What a failure to be a man. What kind of man is considered a failure?

You're not a failure, are you? Don't say that about yourself!

You have to face up to your own attitude towards the person you like! There's nothing wrong with liking someone, in other words, it's okay if this girl doesn't come out to see you, or if she doesn't accept your emotions, there's nothing wrong with that! Maybe the opportunity hasn't come yet!

Don't worry, "fate" is sometimes like this, in fact, in a very coincidental "venue" arranged for you to "meet", but even if you don't meet, or can't be together, it also has its own reason, maybe, this is fate!

You're a failed man! It's not your own happiness that you desperately pursue, it's your own happiness that you don't grasp... Reflect on yourself.

I've had that experience with you. My approach is to give up, there will always be a girl for me, hehe, I'm still single!

Who says men fail??? Emotional things are not what you want to have Everything needs a process, ah Men fail?? Take a good look at yourself

Then you go to be a woman, the taste of being thrown often.

Why can't the people you like always be together?

Does she like you?

I don't know what this man did to fail?

Looking at the tone of the question, this man has done a lot of things, even if he has failed, I think he is very powerful, at least he has tried a lot and experienced a lot, and this experience is what people need most in society but lack the most.

The two who answered can be added together, give yourself a goal worth desperately pursuing, which can be completed in ten or twenty years or even a lifetime, which requires you to have super ambitions, the goal can be a billionaire, a luxury villa, a president and CEO, a Mercedes-Benz BMW, or a director of the street office, a captain of the urban management team, a doctor, a classroom, or to get the favor of a favorite beauty, or a strong man and a handsome guy......Forehead..

Right? For example, when I was wandering at the intersection of life, my goal was to have a smart and well-behaved daughter, a wife who loved me, a stable job, no need to have much money, enough food to ......Fifteen years later, now it has been achieved, so I need to set higher and farther goals, my daughter is going to school, so I have to earn more money in the future, save some money, buy a second-hand car to drive my daughter to school, and the baby's future job, marriage, and try to help her get a house...

In this way, we have the motivation and will not be afraid of failure, I have heard the saying for a long time: failure is success well, and when we look back after ten or decades, it is those failures that give us the courage to conquer these things that we could not have imagined before.

Because there is not a single goal worth his desperate efforts.

There are a lot of men who seem to be successful, but I think he's actually a failure. I think the main aspects of a failed man are as follows. <>

The first is a failure in the business aspect.

For a man, I think the most fancy thing should be career and family, but some people only take care of their own family, but do not care about their own career, and some people only care about their own career but do not care about their family. I think such men are failures, but I think the most failure is the failure of their career, for such men, they don't have their own jobs, they are known for being at home with their parents, with their wives and children, but they are actually people who eat soft rice, they rely on their wives or parents to support themselves day by day. idleness all day long, and did not take on the responsibility of supporting the family that a man should bear.

Or they are not motivated at all about their work, and they just live the same life step by step every day, and they don't know how to improve their status in the company, improve their bargaining chips, and don't know how to study and earn more money. to make a better life for your family. Such a man is responsible for himself and his family, and he is a failure.

The second is the failure of the family side.

Family is very important for men, if a man can not deal with the relationship in his own family, then he is also a failure, family for men is both a responsibility and a haven, only when you return home can you completely relax yourself, if a man as soon as he comes home to face a quarrel with his wife, such a family is a failure for men, after a day of tiredness to go home to face a new round of challenges, it is really very painful, In addition to this, there is also his own parents, if a man even feels that his parents do not want to be with you, feel that the relevant aspects of your behavior and behavior are wrong, men are not filial to their parents, and finally the man is only alone by himself, without a wife and children, and without his own parents. Such a man is a failure.

The third is the failure of the friend's side.

In life, we definitely need to have friends, but what we need is the kind of sincere friends, some people think that they have a lot of friends, but when it comes to the critical moment, they are suffering, and when you ask them for help, they will ignore you. Such people are not considered true friends. A true friend is someone who will never give up on you at any time and will always help you.

If a man doesn't even have a true friend, that's a failure.

I've always been able to compare myself to my peers – the values and achievements I can embody, of course! From the age of 20 to now, I suddenly realized that I had become an old man's ...... inadvertentlyA lot of times, I often come to myself and ask myself, "Am I a failure?

After more than 30 years of hard work, I still have nothing, no house, no car." If you think about it carefully, the only thing you have is a progressive heart, tirelessly pursuing the value you can show and the ...... you can establish as a resultConstantly questioning myself – am I a failure? When I went to work in Guangzhou at the end of '99, I watched a business competitor start a business step by step - in '01, he became my second boss - he was only 9 years older than me at that time!

Since then, for a long time, he has become a target in my heart that needs to be surpassed, of course, compared to his age at the same time. Until now, my need to surpass the rankings has increased by n numbers, but I still haven't surpassed him, which has prompted me to find some high-sounding reasons for myself to prevaricate myself and prove myself - despite this, I am better than him! It's like covering ......your ears and stealing a bellThere is also a friend I met when I was in Nanchang, Jiangxi - he is a farmer, an authentic farmer!

I'm in my 40s and have a son and daughter! In the second year when I returned to Guangzhou from Nanchang, he and his wife went to Shenzhen with more than 300,000 yuan to start a business - to do building materials business, that year was the middle of 04. It was this farmer in his 40s, who had already opened his own building materials production factory in Guangzhou in just two years in just two years!

A man's biggest failure is to let his women cry and let other men coax, and the most incompetent sentence of a man is: If you think like this, I don't have a way to do it, smart men will make their own orange round women, spoiled lawlessly, so that other men, Wu Yu can't accept it. Only the stupidest man will let his woman suffer all the grievances and let other men coax him.