves, the relationship needs to be run-in, and of course, both parties need to work together to have a good result. Some people will have this kind of thought, and it is normal, after all, two people have been together, generally this situation is at the beginning of this thought, separated if they are better than themselves, some people are unbalanced, so it doesn't matter if they have a long time, everything will not care so much, time is **something that people can't give up, <>

    This should not be selfishness, it is self-esteem.

    Let's do it. We all hope that we have a place in each other's hearts, even if we break up, we don't want to be forgotten by each other, which is an affirmation of our own value! However, they all broke up, so let's live the days ahead, and the past is better for everyone to forget!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This is a normal emotion. People are jealous of others, and after a breakup, when they see that the other party is doing better than themselves, they will be particularly disappointed and difficult to resolve. In fact, it would be better to focus on yourself, since you broke up, you don't have to pay attention anymore.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because of jealousy, resentment, and don't want the other party to live more than themselves, so they don't want the other party to live better than themselves, and many people think like this.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    That's because there is a jealousy psychology in my heart, and it's also because I still love each other, so I have such a psychology.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Maybe it's because of jealousy, if the other party is away from him, he will be better off, as if he is delaying the other party.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This is because they haven't come out of this relationship yet, and they don't want the other person to start a new life, and they really want to get back together with the other person.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's because there is some imbalance in my heart, because the two people were together before, but after separation, the other party lived better than me, so I was a little unhappy in my heart.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This stems from a kind of jealousy, which will make you feel that the other party is living so well without you, and she is very unwilling, so she can't stand it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think such people are more calculating. And it's the kind that is more narrow-minded, and may have been hurt in the relationship and want to take revenge on the other party.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The two were together before, but because of the breakup, the two felt that they didn't have their company after they separated, so they hoped that he would not have a good time, and they would think of themselves.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because you are very unwilling to this relationship, and you are more competitive, so you will feel this way.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Because this will make you look like a failure, and it will also make you feel that the other person is laughing at you. So I can't get over that hurdle in my heart.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This is because of unwillingness, people with this kind of psychology should not have let go of this relationship.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Summary. <>

    Hello dear! We're happy to answer for you! Whether you want to be better off than her or worse than her in a breakup is answered as follows: My dear, I must be better off than her after a breakup! The work is better than her, the money is more than her, the life is better than her, and the lover is better than her.

    Break up is better than her or worse than her.

    Hello dear! We're happy to answer for you! The breakup is better than her or worse than her, and the answer for you is as follows:

    My dear, after the breakup, I will definitely have a better life than her! Work is better than her, she earns more money than her, her life is more nourishing than her, and her lover is better than her.

    After the breakup, if you are still standing in place to compare, the other party has already left you behind, after the breakup, there are always many people who will be unwilling, always want to win each other in some aspects, you want to win the other party, but you lost yourself, zui A good breakup state is to let the past pass, let the future come, everything is over, what happens after that person, and what does it matter to you? Be the one who originally carried the number and prepare to accept new love.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I thought that after breaking up, we would not see each other again, but I didn't expect you to appear in front of me again when my mood calmed down a little.

    The most ridiculous thing is that you, who hurt me the most, actually cared about me and asked me, are you doing these days?

    If you're really worried about me, then ask yourself, what would happen to you if you were hurt?

    Before you speak, can you ask yourself how you treated me in the past, and have you ever thought about how much my heart hurts?

    Do you think that the current me still has anything to do with you?

    If you find it in your conscience, then please stay away from me, in my heart, you are not even qualified to apologize; If you think we can continue, then I can tell you very clearly that even if you are the only one left in the world, I will not choose you again.

    You can see yourself as supreme, but in my heart, you're nothing.

    It's not that I'm scheming and narrow-minded, it's what you've done to slander your image, and there are some things that can be made up for by not saying sorry.

    At this time, your shh

    If there is a trace of love for me in your heart, then please respect and love yourself.

    Love is not an item, if it is lost, it can be found and replaced, since you betrayed me, you no longer belong to me, and it is not allowed to be returned for life.

    In my life, I don't think about what you will do to me tomorrow, I just want to remember everything that happened yesterday so that I can be worthy of myself.

    It's enough for you to hurt me once in this life, and there will be no more accidents, otherwise I will blame myself.

    Don't say sorry if you love, and don't dwell on it if you miss it.

    If you feel lonely now, then please find another place to seek warmth, don't waste your precious time with me, don't forget, I am still the person you used to not like.

    If, for example, you want to know how I'm doing, then I can tell you without hesitation that I'm doing well without you.

    I don't know if you're satisfied with my words, but I'm telling the truth, it's better to live quietly alone than to be scarred.

    There is nothing wrong with the heart as if it is water, at least it is better than being hurt, thank you, you can still think of me in your lifetime, however, please don't be too careful in the future, I hope you will give your warmth to those who need you, and my world is not lacking in you. end

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