Not everyone knows how to love, otherwise why would there be so much harm in the name of love?

Yes, the harm caused in the name of love is not called love, this kind of behavior is more shameful than any behavior, they do something to hurt others in the name of love.

Hello, because they are more selfish, and it may be that they only think about themselves, and if they don't think about other aspects, they will cause harm in the name of love.

I think love doesn't hurt people, the key is that your obsession with love hurts, and real love must make people happy.

Not all people know how to love, otherwise why would there be so. What about harm in the name of love? That's the case, some people don't know how to love. It was good to you at first, but then it wasn't. I'm going to hurt you.

It may be because some people are duplicitous that they behave like this. Such people are generally very hypocritical.

It is true that not all people know how to love, sometimes love someone, the heart is very sincere, but the action is really not good, will hurt the other party.

So you still have to learn how to love.

It may be the case, some people may not know how to love, so they have caused harm to others.

There are many people who also cause harm to each other in the name of love, but this is not hate, so don't impose your will on others with this kind of love.

When lovers get along, you must not let yourself be wronged in any way, if you find that the person you are with needs to change in some aspects, then you can say it directly.

We must know how to let go, let go from the depths of our thoughts, get out of the unreal, bury a relationship deeply, break it off from the past, and see the world with a different mindset.

I am very much about this sentence, not everyone knows how to love, so in many cases, when we think that love appears, we don't know that it is the origin of the wicked.

Some people don't understand that love always hurts others, and hurts others to the end, such people should actually learn how to love others.

It is true that there are many people who have caused harm to others in the name of love.

Love is to be willing to give and sacrifice unconditionally for each other, you don't need any reason to love someone, you just want the other person to be happy forever, never worry about each other, be happy because the other person is happy, and feel happy because the other person is happy.

We all know that love represents a kind of responsibility, love is a kind of unconditional giving and sacrifice, love is endless and never lost, love is not not to reciprocate, and the return of love is the eternal joy and happiness of the other party. And the happiness of the other party is your happiness, and the happiness of the other party is your happiness, and you should be happy with her happiness and happiness with her. There is no right or wrong in love, only whether it is suitable or not, willing or not, happy or not.

When you can't be together anymore, it's not that she didn't choose you, it's not that you abandoned her, it's that happiness didn't choose you, happiness didn't choose you, and love didn't choose you. So don't be troubled, don't be sad, you should bless each other and hope that each of you will find your true love. If you feel pain when you lose the other person, then it proves that you don't love her at all, you just want to possess her, and you will only suffer when your possessiveness cannot be satisfied.

When you love someone, what you should think about is not what the other person can give you, but what you can give her, can you give her the affection she needs? Can you give her happiness and happiness? Can you be happy with her happiness, happy with her happiness?

Only this kind of love is true love, and only this kind of love is happy.

When there are some misunderstandings and injuries to the people close to us, we don't immediately judge him or say that we fire him in our hearts, we have to use a very mature way, where you are hurt, what do you want him to do to meet your needs, if he listens to you, you earn back an intimate relationship, and your relationship is better than before, and when I talk about it, I also make a lot of mistakes, I don't know when I did something to make you feel uncomfortable, If there is such a thing, please tell me, then there is such a thing, in order not to destroy our relationship, I want to tell you, this incident caused me unpleasant, my purpose is to repair our relationship, this is the middle of the relationship, you have to enter the point of a little deeper must go through some things, so each of us must learn to tell each other, when the other party hurts us, we have to have a good way to tell each other. But sometimes, unconsciously we hurt others, and we have to go to others to ask for forgiveness, because sometimes we make mistakes, and we are not forgiven, and we have no reason not to forgive others, because we get a lot of love, so there is no reason not to love others.

I think it's a very interesting idea, I think I can hurt you if I get hurt, rightfully so, because you hurt me first. Therefore, hatred, holding grudges, putting oneself in a state of victimhood, are some unhealthy phenomena, hatred can bring hate, love can cure hate, for the sake of love and physical and mental health, we must step out of the role of victims, when a person constantly plays the role of a victim, and does not establish a healthy boundary for himself to fight for his reasonable rights and interests, unconsciously conniving, or even encouraging others to play the role of a bad person or persecutor, but inadvertently hurts the intimate relationship, What do I mean by that? What I'm saying is that there are two kinds of healthy love, you have to have unconditional acceptance, but at the same time, you have to set boundaries for love.

