Fifty bounty! Who is a Psychologist? Please answer my pain in love? Recall?

I can't sleep, I can't eat, and my heart is very painful, since I know that he is married.

This is a normal reaction, no matter which party is the reason for the breakup of the two at the beginning, for example: the two are married, you insist on divorce, after a lot of hard work to achieve your wish, feel relieved, and soon learn that the other party remarried earlier than yourself, at this time you will also be very disappointed in your heart, there will be a lot of painful feelings, at this time you may feel that your giving up is the wrong choice. ）

He used to love me, but I have always been like a wayward child, pursuing happiness that he can't give. I still decided to give up his love.

It can't be said that he loved you at the beginning, it should be said that you both loved each other at the beginning, but your willfulness and some inner needs were not met or there were still many practical factors, so that you chose to give up voluntarily).

I'm not in a position to ask him why he got married so soon. for I abandoned him first. He wasn't there, and I was the only one who stayed in my memory. Perhaps, this is retribution! How can I not be in pain?

Even if you are qualified to ask what you can do? Even if he is the reason why he got married so quickly, is because the other party is good, or because of practical needs, or because his parents urge? What can they change if they really love each other and decide to get married?

Needless to say, you abandon him first, that is, he abandons you first, and it is normal for both parties in love to choose each other again, what can you ask him? Reshuffle the cards and re-choose after questioning?

As a girl, even in the process of falling in love, don't think too highly of yourself, and don't think that the other party can't live without yourself, who in this society doesn't have the earth to turn around, you don't mean that the other party doesn't move forward, we can't grasp everything about others, so only start from perfecting yourself, independent emotion, independent personality, independent economy, such a girl will have her own wonderful life even if she lives alone in a corner of the world.

He is a passerby in your life, only in the previous emotional experience of self-growth, then the future happiness can be grasped, otherwise similar events may continue to repeat, no one can grasp the past, the future is unpredictable, but the present you can grasp, in your life many experiences are necessary, slowly experience every moment of life.

Forget the past and pursue your own happiness. Maybe when you are reminiscing about the pain, the new happiness passes by you and brings you new pain. We must pay attention to reality and cherish the happiness we already have around us, so that we will not suffer because of loss.

Time will take away your pain. Find other things to do to distract yourself.

In this society, who will wait for whom in the same place, and people will look forward, is very realistic.

Actually, what you said is not right. You don't love him, because if you love him, you can't leave him.

It's not uncommon for us to feel that you've lost what you've lost.

Then all you have to do is: see who else around you is in love with you or want to love you, then give him a chance.

Go to him and tell him everything in your heart, and don't think about anything, whether you are married or not. Say it all.

Leave it to time! Or find him to vent all his feelings.

I'm not a psychiatrist, but I studied a little bit of psychology. Hehe.