What kind of man and woman are suitable for husband and wife

Only those who have fate can be husband and wife.

First, each other is the kind of person who doesn't give up easily.

Life is not easy, and we will inevitably encounter all kinds of unpleasant and bad things, which must be different from the days we imagined at the beginning. If one side is not mature enough and always wants to give up because of a little disappointment, then it will only make the other party tired, and it will not last long.

Second, each is the kind of person who can affirm the other.

People go to higher places, and water flows to lower places. A good marriage requires the husband and wife to grow together, and in the process of growing up, the most inseparable thing is the affirmation and support of the other party, as well as comfort.

Third, each side can accept each other's three views.

Three views are the key to determining whether two people are suitable. People who don't agree with each other don't seem to be people from the same world, and that kind of life is very tiring and hard, and even quarrels are not on the same channel. Two people don't understand each other and don't accept each other, no matter how good the relationship is, it's in vain.

Fourth, each is able to accept each other's family.

Feelings are a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families. If they only reluctantly accept each other's families at the beginning, then in the later days, they will only become the fuse of the relationship between the two people at a certain moment. Under the impact of so many trivial things, feelings always seem so vulnerable.

Fifth, each other's pursuits can be consistent and unified.

When two people are together, only when they pursue the same goal and goals, can they work together in one direction. To put it bluntly, after getting married, what kind of life do you want to live, and what kind of life does the other party want.

Sixth, we can have a common hobby with each other.

All intimate relationships are maintained on the basis that both parties have a common language, can talk and play. Husband and wife, only because they can play with each other, promote the relationship to get better and closer, on the contrary, slowly estranged and slowly moved away.

Seventh, they can communicate with each other and have the ability to make money.

Feelings are the foundation of marriage, and communication is the foundation of feelings, not afraid of problems between husband and wife, afraid that husband and wife can not solve problems, do not know how to communicate. As for the ability to make money, it refers to whether the husband and wife have the ability to carry the family and have the basic material economy as the foundation of marriage.

Fully understand and trust each other; Knowing each other is a basic prerequisite for interpersonal communication. The basic premise of being a husband and wife is to understand each other, not to understand each other, the other party's family, education level, personality, personality traits, living habits, etc., should have a full understanding. When people don't know enough, if you can accept what you know, you can still fully trust each other, without trust there is no relationship, and couples should be even more so.

Summary. In real life, the reason why some marriages have a tragic ending is because one of the parties is not faithful, or even betrays the marriage, and such an act often leads to the tragedy of the marriage. Therefore, everyone should choose a partner who is dedicated to their feelings when facing marriage, women need to choose a husband who is loyal to them, and men must also choose a wife who is loyal to them, which is the key to the end of a marriage.

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Hello, I am Mr. Xiao Han, an emotional mentor, who is good at analyzing problems in marriage and family, love, psychology, interpersonal communication, etc. If it's convenient for you, tell me more about your specific situation

Hello dear kiss, a man is suitable for a woman who is dedicated to feelings, the basis of marriage is affection, husband and wife can only have a good life if they love each other, and they can also make each other love each other, so both husband and wife need to be loyal when facing emotional problems, which is a very important bottom line.

In real life, the reason why some marriages have a tragic ending is because one of the parties is not faithful, or even betrays the marriage, and such an act often leads to the tragedy of the marriage. Therefore, everyone should choose a partner who is dedicated to their feelings when facing marriage, women need to choose a husband who is loyal to them, and men must also choose a wife who is loyal to them, which is the key to the end of a marriage.

The main thing is to see how well the two people get along with each other in terms of personality, and start with several aspects, if you feel that the two people are really happy together, it is logical to get married.

1. Look at the character.

Personality is everyone's characteristic, everyone's characteristics are different, some people are born chronic, always slow and methodical, if the pace is too fast, life will be a mess, and some people's temperament is more urgent, no matter what things are always solved in a hurry, things that can be solved today will never be delayed until tomorrow, today's things are finished today, if you can't delay the problem and not solve it, you will feel uncomfortable. One fast and one slow, these are two people with complementary personalities, complementary personalities are suitable for being together, and people with the same personality are suitable for being friends. Only when the husband and wife have each other's personalities and restricts each other, can their lives be balanced and get along harmoniously.

2. Look at three views.

Whether two people are suitable for being together, the most important thing is to look at the three views, the three views of the conflict and the two people who fight filial piety are not suitable for renting and selling Qinqin together, two people have two diametrically opposed attitudes towards the same thing, how can these two kinds of people live in harmony under the same roof? Three visualizations of the conflict between the two people in their later lives will inevitably have many contradictions, resulting in family disharmony, unhappy marriage, and finally parting ways.

3. Look at the circle of friends.

As the saying goes, things gather by like, and people are grouped. Everyone has their own circle of friends, and they all have their own group of close friends. When two people are together, it means that the circle of friends of two people will become one.

If the circle of friends of two people is not compatible, it means that the future life will be full of ups and downs. If two people's circle of friends is compatible with each other, they will get along with each other more harmoniously, have more common topics, and can get along harmoniously.

You can't choose to get married because everyone around you is married, only if you find someone who has the same three views and can give you happiness can you get married

Clause. First, the three views are very important.

A person's three views are directly linked to his spiritual world, so if your spiritual world can't be the right one, then your three views may be difficult to agree, two people with different views live together, it is very tiring, and marriage will naturally be useless after a long time.

Clause. Second, the goal of life brother answers.

In marriage, the husband and wife will be able to achieve long-term harmony if they have the same life goals, but if the husband and wife are inconsistent in spirit and ideas, then it will directly affect the goals and structure of the marriage.

Therefore, many people do not care about the family background and family background when they get married, thinking that as long as they have feelings, they can overcome the habits brought by these original families.

Clause. 3. Common language.

The most direct manifestation of the spiritual level is whether there is a common language, you are talking to him about the world political situation, but he replies to you trivial, like a chicken and a duck talking, you can never find a topic to chat with, slowly you will be alienated, and the spiritual world will feel very lonely.

Fourth, learn to be understanding others, which is often as difficult to do as demanding of yourself. We are always doing everything possible to find each other's wrongs, always feel that the other party can't get along with me, always feel that anyone is making enemies of me, there are many things that are unintentional, but there are those who are cautious and always have to sit in the right seat and find troubles.

will not understand others, often a sentence unintentionally said, the person who has the intention to provoke listen, he sat down, thinking that he was sarcastic and sarcastic, he couldn't get along with himself, and he became troubled. After a long time, once or twice, there may be a general outburst in the end, a fight, and even a person's **. All kinds of social news reports in the newspaper, such as a person who made a person for a few dollars, and a joke caused a tragedy.

Learn to forgive: Learn to forgive your friends and loved ones. The closer people are, because they care too much about each other, they are prone to misunderstandings.

can't explain, can't explain, outsiders can't see jokes, and they can't let go of their dreams. At this time, the only thing that helps is time, time will dilute a lot of things and will melt resentment. One day you will find out that if you are a friend, you will definitely come back.

And the sooner you forget the words you have said or heard in your anger, and forgive each other or yourself one day sooner, the biggest beneficiary is not the other party, but yourself, and you will be happy and sweep away your troubles.