White Lies Debate Positive Opinion 3000 Words

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Dear teachers, dear students and friends of the other side:

These words have been taught by the elders since childhood. Mark Twain once said, "When you can't make up your mind, tell the truth."

It will make your opponents feel embarrassed and your friends feel relieved. Therefore, the opinion of psychology experts is: don't lie easily.

Even if it is a white lie, as a lie in itself, it is already an act as opposed to integrity, so whether the lie is in good intentions or not, being a lie itself will inevitably hinder integrity. Therefore, I would like to raise my voice here, let us reject white lies and work together to build an honest society.

First example: IBM Computer Company in the United States has developed rapidly, and it has not declined for nearly 100 years, relying on the height of the company's service personnel in their work.

A: Responsibility and the virtue of integrity.

One day, a user in Phoenix City was in dire need of computer accessories to rebuild a multifunctional database. When the company learned about it, it immediately sent a female employee to send it, but on the way, it encountered a downpour, and the river swelled sharply, flooding 14 bridges along the way, blocking traffic and making it impossible for cars to drive. In this particular situation, the female employee had every good reason to return to the company, but she did not do so, thinking that the company had promised the customer that it would be done anyway.

At this point, if she returns to the company, the company's credibility may be damaged, and with this in mind, she uses a pair of roller skates that she had stored in the car to slide to her destination. Normally it takes only 20 minutes to drive, but today it has become a 4-hour trek. After the female staff arrived at the user's location, she solved the user's problem in a timely manner, regardless of the fatigue of the journey.

IBM has won the praise of the majority of users with its responsible attitude and honest behavior.

If so, you can tell them that if you tell "me" clearly from the beginning that you don't need to pay for reading (or to put it more tactfully), not only can "I" continue to read, but it will not embarrass the disabled youth later.

Speaking of lies, I dare say that none of us grew up who didn't tell a lie. Yes, everybody has lied, but some lies are well-intentioned and some are malicious! A white lie, which has a good starting point, is a lie that has to be made up when lying and reaching good deception at the same time.

Example: I saw a TV report about an old mother who had kidney disease, and if she didn't get a kidney replaced, her life would be threatened, and then the eldest son stood up and asked to donate a kidney to his mother, which hurt the old mother, and the old mother strongly objected, saying that if she did this, she might as well die. There is no choice but to wait for a kidney source that matches all kinds of conditions, but it is not easy to wait for such a kidney source, and the son is afraid of delaying his mother's condition, so after discussing with his family, he deceived his mother. Donated one of his young kidneys to his mother, and after the successful operation, the family still hid from the old mother, the most touching thing is that the mother and son live in the next ward, the mother does not know, when the mother wants to see the eldest son, the family just lied to her that her son went on a business trip.

White lies do not hinder integrity.

"Lies" are called "lies" because they are false, untrue, and deceitful words. But today, when we talk about "lies", there is also a definite term - well-intentioned, and with the addition of this qualifier, the nature of lies has also undergone a fundamental change. "White lies" are people's good wishes for things, the dialogue of people's kind hearts, a trace of warmth for people to comfort each other, and a kind of tender ...... that flows from the bottom of people's heartsNo one will be interested in its credibility, and even if someone who hears a white lie knows that it is a lie, he will still try to believe it, and he will not feel the hypocrisy of the liar, and sometimes he will be grateful from the bottom of his heart.

When the mother of a soldier who is on a mission in the field is terminally ill and breathes from the heat, how much he hopes to see his son for the last time, but the son can't come back, can't do a little filial piety for the old mother, take care of the mother who once broke her heart for her son, he is very sorry, and he is also very worried. And the old mother understood her son very well, and told her relatives around her that she should not tell her distant son after she left, and she could not distract him, but to say that his condition was stable, so that he could be loyal to the country with peace of mind. Is such a white lie an obstacle to integrity?

Therefore, I insist that white lies not only do not hinder integrity, but also greatly enhance friendship and affection between people, and have an indelible effect on social stability. Suggestion: White lies should be used, and there is no big conflict with integrity.

People will often struggle in the whirlpool of confusion between ideals and reality, and only find the direction after some tempering, and different people will choose different directions.

Be honest. From the time I was sensible, the words of my parents, school teachers, and textbooks were the truth. What I remember most clearly is that parents and teachers often admonish, be an honest child, be an honest person!

And we also follow this teaching, step into the society, and guide us in our work life and in the world. At this time, we found that many things are contrary to our education, and in real work and life, it is impossible to be a truly honest person, because I have experienced that saying honest words not only hurts friends or colleagues, but also makes me sad; On the other hand, they rejoice in saying things that go against their hearts. Gradually, I found that in fact, there are times in life when we need some white lies to deceive and comfort ourselves, so we also need to learn to be dishonest in appropriate situations.

