It s so hard to love someone, ask everyone for help and come up with ideas

Coincidentally, I'm in the same situation as the landlord, and I'm not interested in making up this kind of thing.

We are also 4 circles of friends, 1 woman and 3 men, we also have dinner every three or five times, but the time is not as long as the landlord's, just more than a year.

We were together, it should have been an outburst at a bar, she was almost drunk, and then she was very sad, crying profusely, and she was very uncomfortable at the time, holding her, because a girlfriend sold her for a man.

Why do you say that it broke out?,Because of our 3 men, the other one I think he is a brother.,I also like her.,And in the open.,Chased for a long time.,And after that,Me and her are in the dark.,When there's someone.,We don't talk at all.,Lukewarm.,Only when there's no one.,This feeling of underground romance.,Every time I see the other brother chasing her.,I'm very conflicted.,Can our relationship only be in secret?,I don't want to destroy the friendship between the four of us.。

Until I reply to the landlord now, she and I have been in secret.

I told my story to tell the landlord that if she was willing to be your girlfriend, did you ever think that it would be me.

You say that your friends have the right to you, that you have good conditions, good looks, family, and character, then I tell you, those are all floating clouds, and if you like a person, sometimes you don't need so many external things, some people may refute that it is now a real society, I can only say that men only need to be motivated, poor for a while. I've been in love for 6 years, are you willing to give it up like this? You can't forget her.

Can you ask her to go to a movie alone, have a meal, and send a flower by the way? She accepted your flowers, and I guess you didn't just hold a hand by the way? More together, take care of it, I think your relationship is still very good, she is just afraid that your liking is just a temporary heat, you have to prove that you are dead set on her, you know?

Then act and wish you all happiness.

Work hard, confess your true feelings with your own heart, and don't be afraid of rejection, because if you don't try, no one knows what the next answer is. Say everything you want to say to her. FYI. Here's my best wishes.

As a boy, you can take the initiative, how can a girl be so easy to comply, how can she know if you will cherish her without testing you, since love is bold to chase it, maybe she really wants to see your efforts for her, believe in yourself, you must be able to, come on!