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From the perspective of social issues, it is not easy to answer which one will benefit, but the coexistence of the two is also creative. But from the point of view of people, the phenomenon of slippery heads on people is of course not good, and the hatred that exists in people's hearts is only a psychological problem, and what is the difference between those who are kind and talk about benefits, it has nothing to do with God's gift and does not talk about anything; And "kindness" has always been the spirit of the nation's fine tradition, if you want to talk about benefits, it is also in this traditional spirit of encouragement and praise, is a spiritual illusory item. For example, "good people and good luck" in terms of kindness, "retribution for the wicked" in terms of slippery heads, etc.; It's encouragement and sarcasm, not what the actual problem is talking about.
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Don't be too shrewd and calculating, otherwise you won't be able to make true friends, and you won't get everyone's respect and recognition. People who only see the small interests in front of them can't do big things, and they can't become big things.
On the contrary, people who are more practical and down-to-earth may ignore some small interests, but this kind of person can often focus on their own career and eventually achieve something.
You can look at Game Theory, and this kind of problem is not difficult.
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How to say it, both can get benefits, the different thing can only be Diao Min, what is said upstairs is very good, as long as you have a clear conscience.
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I don't think you can be beaten to death with a stick, sometimes you have to be kind, sometimes you have to be left and right to slip your head, now this society is very realistic, too kind of kindness will suffer, too slippery head will also fall, depending on what kind of occasion and what kind of person. No matter what you do, as long as you want to be worthy of my heart, you can do it.
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It depends on what kind of person you associate with, you have to be more slippery than him to someone who is very slippery
Treat people who are sincere to you, you also have to be sincere to others, of course, I think a person is kind or slippery, not you can think about it, most of them are due to personality, and the acquired influence slowly changes.
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It varies from person to person, time to place, and different manifestations have different effects on different occasions.
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What ways to make your life better.
You just do it.
In this society, there is no absolute right or wrong, only relative, and everything you do has only one purpose.
Make your life better.
Success is the last word, and the process is not very important.
Bless you.
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