There is no way to verify the origin of the phrase "honest people eat praise", and honest people in modern society are not favored, although everyone knows that they should be honest; And reality will always give honest people a head-on blow, and those who have the best means of "simmering sweet potatoes" will go smoothly; "Eight-sided exquisite" cheeky people who say things against their hearts, left and right, the benefits will always fall on these people. All kinds of realistic encounters, personal experience, so that there are fewer and fewer people who are willing to be honest, more and more people who know how to be flexible in the world, and more and more people who can tell white lies, throughout the society, almost everything is on the two sides of "light" and "dark", it is normal to think about it, because the society is very tolerant, and the essence of human nature can be fully displayed in today's society, "Ming" may be the real self, or may not; "Dark" is the real self.

Should we be honest? Should?! It makes sense, dishonesty is clearly lying and deceiving others, and it is an immoral act.

No?! It also makes sense, it is clear that sometimes dishonest words are more acceptable than honest words, and interpersonal relationships are better to get along with. To be a truly honest and kind person is to be confused by the facts that come your way.

Being an honest person is the most simple essence of human nature. But in real life, it is impossible for us to be completely honest, sometimes we can't help but tell white lies, but we can't abandon the truth, goodness and beauty of human nature, and we can't take white lies as a habit, blurt out, and be irresponsible; That will backfire, become a veritable **, lose the trust of others, and lose the foundation of being a human being. Don't forget that there is one more saying:

It is better to be cunning than to be honest.

Everyone has their own principles of life, as a fool, can not be a completely honest person, then be a person who believes in his words and has integrity.

Being too honest and not being flexible will make us frustrated in interpersonal interactions, and will produce some unavoidable misunderstandings and contradictions; But insisting on integrity will not, as long as you insist on being honest, you will definitely have good interpersonal relationships and gain the trust and goodwill of others.

The lie of the mind has a magical power that inspires you to keep working hard again and again, and never give up for the dream in your heart. Because the road ahead is completely illuminated by joy, life becomes better because of it.

This kind of lie is not deception and is not ill-intentioned, this kind of lie is understanding, respect and tolerance, with magical power, without any impurity.

I believe you can see it, and the loopholes of the defense friend are clearly visible.

As you know, a white lie is also a lie, but a confusing word "good intentions" is added to this confusing word, which makes everyone think that lies are also well-intentioned, I think everyone has told lies, but how much of the lies you tell are malicious and how much is good, I think, if you divide it into five parts, then I think the ratio of malice to goodwill is 4:1. Well, let's divide it into two, and in a few years, it will also become 4:

2 This is divided.

I think you must have read Lao Tzu's "Analects" and the people do not stand without faith. What does this say to the people? If you don't have credit, it's impossible to gain a foothold in society.

That's how important integrity is.

Isn't there such a saying: white lies are beautiful. When we tell a small lie in moderation for the sake of the happiness and hope of others, the lie becomes understanding, respect, and tolerance, and has magical power.

Lies motivated by good intentions are the nourishment of life and the source of faith. It makes people ignite the flame of hope in their hearts, and they are convinced that there is love, trust, and emotion in the world, so that they can find more reasons to laugh at life. The white lie is the spirituality that endows human nature, embodies the delicacy of emotions and the maturity of thoughts, prompts people to be strong and persistent, involuntarily strive to strive for it, and finally overcome fragility and survive in a desperate situation.

A lie from a parent makes the faces of children who are not deeply involved in the world like flowers, shining brightly; A lie from the teacher makes the hesitant students no longer confused and grow better; A lie from the doctor makes the frightened patient go from destruction to new ......

Another example is that in the last century, an American transport plane was forced to land in the desert by a sandstorm, but the plane was so badly damaged that it could not resume takeoff. Communication equipment was also damaged, and communication with the outside world was interrupted; Nine passengers and a driver were in despair; The instinct to survive has them fighting for their limited supply of dry food and water.

At the critical moment, a passenger who was temporarily on the plane stood up and said, "Don't panic, everyone, I am an aircraft designer, as long as everyone works together to listen to my command, the plane can be repaired".This is like a shot in the arm, which stabilizes everyone's mood, and they consciously save water and dry food; Everything was in order, and everyone united to fight against the difficulties of the wind and sand.

More than ten days have passed, and the plane has not been repaired; But a caravan of merchants traveling to and from the desert rescued them as they passed by. A few days later, it was discovered that the temporary passenger was not an aircraft designer at all, but an elementary school teacher who knew nothing about airplanes. After someone knew the truth, they scolded him for being a **, and angrily scolded him: