Why honor one s parents debating nature .

I think it's just for peace of mind, whether the hard work of parents is for the next generation or for the next generation to be filial to themselves, since they are all paid to themselves, then they should return such hard work and intentions to their parents. Some people feel that they should pay 200%, some people 100%, and some people 50%. The number of numbers determines the answer to the question of filial piety and unfilial piety when comparing people.

Not why, only for your mother to conceive in October,

First of all, let's clarify the debate topic, strict father refers to a strict father, cannot refer to absolutely cannot, not necessarily can not be strictly different from the positive strict father can produce filial sons, filial son refers to filial children.

On the surface, the most disadvantageous part of this debate lies in the complete negation of the opposing side, but the positive side is also completely affirmative. Therefore, the opposing side must be the attacker, not the defender, where there are exceptions.

The points of attack are as follows:1What is the strict way? Without a perfect way to educate, mistakes can lead to disaster. Ask the question and keep fighting.

2.What is filial piety like? Obedient? Supporting the elderly? Or what? How about filial piety? How about not being filial? Appropriate planning of the definition.

3.Put forward a philosophical point of view to you, how hot it is, how much light it is, the old father of the national dignitary and millionaire generally has a good material life, and the time that his son accompanies him is very short, so is it still filial? A farmer who has no affairs at home, eats and lives the elderly, and also helps with farm work, is it still filial?

What is filial piety. Is it an objective comparison? Or do you look at the proportion of subjective pay?

So how do you measure this ratio?

A strict father can't produce a filial son.

As the saying goes: a strict teacher makes a high apprentice. Where are there no rules?

It's the same for us. If your father didn't discipline you harshly, but doted on you, making you play games and clubbing endlessly, would you have achieved anything?

Therefore, a strict father produces a filial son.

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Matter is too important. Material things can give parents a comfortable place to live in their old age. I recommend you to watch the show "Dream Remodeler".

Comfortable accommodation, the elderly have handrails to go to the toilet, there is a hydraulic elevator to go up the stairs, and ventilation, sunlight, heat preservation, early warning, etc. The mood is completely different.

Parents hope that they will have a good material foundation so that their son can marry decently.

Why do parents work so hard? What parents pursue is a decent life, for the elderly, for their children.

Without money, it is difficult to see a doctor, and some parents endure the pain and do not tell their children, because they are afraid of spending money and cannot afford to get sick. Are there still few examples of anti-poverty in families due to medical treatment?

Without a material basis, there is no time for entertainment.

A good job and a good life for children can also satisfy the vanity of their parents, become the envy of the neighborhood, and meet their spiritual needs.

Summary: Children live a rich life, parents have money and leisure, can travel often, and the happiest old age without illness is the happiest.

(1) Our parents give us life, nurture us to grow up, and teach us knowledge, skills and principles of life.

2) The love of parents for their children is the most selfless and greatest love in the world.

3) Honoring one's parents is not only a basic requirement for human beings, but also a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation.

4) In modern society, honoring one's parents is the basic moral norm.

Honoring one's parents is a kind of repaying gratitude. Repay your parents for their nurturing. A conventional morality, and the duty of maintenance is now law.

In depth, it is in line with Lao Tzu's exposition of "the old have support" and the concept of a harmonious society. People will always grow old and always need to be supported, and the children raised by themselves are more obliged to support the elderly. To put it another way, since the child will not support himself in the future, why should he be raised so carefully?

On the other hand, in my father's opinion, if you don't honor me as a son, your son won't be able to support you if he doesn't honor you in the future.

Therefore, the father is kind and filial to the son, the society can be harmonious, and the inheritance of mankind will be smoother.

This is the conscience of the Chinese, and the difference between humans and animals lies in the fact that people understand feelings.

Filial piety comes first, remember this sentence.

The teachings of the ancient sages are the common feelings of people! It's that simple.

Some advice for you.

We've debated this topic.

Matter and spirit are a parallel avenue.

The purpose is to honor one's parents.

The opponent's defense friend may say that he will give his parents a ** and ask for warmth. Parents will be satisfied. But in the financial crisis, it is more tangible for people to come materially.

The spirit is an ethereal thing, it is formless and insubstantial. The expression of the spirit requires the help of matter (or behavior). It can be seen that matter is the foundation of the spirit, no matter how high your spiritual building is, the foundation without the material is also an attic in the sky.

As soon as it touches the collapse.

In the following cases, material filial piety is more important than spiritual filial piety

1. When parents are in difficulty, they cannot achieve true filial piety without material help;

2. When parents are sick, they need to spend, need to supplement nutrition, and need someone to take care of them, but spiritual encouragement alone cannot do it;

3. Spiritual filial piety can only play a role in comforting the heart, but not in substance, so material filial piety is important;

4. Material filial piety is the foundation, and without material support, only spiritual filial piety seems hypocritical;

The development of human society is the development of material and spiritual development, the use of fire has only the great development of human beings later, family life is also material must be guaranteed, otherwise the spiritual needs will not be able to keep up with the development of society, filial piety to parents at least to ensure that the material is sufficient, physical health is the premise of everything.