How much influence do parents have on the formation of children s three views?

The influence of parents' three views on children is indeed obvious. It may not completely affect the child's values, but in the words and deeds, there will always be some that will be revealed in the child.

First of all, the perception of reading. With regard to reading, the two views that prevail now are "academic uselessness" and "books are the ladder of human progress". If the child's parents do not pay attention to learning, the child will also be affected.

For example, a little sister in my hometown once told me that "studying is useless, and those who don't go to school have already become big foremen", I think that what a child can know is just to listen to adults. Other parents may not have a high level of education, but they just feel that reading is important, and even if the tuition fee is expensive, they must let their children go to school.

Secondly, the perception of money. It's a bit like "the economic base determines the superstructure". In some families, parents are reluctant to eat and wear, and they will be frugal in small places, although they never tell their children such things, but small actions will affect children.

Finally, the view on love and marriage. Obviously, if the relationship between parents is good, the child will also be full of expectations for love. But if the parents are noisy every day, then the child will not have any expectations for love in the end, and will think that this is it.

Parents have a great influence on children, and we all know that parents are the first teachers of children, whether it is in the three views or other aspects, they will have a great impact on children.

Children's three views are in the process of continuous formation, so our parents will influence their children to a great extent. In the three views of children, many of them come from their parents, and the environment of a family will have a great impact on the period of children's growth. These effects are subtle and unaware of them.

We don't care what our parents are like, because we can't decide what our parents think, and we can't change what kind of changes we make to them. After all, the three views of parents have been formed and cannot be easily changed, so when parents give birth to children and become parents, they have already begun to influence their children's thoughts with their own thoughts.

The three views of children in their early years are particularly easy to be influenced, and they are constantly changing in a certain period of time. Because they have not yet formed their own independent thoughts, they have not yet been able to judge right and wrong, and they are not able to decide some things of their own. At this time, they will imitate their parents' practices and learn their parents' behavior and living habits.

Therefore, in the three views of children, parents play a great role in influence.

For example, my parents have a great influence on the formation of my three views, I think women should be independent, not completely dependent on their husbands, and have their own economic independence. This is completely influenced by my mother, my mother is a completely independent woman, although she and my father are very affectionate, but they do not push all the financial expenses of the family to my father, they will work together to earn money to support the family. This also allowed me to develop an independent personality trait.

It is very important for parents to have a correct three views, which can not only affect the children's three views, but also have a certain impact on the children's future life and future behavior.

Parents play a great role in the formation of children's three views. Because children grow up with their parents, and the child's ability to imitate is particularly strong, when the child is young, what kind of speech and behavior the parents have, the child will also imitate the parents, and then affect the child's world view, outlook on life and values. If parents have good words and deeds, then the child will also form a good three-view parent.

If parents have bad words and deeds, the child's three views will also be affected one after another, and even deviate from the correct track of life.

As the saying goes, strict teachers produce high apprentices, and parents are the first teachers of their children, which play an important role in their children's enlightenment education. If the child is very young under the correct guidance of his parents, he will form a good habit of learning and living, then slowly the habit will accompany him throughout his life, thus affecting his three views. But if you don't form a good habit at that time, it will be very difficult to develop good habits when you grow up.

If the teacher is strict with a student, then the student will definitely become an excellent student. But if the teacher is laissez-faire with the student and does not guide the student properly, then I don't think the student will be able to achieve outstanding results. <>

For example, living in a medical family, influenced by their parents since childhood, children will also become interested in medicine, surrounded by the word medicine, and will also be influenced and inspired in the future, which is also very important to the teaching of parents. If there is a positive attitude, then this mentality will also affect the child, and the child will also form a positive attitude.

Therefore, I think that when children are young, we must pay attention to our words and deeds, we must have a positive attitude to teach children, and constantly supervise children's growth to lead by example, so that it will have a positive effect on children to set a good example, and this will have a certain positive effect on children's future development.

I think parents have a great influence on the formation of children's three views. Parents as the child's first teacher, their words and deeds are deeply affected by the child, usually get along with the child is the most, invisibly their three views will penetrate into the child's mind, the child will also imperceptibly learn the parents' behavior and three views.

Therefore, parents have a decisive influence on the formation of children's three views. People who have been with me will know very well that one of my temperaments is that I don't like to owe others anything, try not to borrow anything from others, try not to borrow anything from others, and must pay it back to others quickly after borrowing. Because of the influence of these three views, I have also formed these three views since I was a child, whether it is doing things or being a person, I must try not to owe others anything.

I still remember an incident in elementary school, at that time, because I was sick and did not go to class, I borrowed a homework registration book from a classmate and came back to write my homework, and at the same time promised him that I would return it to him on time in the evening. Unfortunately, after I finished my homework, it was a stormy night. It's hard to get out on pedestrians.

He has already done his homework, and there is no problem if he does not return the homework registration book to him. But in my parents' education, I formed the idea that if you borrow something from someone else, you must pay it back, and there is no reason. So on the same day, I braved the storm to go to his house to return my things.

When I went to his house, he didn't understand that I could return it to him when I went back to school the next day, and there was no need to return the homework registration book to him in such a heavy rain, not to mention that he was not in a hurry, so why should I be so persistent about returning it to him. He didn't know, but I clearly knew that I was not obsessed, it was the three views that my parents gave me since I was a child, that is, I must pay back what I borrowed from others.

