When will people get troubled!? Why do people get troubled?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-13
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Hello, because as people grow older, they encounter many things that don't go their way, so they will be troubled. Life is like this, there are joys and troubles, life is ups and downs. We must accept the reality, face the reality, change the reality, do not run away, do not be defeated by the current difficulties, we cannot sit still, we have many ways to solve the difficulties and troubles, we know that it is difficult, but you have to act.

    Don't expect too much from life so that you don't feel disappointed with the people or things around you. Hehe, theoretically, everything depends on your own efforts, and if you encounter something that doesn't go your way, you might as well find someone who believes in it to vent, listen to other people's opinions, maybe you can get some useful enlightenment, at least the depression in your heart will be reduced a lot, and finding something that interests you to do is also good for your mood. Time and your knowledge of things are the best medicine for troubles.

    It is recommended not to stay at home during the day, first put your troubles aside, go outside for a walk and play nothing, breathe in the fresh air, feel the atmosphere outside, I believe that you will feel different when you come back, take action, come on. I hope what I said can give you a little inspiration and help, and I wish you a happy and happy life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Everyone has troubles, some people feel tired because they are always thinking, and some people don't care because they are running away. If you think about it a lot, you will find a solution and you will not be troubled if you encounter it in the future. The person who escapes, maybe there are others to help him deal with it without worrying about himself, maybe he just wants to live a good life, but no one can help him for a lifetime, and he may encounter something that does not happen in front of him in the future, and some things cannot be escaped after all.

    Think more to think more clearly, just don't worry about it. The 2nd floor is good, but it can be solved with confidence.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The biggest cause of trouble is irritability that arises when you don't know what to do.

    Due to the helplessness of things not going well.

    The source of trouble is the desire to perfect something, the desire to be satisfied. Want to get something.

    What to worry about.

    If, in the process, there is a problem that you can't control, you will be troubled because of helplessness.

    Once you can look at the gains and losses normally, the troubles may be much smaller.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Doing what you like to do, listening to the warm **, going out for a walk, and looking at the scenery of life is also a comfortable and happy way. Go out with friends and exchange friendships. People, once they are idle, will think a lot of things wildly, which will complicate what they think.

    So you have to get busy, keep it simple, and live well...

    The days cannot always be sunny, there are ups and downs, sorrows and sorrows, depression and loneliness, and life is colorful.

    It is impossible for a person to be happy all the time in his life, to forget his troubles and sorrows, to forget his bitterness and frustration, to forget yesterday, to forget himself, and to forget his fragile feelings.

    I wish you happiness and joy in life.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Troubles ** are desires, and there are no worries if there is no desire. But we are all ordinary people, and it is impossible to do without desires. Try to lower your expectations of people and things, and treat certain insistences that you can't give up with a normal heart.

    Even if there are troubles and disappointments, remembering time can solve everything! Some things are not a problem after this time. But time is long and short, and life is like this!

    Happy to you!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1. Troubles arise from attachment: There are many good and bad times in life, and people usually encounter difficulties, such as unemployment, lovelornness, and frustration, which are certainly frustrating and troublesome; When you are in good times, if you are attached and afraid of losing, you will also be trapped by good times. This is the same as iron chains can lock people, and gold chains can bind people.

    Therefore, no matter whether you encounter good or bad situations in life, you must know how to change the situation and not be persistent; The greatest effort in cultivation lies in the word "turn", to "turn the Lotus" and not "be turned by the Lotus", that is, not to be attached. You can not be afraid of troubles, do not cling to troubles, and be at ease.

    2. Troubles arise from ignorance: ignorance is ignorance, and our innate ignorance is greed, hatred, ignorance, and suspicion; With ignorance, there are afflictions such as greed, anger, pride, doubt, etc., so the afflictions arise from ignorance such as greed, hatred, ignorance, and doubt. There is a saying that "it is better to fight with the wise than to speak to the ignorant."

    If a person is not reasonable, good words, kind words, and the Dharma will not be useful at all, and he will have troubles. On the other hand, if we can be reasonable and understand the truth of cause and effect, we will be able to eliminate our troubles.

    3. Troubles are not seen: There are many troubles in the world that are self-inflicted, the so-called "unfounded worries", and even worries about the "end of the world", etc., and they have been troubled for a long time, but nothing has happened. There are also people who can't see it because of trivial things, and they naturally "have endless troubles".

    Therefore, if you look at everything more positively, you can see through it, and you can have a detached and free attitude towards all good and evil, and you will not be troubled.

    Fourth, the troubles are too selfish: the reason why people have troubles and pains is because of the "me"; "I" is the root of troubles, "I love", "I want", "I rejoice", everything only thinks of "me" needs, it is simply antagonistic and conflicting with others, so I suffer more and suffer less. Therefore, if a person can think more about how it is beneficial to others, he will live an easy and down-to-earth life.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The absence of afflictions means that there is no burden on the human mind

    I think that when people feel the happiest, there are no worries, they should not feel depressed, they should try to find happiness!

    I believe that as long as you go to discover.

    Happiness is all around you!

    goodluck

    toyou!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Life is not smooth sailing, and as long as people live in this world, they will encounter all kinds of difficulties. When there are difficulties, there are naturally troubles.

    Avoiding difficulties will not make progress, which is a rejection of mental maturity, and blindly avoiding it will inevitably cause serious psychological problems.

    Overcoming difficulties, in fact, life is a process of constantly overcoming difficulties......In this way, people's minds will gradually mature, gain stronger abilities and higher self-confidence, and this kind of life will be interesting, right?

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