What does lingering pain mean, lingering pain

This kind of thinking is very bad, there are all kinds of people in the world, men are good and bad, it's just that you meet a bad man and give him true affection. You're a good girl, and thankfully you found out who he really is, and it's too late to find out when you're married. There is nothing to be nostalgic for such a man, you should let go of the burden in your heart as soon as possible.

You just met the wrong bad man at the right time, or you met the wrong bad man at the wrong time, there is love in the world, there is love in the world, we should look at the world with a loving heart. There are still good men, maybe when you meet the right person, you won't think so, just ask how many people can fall in love once and succeed, what do you say? Just like panning for gold, gold is always to be picked out of the sand.

No, you still believe that there is truth in this world. Because you are very rational in your analysis of yourself, and if you have this objectivity, then you will not cover up the whole with partiality.

However, tending to the self-protection of human nature, although you know that there are true feelings in the world, you are afraid that you will be hurt again.

At the same time, you also call for true love and need it to mend your scars and broken self-confidence. I'm a scarred man myself, so I'm not in a position to judge you in any way.

But as a person who has come before, I still have to say.

There is no hate, where does love come from. You can't change the facts, then you can only change yourself. Resentment won't last, but it will at least obscure your brilliance and make you dim and silent. Optimism is what you really want. You can see your desires through words.

Then don't let yourself get caught up in your thoughts, do things, whether it's in love, play or play, just be happy.

If you don't believe in true love, then I can only say that a person can live a good life.

I want to forget, but I can't. You can't think about something (someone) but can't think about it.

In our lives, we will experience a lot of sad things, some unforgettable sad things will make us remember forever, and some will slowly blur and disappear in memory over time, I think to forget sad things can start from passive forgetting. Passive forgetting includes: relying on time and passive help.

Time is the best medicine for spiritual trauma, since you let the sad and remorseful things have happened, what you can do at this time is to get through this sad day, as time goes by, you will slowly forget the person who once made you sad, that thing, and even forget all those unpleasant. But the biggest disadvantage of this method is that it is uncontrollable, because you can't control yourself and let it be forgotten by yourself tomorrow.

Memories are memories that are impressions formed by the experiences we experience. This experience is like a new programming template that is carved into the neural circuits of our brains. All experiences, good or bad, cannot be forgotten.

It will accompany the course of life. Only by accepting and facing it, and then dealing with this unhappiness, can it be relieved. Deliberately forgetting, it means that you are still attached to this situational link, deepening its impression.

Now we feel unhappy and painful, and after the transition, you will find that the most precious and valuable time in life is in this unhappy time. Embrace every experience in your life so that your life will be complete.

I try to forget, yes, for the person concerned, because it will bring them immense pain, but after the fact, I often regard this experience that brings them sadness and sadness as a precious treasure. First love is sweet, youthful, and beautiful, and every time I remember it, I always smile. However, the original lovelorn made us not know what to eat.

But this pain is a heart-wrenching pain, so I will do my best to forget.

I think it's better not to take this to heart. The more you experience, the more you will experience, and the next time you meet you, you will know what to do. This is a lesson, a bloody lesson.

The cost of such an experience is a little greater. People must learn to look forward, not to live in the past. I still have to face it with a smile when I am unhappy.

You can quietly read a book, watch a movie, and take a trip. You can confide in understanding friends and spend more time with optimistic people. Leave it to time, time is the best medicine for all diseases in the world, and when the time comes, everything will disappear.

I think it's better to treat it with a normal heart, after all, people have to go through some pain, only face it well by yourself, and face it with the best attitude. Time will tell.

Of course, I think about happy things. If a person stands in the midst of blooming flowers, bathed in the bright sun, then what he sees is colorful and bright, and he feels warmth, beauty and happiness, right? Conversely, if a person huddles in a dark, damp corner, what will he see and feel?

So, open the door of your heart and let the sun and happiness stay in your heart. You know, life is not always easy. Ups and downs and tribulations make extraordinary heroes!

As the saying goes, "Drink to kill sorrow is more sorrowful!" "But I think you can really forget a lot of things when you're drunk! Don't be too pessimistic about what life is going to experience!

If your life is full of success, you will also find it boring. The ups and downs are life. Some things, some setbacks are not a bad thing, it will make us learn to grow up.

I think everyone will have this experience, so I think there are many ways to eat, you can go to the gym to sweat profusely, to buy things you like but have been reluctant to buy, and the most important thing is to be happy.