Do people always have to hurt others to be happy?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No! People with a little conscience will feel sorry for themselves for hurting others, sometimes unintentionally, really not intentionally. There may also be those who deliberately hurt others.

    What we can do in this situation is to be happier than him, and not to punish ourselves for other people's mistakes is the most important thing.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I just don't want to be ignored and can't find the right reason for the right way.

    Sometimes, when I say something excessive, I actually regret it before I even say it, but I still do what I say...

    Hurt, it's fine, as long as he still knows that he exists, even if it's disgust.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There is a saying that seems to be "pain and happiness". This sentence not only refers to those who take hurting others as their happiness, but also points out the helplessness in real life. Either you eat someone else, or someone else eats you.

    In order to survive, we have to act in a way that hurts others. After a long time, I lost trust in the people around me. I don't know if LZ is emotionally rubbed or interpersonally.

    Personally, I am very forced to look at the people that lz said, since I don't like others, don't care about other people's affairs. And don't hurt anyone! You live yours, I live mine.

    Isn't it good that our well water doesn't interfere with river water? Therefore, if LZ is hurt, don't be sad, this kind of person who builds his happiness on the pain of others is not worth nostalgia.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't think so. It's just that most people can only hurt others in order to protect themselves, which is natural. Although it is said that it is happy to help others, it must always be under the premise of doing what you can and not reluctantly.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Ever heard of Belrona's Laws of Logic? This is a tragic proposition that cannot be defined and cannot be reversed.

    People are always hurting each other.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No! It should be said that sometimes it is not possible.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think hurting others is in a sense to reduce the number of people who compete with you, but this is usually a deception to your own brain, because maybe it is not, he wants you to agree with him because he can't be sure if someone else is really worse than him, but if you can agree with him, he will think that it is not my subjective emotion, and it is objectively confirmed. In general, a large part of the reason for this comes from their own low self-esteem. It takes belittling others to gain self-confidence.

    This is a way for people to evolve to gain a sense of security, but once it is excessive, it can cause people to develop a sick psychology.

    On the other hand, he may only belittle the people around him, and he may have great admiration for idols and celebrities, because on the one hand, he needs this kind of high-profile person to bring him a sense of security. On the other hand, because the distance between him and celebrities is too large, the interests between him will not be involved, so he does not overly belittle.

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