Children may have many teachers in this life, but parents are always the first and most important teachers of children, so many of the parents' behaviors have a very great influence on children, and at the same time, children's three views may also be directly affected by their parents, as some people say, what kind of parents will teach what kind of children, if a parent's three views are very positive, then her children's three views will definitely be very positive, And if a parent's three views are very poor, then the child's three views may also change. <>

Not to mention anything else, let's take the people around us, I have a cousin-in-law, she belongs to the kind of person who is more selfish and scathing, so she has a daughter who is completely like her, she is very realistic about people and things, and often likes to speak ill of people, so we all dislike her very much, and feel that her three views are the same as her mother's.

Therefore, in my opinion, if you want to make your child's three views have no problem, you must start from yourself and make your three views correct, so that the child's three views can also become correct, because a child has no big concepts when he is young, and the only thing he can imitate is his parents. Of course, this does not mean that all children will have the same three views as their parents, but they will learn like their parents most of the time, so in front of children, as adults, we must set a good example for them, so that they can form a correct outlook on life and values, so that they can be useful to the society and the motherland.

Of course, the impact is super big, and I once thought that many parents led their children astray. Many of the parents' behaviors play a subtle education and influence on the children, which is often unaware of the parents themselves, and the parents are not aware of their own shortcomings, and there has always been this kind of bad behavior, so the children are slowly affected.

My uncle's family is not as good as ours, so they always eat and drink at our house, not only that, but they often come to our house to get things, such as eggs, oil, rice, noodles, vegetables, etc., as well as snacks and milk, etc., my father has been putting up with my grandma and grandfather's face, and buying more every time.

Under the influence of my uncle and aunt, their son, my younger brother, habitually took our toys and snacks to their house little by little, for this behavior, my dad figuratively called this process "selling", my dad was annoyed that this child had been selling things to his own house, and complained to my grandmother countless times that his parents did not teach him well.

I think it's the influence of my parents, the child is still young, I don't know the difference between intimacy and alienation, he takes my family's things, my parents will definitely not say anything, if you want to say it in private, but if he takes other people's things, people are not his relatives, people must think that this child is uneducated, stingy and take everything, like a thief.

This is all to blame on my uncle and aunt, I don't lead by example as a parent, I am greedy for cheap and even bring the children badly, and the children now think that taking other people's things to their own homes is a good thing worthy of praise, these three views are crooked to outer space, all influenced by their parents.

In my opinion, my parents are still the best teachers in my life, the most responsible teachers, and the most influential teachers. There is a word called "Teach by example".

And the words and deeds of parents are the longest. The teacher in the school, the one who has taught you the longest may be the primary school teacher, six years, the most. But parents are different, and your parents' words and deeds have been going on since you were born.

There is an old saying: "Three years old is old, seven years old is old." "I don't quite agree with that, though.

But it cannot be denied that there is some truth to it. A person's three views are established and habits are formed before the age of seven, and the behavior and habits before the age of seven are particularly difficult to correct, such as the posture of holding a pen and the posture of holding chopsticks. Before the age of seven, it is your parents who will accompany you the longest, so I think that every word and deed of parents will affect their children.

Parents also play a huge role in the formation of children's three views.

There is also an old saying: "Dragons give birth to dragons, phoenixes give birth to phoenixes, and children born of mice make holes." "I'm sure you've all heard that.

And the real society also proves this, you see those whose parents are not filial to their elders, and their children are often yelling at their elders. Those who are stingy and picky, their children will not be very generous. Those families with decent family style and strict family discipline generally do not have "stubborn children".

I still remember when I was a child, there was an advertising slogan in a CCTV advertisement, parents are the best teachers for children. I particularly agree with this statement. People have an instinct to imitate, and this is the case when they are young, and when they are older, they behave like this.

Therefore, in my mind, the behavior of parents can directly affect the three views of children.

It is said that parents are good teachers for their children, and they didn't understand it when they were young, but now they gradually understand. <>

I remember when I was a child, I started brushing my teeth when I was eight years old, it was the first time I brushed my teeth, I brushed my teeth in the yard with my dad, and I followed my dad's example. I said to my father: Can my father brush up and down the dirt between his teeth?

My dad was very happy to praise me and told me that this is very good, and when I encounter anything in the future, I should consider the principle and study it, and I can't forget it later.

This incident is really impressive in my heart, and until now, I always like to study things and things, so I have a keen sense of observation.

I remember when I was a child, the children in my family were still poor, but my mother was a very backbone woman, and she never asked others to pity us. The most impressive thing is my mother's sentence: Don't let the little padded jacket be pointed out before it is worn out.

So when we go to play in the homes of our classmates and relatives, we don't want others to give us food to death; When I saw someone else's food delicious, I hurried home. When I went home, I didn't dare to tell my mother that we were hungry too.

When I grew up, I didn't envy other people's things no matter how good they were, and I knew that I had to work hard to get them. I will not make unreasonable demands with my parents.

I am truly grateful to my parents for teaching us when we were young, and now we are being a person of integrity.

The eldest sister's child is also eight years old this year, but she is very naughty, does not like to study, and likes to play with her mobile phone and watch cartoons every day. And it's very meaty, so that what to do is always put off until the end to do it. The eldest sister is very anxious, but there is no good solution.

My dad often said not to play with his phone in front of his children, but he couldn't change the habit. But this child especially likes handicraft classes and knows how to take care of others, and her classmates are not as good as her. This is also what the eldest sister often took care of our three younger sisters, and the eldest sister often used useless things to make small things, and the children also learned.

There are many examples, but the influence of parents on their children is really too great, and they still need to pay attention to their words and deeds in order to change their children for the better.