How to learn to hate someone who hurts your true feelings

Updated on psychology 2024-05-20
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hate and love usually have to pay the same emotion, and that will make you very annoying and unhappy, and you can't fix him, so it doesn't make much sense. So, you can calm yourself down, kick him out of front of your eyes, out of your mind, when he's not there, open your heart and let time dilute everything. Actually, I know it's hard, because I've had it too.

    But if you choose to hate him, one day, you'll feel how pointless it is. It's better to use these emotions to make yourself happier

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Forget him, and if you can't, remember him. Then live a good life on your own, just like without him, you can have a new life and a new hope. I'm happy every day.

    This is the biggest "hatred" for him. This hatred made him understand that without him you can still live well and live well, and you can get good experience and get more things. This is the highest point of hate

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    What do you do to hate him? Is he worthy?

    It's already two people who are irrelevant, and he's not worth mentioning!!

    Plan your life well, and from then on when others evaporate, it is not enough to worry about it!!

    Despise him, and his own happy life is the best revenge for him!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In fact, I suggest that you don't hate that person, instead of hating him, it is better to turn this hatred into the motivation for a better life. Let him know that you will be happier without him, and let him know how ridiculous it is to hurt you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hate and revenge will only make you more miserable and make your heart wider.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    To live better than him is the best revenge for him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Do you know what it means to love and hate, you want to hate someone because you still love him in your heart, if you really don't love him, then you won't hate!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Is it meaningful to hate someone It's always better to remember a person's good than to remember someone's bad.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Brother, you're too infatuated.

    You and I are both emotional people.

    But if a woman treats me like this, even if I love her, I will give it up, so I want you to give it up, brother, if you give up, you will get it, you are not suitable at all, don't think that without her, you can't live anymore, when you have a new love, you have feelings, you will completely forget her.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    That's because if you give more, you will demand more in return, and if you don't get a response, you will get hurt.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Only after being injured can I grow up, and I can know what to cherish in the future.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Love is like picking up seashells on the beach, if you pick up a shell you like, then you don't want to go to the beach again.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Foolish. But it's also quite impressive. Although I am already past the age of being moved. Hahaha.

    Cheer up, boy. Work hard ... There will be a girl you cherish!!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you miss something, you can't go back, so why bother with anything.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Alas, will time and reality make all emotions light? I do not know.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Once heartache.

    I don't know what you want to feel, my mother often sang this song after being abandoned by my father, every time I heard it, I could feel my mother's helpless sadness, I couldn't do anything for her, so I had to listen quietly.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because love is like two people pulling monkey bands, and the one who hurts is always the one who lets go.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Love. There is no one who is right or wrong, who loves deeply, and who hurts really

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't know this, because only if you really pay it, you can know how sad it is, and don't be too good to your friends, because you don't know how to cherish things that are too easy to get.

    If you are together now, you have to hang each other's words, or you will repeat the performance.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There is no right or wrong in love, and it cannot be measured and calculated, and it is not that whoever gives how much will be rewarded accordingly.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you give with sincerity, you get harm.

    Can you say that it doesn't hurt?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Love deeply, so hurt deeply.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because in the whole process, the one who really gives also gets more.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others But the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other is to make each other's lives better and silently dedicate This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is the ...... to have everythingPlease cherish the time, love well True love is a kind of care and care from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words.

    Feel it with your heart.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's useless to say it in detail, you can only solve it by yourself, let go of everything, remember that people don't take themselves too seriously, and don't take themselves seriously. My friend said this sentence to me, I have been used until now, I have also been injured, but I came out in less than 3 days, you may say that I blow, but the truth is because I think about it, I hope my words will be useful to you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you are out of love, you can take a look at the methods below.

    First recognize the negative impact of falling out of love on the psyche, realize the importance of adjusting your mentality, recognize that the facts cannot be changed, do not hesitate, hesitate, and hold on to unrealistic fantasies.

    Say a word to yourself every day, do autosuggestion or divert your attention, don't say I'm going to forget him, don't focus on the past, say positive, self-encouraging things, say "I'm going to start a new relationship", "I'm shining today", "I'm great, I'm good, I'm energetic".

    Try to pinch yourself whenever you think of him, and bounce yourself with a rubber band.

    Get the lost feelings right. Love yourself and be kind to yourself. Even if it's a lovelorn self, I love it. Treat past relationships with gratitude, education (this is a life experience).

    Don't stress yourself. Don't force yourself to forget immediately, it takes a while to recover after recognizing that you have broken up, it is unrealistic to forget the pain immediately, and time is the best healing agent.

    Learn to release your bad emotions after falling out of love, such as pain, anger, unwillingness, sadness, and so on.

    Don't let the past get in the way of your future.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You can't learn the question of love, can you?

    So don't be bent on forgetting, the more you think about it, the more things you will remember, now you just don't want to wake up in pain, but after a long time, it will be fine.

    With so many people in the world, you will be very happy in the future...

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It is possible to give sincerity to any kind of woman! As long as that woman makes the person he loves lose his mind. And there is a kind of woman who is most likely to touch the heart of a man!

    This woman has a straightforward personality, a beautiful and refreshing face, a kind heart, and self-confidence! When you are with her, you will feel that everything is good, and she will think about each other in every little thing, she is such a good woman! It's not easy for any man to resist!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    A man will give his heart to the woman he loves. As long as a woman is a man's favorite, no matter what kind of woman she is, he will give sincerely.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    What a man likes about her is that a woman who is inseparable from her in the real sense will give her heart! The kind of likable, lively, beautiful, emotional woman will give a sincere !!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Because you're too naïve...

    Let me tell you. Men are indoctrinated from an early age. Mostly war. Military. Either Caesar or nothing. Possessiveness, desire to conquer. It has become the second day sex. It even became the first day of sex.

    If you want someone to truly love you. This kind of man is usually hard to find. Unless the other person grew up in a loving family.

    But what. This kind of man. It is usually very successful.

    Very good man. The odds of encountering it are low.

    In this society of China. Most of the men. It is yourself who loves. No one will love but themselves.

    Benevolent society. Those who are indoctrinated are hypocrites.

    That's the kind of person I am.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Because women are too emotional, in fact, as long as you analyze it a little, you can know if the other party is cheating on you, but there is no way, you always rely on feelings to do things, and you are not willing to die until you are completely abandoned, which is a tendon. The reason why there is a 6th sense is because it is too emotional, in fact, as long as you ask a little bit of a male friend, you can analyze whether that person is **, and don't do a lot of investigation, maybe he just wants to play with you, and he won't admit it in the process of playing, because men's analysis is often correct.

    If you meet someone who really loves you, don't be stingy with giving because of the lesson of the last time, so you will often be a silly woman for the second time. Again, don't be too cautious or investigate anything, find a male friend you can trust to help contact that person, generally it doesn't take 1-2 hours to analyze. I've seen my friend become a stupid woman, it's so obvious, I've given her a hint, and she actually told him, alas, she can be stupid to that extent, her love is wasted.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I'm a man....In fact, everyone wants to get true love, and give to the new love regardless of whether it is male or female. It's just that some people don't know how to cherish and take everything for granted, and women are more likely to be hurt, maybe they are born with motherhood. Two people together, not just for you or yourself, love is for two people, you can't be too selfish, some people don't understand it very well!

    Some small things may bury hidden dangers, and in the end...The ending of a feature film'Omitted, in fact, no matter what, you will find your other half, don't just be a silly girl, love is not just like....Come on!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Because a woman is weak and needs to be taken care of by a selfless man who is worthy of her love!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Many men are also selfless in love. Only those emotional veterans who have experienced a lot will play casually.

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