I m getting engaged, but there are a lot of questions I don t understand, who can help me.

Now the marriage customs are different in various places, even if it is in one place, the customs of the two families may be different, I just got married, and my experience will tell you.

Engagement, the bride price is generally to be given, three gold should also be bought, your friend is probably mistaken, the diamond ring is bought when you get married, and the diamond ring is generally required at the wedding. The engaged woman does not have to do anything, but if she regrets the marriage, the bride price must be refunded. The engagement wine is not a big problem in **, the two families discuss it, and the general man does not put wine.

If the two families are close to each other, they will be held together in the hotel, and if they are far away, they will be separated, but it should be noted that the woman must have a banquet at the man's house when getting married. In addition, if the man gives the engagement bride price when getting married, the woman must give the dowry, usually a few large household appliances, etc.

My wife and I got married all on the discussion, not completely in accordance with the customs, I didn't give the bride price, she didn't marry, I bought her two gold and diamond rings, the gold ring didn't buy, just take the diamond ring. Both families are not struggling.

A diamond ring is definitely a must, not less. The banquet is to choose a restaurant, and the parents, relatives and friends of both parties get together. Actually, these are all formalities.

If you have a family that pays attention to these customs, it is best to ask what kind of marriage company, the kind of company that serves to officiate the wedding, they know it well.

Your distrust of him now is more ** than when you need emotional support, understanding, companionship, and comfort from your boyfriend the most, but he is absent, which makes you feel left out, ignored, not valued, not cared for, not cared for, not loved. You tell me?

And from your description, it can be clearly seen that when you need your boyfriend's emotional and emotional support the most, he may also need your support the most because of his own studies, that is, at that moment, you can't give each other these supports, because you are in a state of extreme lack and deprivation. A person can't give someone else something he doesn't have himself, right?

You can try to tell your boyfriend about your feelings of being left out, neglected, and unloved in the moment, and sincerely express what you want him to do to feel supported and loved when you encounter similar situations in your relationship in the future. I also apologize for not being able to give him strong support when he needed it most, and I hope he understands. That is, the uncomfortable emotional feelings that you have suppressed in the depths of your heart because you feel left out and ignored need to be seen and expressed, so that you can try to accept everything that has been, what do you say?

Don't expect life to be smooth sailing, you have employment pressure, he has academic pressure, you were in love at the time, so you will quarrel and argue about right and wrong, but it doesn't matter, the important thing is that you are with him. However, when you and he are about to enter the palace of marriage, you must learn to understand each other. Marriage, respect, and understanding are all mutual, and you should all learn it too.

This also includes trust, if you are willing to entrust the rest of your life to him, then you must be mutually exact, and mutual suspicion will not be happy. The most important thing for you is to go through a thousand sails together, and finally, I wish you a good marriage and a husband and wife, grow old together, live with each other, and have many happy events with your precious son. I wish you a lot of good luck today, and I just wish that all wishes come true. Leaky orange.

You can try to sincerely tell your boyfriend how you feel about being left out, neglected, and unloved at the moment, and sincerely express what you want him to do, so that he can feel supported and loved when he encounters a similar situation in a future relationship. I'm also sorry that you didn't give him a lot of support when he needed it most, and I hope he understands.

The best thing to do is to separate quickly, because if you have doubts now, you won't have long in the future.

I think that since you are going to be engaged to him, don't think about it, if you keep thinking like this, it will not be good for you or him.

The engagement is engaged, the marriage certificate is obtained, and their family is unwilling to get married.

Hello, this is a sensitive issue that needs to be carefully considered. First, you need to communicate with your significant other to understand what their family thinks and why. If they have some actual difficulties or concerns, you can try to communicate with them and negotiate some solutions.

If the reason for their family is that they are reluctant to get married, you need to have in-depth communication with your significant other to understand his thoughts and attitudes, and then make a decision based on your situation. Most importantly, no matter what decision you ultimately make, be sure to respect and understand each other and maintain a good relationship. Bless you!

They want to file for divorce, I bought a car, and my house has been renovated, what should I do?

This is a complex issue that requires careful consideration. You'll need to have an in-depth conversation with your significant other to understand why they want a divorce and what they think. If it is some practical difficulties or irreconcilable contradictions, you can consider resolving them through mediation, negotiation, etc.

If you do decide to divorce eventually, you need to consider the ownership of the house and car. If the property is your personal property or was purchased with personal funds, then it should be yours. If the property is joint property, then you will need to go through legal proceedings with your other half.

Regardless of the final decision, the relationship needs to be as good as possible to minimize harm and loss. Bless you!