What causes you to be bored with school? What causes boredom?

I didn't like to go to school before, when I was in elementary school, I was far away from home and had to board, and I was young, I didn't know how to talk to my parents, so I didn't like to go to school. The most important thing is that I didn't adapt to the school in the town from the school at home, and gradually, I didn't like going to school very much. But then I gradually liked going to school, mainly because I began to get familiar with school life and my classmates around me.

In fact, a big reason why children start to get tired of school is that they are not familiar with school, and their classmates treat them unkindly, so they hate school. In fact, it is very easy to change this, as a parent, you should know the situation of your child in school, if the child does not want to communicate with you, you can take your time, do not let your eagerness spoil the child's mood, otherwise it will be difficult to communicate in the future. There is also the need to let children slowly get familiar with school life, and not to make children hate school because of the school environment.

For their own reasons, some children are born introverted and timid. Parents have a genetic factor in this area, and these children are unwilling to express themselves in front of everyone and are not confident. If you encounter a little difficulty in learning, you will not actively solve it, but avoid it, and over time you will form a mood of boredom with learning.

My five-year-old daughter has been a bit unconfident lately. There are two sides to the daughter's personality. At home, he is the king and dominates, and at school he is submissive and does not dare to express himself.

My baby is more than four years old, in kindergarten, because it is rural, so learning is not as intense as in the city, and there are not many things to teach, roughly learning recitation, singing, doing handicrafts, painting, etc., but parents will teach their children to learn some simple basic knowledge at home in order to make it easier for their children to go to primary school, and I am no exception. "Hope that the son will become a dragon" is the wish of all parents, and I hope that my child will become a talent like all parents in the world, and let him learn every day. There are probably many parents like me who force their children to learn, the reason is that the child is not interested in learning, but the more they force him, the more counterproductive it is, so I am also exploring the road of changing and guiding children to love learning.

I think that children don't like to learn and are disgusted by more learning, the main reason is that they are not interested in learning more, and they feel that learning is too rigid, boring, boring, and unattractive.

I have a lot of say on this issue, that is, the teacher deliberately excluded me, which made me tired of learning. When I was in the first grade of elementary school, my homeroom teacher happened to be my sister's homeroom teacher, and my sister was the best student in the class at that time, and she had a relative in the city at that time, so she asked my sister to go to the city to take the graduation exam, so that the homeroom teacher would not get the bonus. He was very angry, but his sister had already graduated, and there was nowhere for his anger, but I happened to meet me when I went to his class, we were in a rural primary school, and there was only one class of the same age, so we could only go to school in his class.

Always deliberately targeting me, so it makes me hate going to school.

Psychologists believe that in the process of growing up, children's greatest needs are a sense of value and belonging, and the objects of these two needs should be parents. If parents blindly ignore their children's feelings, or blindly suppress them, children will not realize the value and belonging of their own existence, and will subconsciously criticize themselves, so they will always think that they are bad, they think that they are not worthy of the love of their parents, and may have wrong behaviors such as pleasing them.

It was many years ago, and now I really want to go to school! At that time, it didn't seem to be particularly annoying.,It's just that the beloved extracurricular book connection has been taken away by the math teacher a few times.,It's a little emotional.,Otherwise, it's okay.。

The reasons for the boredom of school are:

1. It may be related to the new course. Children have not yet understood the mysteries of the new curriculum and their own interests, and when they are suddenly exposed to the new curriculum, they cannot directly arouse their interest in learning.

2. It may be related to the teacher's educational method. Children may already be accustomed to heuristic and interest-based education in primary school, but after middle school, it is more indoctrination and directly teaching the course content to children, at this time children may have inadaptability in learning methods.

3. It may be that in the process of comparing with classmates, the child finds that he is inferior in learning or his grades are not as good as other classmates, and he will have a dissatisfaction with expectations and disappointment, which will lead to the feeling of disgust with learning.

4. It may be that the learning environment is not friendly and you are afraid of going to school. Children are introverted and rarely have obvious loneliness among campus friends, and are prone to timidity and fear of going to school due to conflicts with classmates or criticism from teachers.

5. It may be lazy and playful. Occasionally, I couldn't go to school due to illness, and I was cared for by my parents in every way, so I made up a reason to be lazy and skip school.

6. It may be a lack of learning ability and self-confidence. Children have special learning skills disabilities, such as reading difficulties and poor comprehension skills, resulting in poor academic performance, loss of self-confidence, and lack of interest in learning.

7. It may be a lack of understanding of learning behaviors and lack of psychological preparation. Children who memorize a lot of words and poems since childhood have not learned to associate and compare, integrate and acquire knowledge, are not good at using their brains and are lazy to use their brains, and with the deepening of the courses they have learned, they have an impatient and tired mood of learning.

Boredom refers to a serious sense of unwillingness, disinterest, or boredom with learning. There can be many reasons for school boredom.

Mainly include:1Excessive academic stress: Excessive academic load and stress can lead to anxiety and resistance in children.

2.Improper learning style: The learning style is too simple.

1. Boredom and lack of innovation may lead to children's loss of interest in learning.

3.There are problems with the way parents change their education: excessive parental intervention, unreasonable expectations, lack of support and understanding, etc., can have a negative impact on children.

4.Psychological problems: Children may have psychological problems such as inattention, low self-esteem, and loneliness, which affect their interest in learning and learning effectiveness.

Ways to deal with school boredom include:

1.Understand your child's emotions: Understand your child's feelings and communicate with them to eliminate their anxiety and resistance.

2.Break through traditional learning methods: adopt a variety of innovative learning methods to promote children's interest and enthusiasm in learning.

3.Changing the way parents educate: Parents should adopt an education style that supports, understands, and respects their children, and encourages them to give them enough space and freedom.

4.Help your child diagnose psychological problems: When necessary, you can help your child go to a professional institution to diagnose specific psychological problems, and carry out targeted treatment**.

For children and parents, there are a few things you can do about it:

2.Increase interest: Children can participate in some hobby classes or clubs outside of class to broaden their horizons and enrich their lives, and they can also use games to combine learning.

3.Parental guidance: Parents can give active support to their children in the learning process, understand their children's situation, and help them resolve bad emotions.

4.Establish goals: Help children establish feasible learning plans, clarify learning goals, and make a reasonable and feasible plan for children.

In short, parents should pay attention to their children's situation, deeply understand the reasons for their children's school boredom, take effective methods and measures to solve such problems, and give their children enough support and love.

1.Academic pressure. Under Chinese education, students are under increasing pressure, facing a lot of homework every day, taking a full day of classes, resulting in students' boredom, coupled with their own learning ability may be lacking in answers, and not being able to catch up with the teacher's progress will also lead to aggravation of students' boredom.

2.Interpersonal aspects. Interpersonal relationships at school are also a problem faced by students, students with low self-esteem and introversion do not have friends to accompany them at school and parents to take care of them, and students will feel lonely and bored, which will also lead to students not wanting to stay in school and become bored with school.

Even more serious problems may be suffered from school bullying and mental illness.

3.Dissatisfaction with teachers. Students' attitudes towards teachers can also affect students' emotions, and if students feel that the teacher treats them too harshly, or simply feel that they don't like the teacher, it will also lead to boredom with learning.

4.Feeling unfree at school. If students stay in school for a long time, they will feel that their movement and freedom are restricted, and they will have to act in accordance with the rules and regulations, which will make students even more uneasy and depressed.

Therefore, when we are bored with school, we should first seek help, we can ask our parents, teachers or our closest friends, or we can go outside for a walk, take a proper look at the scenery, eat delicious food, and maybe there will be unexpected gains.