When another person keeps violently inflicting violence on you, ravaging you, you keep playing the role of a pleaser, you not only sacrifice yourself, but you also sacrifice the other person, because when I myself play the role of a victim, how bitter I am, how bitter I am, unconsciously, I define others as a persecutor, and he is getting worse and worse. However, setting boundaries for love and not allowing him to bully you like this is actually a protective relationship, and you also help the other person grow.

When you have children, remember the complaints you have complained about your parents and try not to make the same mistakes. When your parents are old, when you take care of them, you should often recall the complaints you once complained about your parents, don't forcibly hide your father's cigarettes and alcohol in the name of love, don't let your mother go out to dance, and respect their hobbies If you can understand from the mistakes of the previous generation, let yourself make star progress, and use it on the two generations, that is the evolution of a generation. The above is the perception after living for more than 30 years, after detours, confused, different friends around me have seen a lot from childhood to adulthood, and then gradually understand that those smart peers have already found the best practices.

Parents, children, husbands, wives and friends lead subordinates, it seems that the relationship between people is first and foremost, and if I have been formed, there is no need to fight for how others should treat me, everything is just how I should treat others, choose a way that can not wronged myself and not hurt the person I love.

Before the age of 18, as a child, you can be a little tolerant of your parents, and you can stick to yourself with roundabout tactics. For example, instead of arguing with your parents at the highest point, arguing that you are wrong and I am right, and talking about how you should be a parent, it is better to secretly hide some pocket money, buy spicy noodles to eat outside, and feel comfortable for yourself, and let your parents be out of sight, and everyone is happy. On the one hand, they use non-violent non-resistance and non-cooperative strategies to silently show their parents that you can't control me anymore, but I still love and respect you, and on the other hand, I insist on self-discipline and self-improvement, and always show that I can take care of myself, including life, study, and other persistence in my future.

This is also the way of dealing with everyone and everything as an adult, and you can use your parents as the first object of practice.

"Forgiveness" is not the same as "compounding". To forgive is to unilaterally forgive the other person and let oneself enter the world of freedom from the prison of the heart. And getting back together requires the efforts of both parties, and the other party also needs to take responsibility for what they did wrong.

Getting back together right before the other party admits their mistake and corrects it may cause more harm. For example, if he is drunk, gambling or doing other things that hurt you, if you continue to maintain an intimate relationship with him, he will keep coming to hurt you, basically, before the other party refuses to admit his mistakes, take responsibility, and correct his behavior, he is not a safe person, at this time, you blindly get back together with him, you will be hurt, and it will not be good for him, which talks about a health boundary problem.

After the age of 18, try to go to other provinces to study, go to other provinces to work, live a self-sufficient life, and give your parents and yourself a psychological desensitization period at a distance, so as not to let your parents want to control your words and deeds when they see you. Insist that everyone has their own life. All interference can be done with non-violence, non-resistance, and no execution of tactics.

Ask your parents less for money and send more money to your parents. Your voice and your parents' voice in life choices can quickly be reversed.

It's scary to think about, being a parent doesn't even need an exam. Be yourself and be sure that actions will not cause harm to others. Interference in the name of love, many times, really is, makes you irritable, and you can't scold her yet.

Because she really wants to be good for you. However, people are individuals. Your parents gave birth to you, but you are a human, not a machine.

Spicy strips are a trivial matter, but the mother's desire to control that it reflects is the real problem. In the future, there will be countless spicy strip incidents. Marriage, work, and making friends are much more important than spicy strips.

How to choose, what to do if she interferes.

My mother has also rummaged through my things since I was a child, and has never allowed me to have a little privacy, because I had good grades when I was a child, so I was often taken out to show off, and I often like to tell others about my mistakes as jokes, and I am not allowed to contact or play with other children, nor am I allowed to go against her will in the slightest, although she always buys me clothes or something, but I don't feel that kind of maternal love, I don't know if this counts as hurting me in the name of love.

The problem for many parents is that the starting point is right, and the way is not right. Strong children will play a positive role, and psychologically fragile children will have a rebellious mentality. Only by getting to know your child can you know what kind of discipline they need most.

My mom loves rummaging through my stuff. Romance in a schoolbag since elementary school**. A small note to junior high school.

and then to the letters that I like to communicate with boys in high school. My diary, all my secrets, all romances. Trash cans included.

From anger, anger, despair, to acquiescence. Lost temper.