We have a good relationship, but my parents don t approve of me dating my boyfriend

Updated on psychology 2024-05-17
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I've just experienced this kind of thing, and in the end, the two of them have to separate. The reason is also that the woman's parents do not agree, and I feel that it is difficult for a man to get the consent of the woman's parents, just take myself as an example, politeness or something, it is not bad, but it is still useless, people are realistic, and the conditions are the most important. Don't say anything frustrating, more or less ask your boyfriend to work hard to improve the image in the eyes of your parents.

    If you can't do that, you should start with making your parents feel that he's good to you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you really want to be with him, just do the parental work as soon as possible, and if you really can't do it, then put it off.

    This kind of thing often ends up being compromised by the parents.

    If he's really as good as you say, one day your parents will see the good in him and will abandon those old ideas and agree to be together.

    You need time to prove that he is good and to let your parents know how happy you are with him.

    In this way, your parents can rest assured that they will hand you over to him, and arguing with your parents alone will not solve the problem.

    We have to find a way to show them that he's good, so that they will agree.

    Good luck huh.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Of course, what parent doesn't want their daughter to marry closer to home? Married so far parents want to go to see their daughters are troublesome, you have to be considerate of your parents? They're all for your own good, and if you really love each other that much, you can do something to convince your parents that you have to let them know how happy you are with him, and let them rest assured that you're married, and you'll come back to see them often.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's hard to say, it depends on your views on love and family. If you see your family as important, you should obey your parents. Of course, in the end, your parents can accept him. But it's up to him to work with you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    As long as you insist on your love, work together to prove to your parents that there is nothing wrong with them doing so.

    Wrong, it's understandable to feel sorry for your daughter's heart, remember to communicate well with your parents, and of course give them enough time, I wish you happiness!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Marriage is a matter of two families, not two people!!

    Think about it!!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love is in your own hands, don't let it slip away.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Do you want to listen to your parents' opinions when you are in love?

    Personally, you can listen to your parents' opinions, because the vast majority of parents in the world want their children to live well, so you should listen to their views and refer to them.

    Many people think that listening to their parents means that they have to do what they say. Please, you are already an adult, and your parents can listen to their opinions and choose for yourself. Love and marriage are related to the happiness of your own life, think carefully and make your own choice.

    All love can listen to the opinions of parents and consider how to do it yourself.

    In fact, most of our parents' opinions come from their life experiences, and our thoughts are just that we feel happy to be with him at the moment, and we think too much about the future and too simple. The opinion of your parents is definitely a factor that cannot be ignored, but the most important thing is to listen to your own heart, because it is not your parents who can accompany you until you grow old, but your other and you.

    Do you have to listen to your parents when you fall in love?

    In real life, most girls will not listen to their parents' opinions, and even if their parents strongly oppose them, they will only turn into an underground relationship and no longer open to their parents. But such a relationship is often difficult to break up to the end, and it usually takes several years to finally break up. So, what's wrong in between?

    Is it really the parents' judgment that is right? Not really. The core question is:

    The pressure from your parents makes you neglect to observe each other, and instead focus on confronting your parents, trying to prove that your choice is correct. And the more you want to prove it, the more Wang Xiao will not look at the other party's shortcomings, will not look at the other party objectively, you will take a filter to see his trapped imperial draft, and you can't listen to others' negation of him. You will feel that when others deny him, they are denying yourself.

    So, should you listen to your parents in love? Parents' opinions can be consulted. But in this process, you must see your partner's shortcomings, run in with him, get along normally, and find out whether you are suitable in time.

    Don't let the pressure from your parents blind you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you do decide that it is worth dating, stick to it, communicate with your parents more, and explain the reasons for your love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In fact, the blind date introduced by your parents and elders has also been successful, and the reason why you find it difficult to succeed is mainly due to the following reasons.

    1.Parents and elders are very pragmatic and will not introduce some blind dates that cater to your aesthetics.

    Parents and elders feel that you don't know what you are talking to, and they are afraid that you will be deceived and wronged yourself. So when they introduce you to someone, they know a little bit about it. Either an acquaintance introduced by this relative, or a friend whom that friend acquainted.

    The reason why this is so is because they love you too much, so the people they are looking for can inquire.

    2。Now it's not the unsuccessful free love that is introduced by the parents. It's either a bit of a problem if it's either a high vision.

    A blind date with a high vision is that you don't look down on me, I don't look down on you. How can such a success. Then there is more or less a problem, either a personality problem or a mouth problem. The mouth is not sweet enough to communicate.

    3。The most important thing is that do you think it is easy to go on a blind date now? They are very picky, and it is really difficult to find fault with them if they don't like it at all.

    Like when I went on a blind date, I was thought that ** was not white enough, my hair was not straight enough, I couldn't dress up, and I couldn't put on makeup. Well, I was very depressed, very broken, and even thought it was my own problem.

    In fact, the right person will not find fault with you, but will only try to make you happy, make you happy, and not be wronged at all.

    It's not a blind date introduced by your parents, it's hard to get it, but you haven't met the right person yet. Keep holding on and wait for the one who loves you to come on a white horse.

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