How can two people in a different place stay sweet?

Keep in touch every day, insist on sharing the little things in your life with each other, plan a future together, and work together towards the future.

Two people in different places can communicate more, care more about each other's emotional changes, buy more gifts for each other, and create some surprises for her.

If you want to keep sweet, first of all, two people should communicate frequently, contact often, and occasionally you should take time out to meet often, so as to keep sweet.

I think two people in different places should play ** once a day, and they should also surprise each other on important days.

A long-distance relationship is really a test of the relationship between two people, and the relationship may accidentally fall apart because of a small misunderstanding, so some people say, "Let's get married after a long-distance relationship". It is even more difficult to keep a long-distance relationship sweet, but as long as we have the heart, we can still make the long-distance relationship full of sweetness, mainly to do the following: try to keep chatting every day, surprise each other, encourage and support each other.

Try to keep chatting every day in a long-distance relationship, unlike those couples who meet every day, when they encounter interesting things, they can immediately share them with each other, usually two people can only guess each other's mood through tone. Long-distance relationships can't get the other person's dynamics in time, which makes the relationship more insecure, so it's important to try to keep chatting every day. When my boyfriend and I are in a different place, if he doesn't look for me one day, I can't help but wonder "is something wrong with him", "does he not like me that much", etc., even if I can't spare time to chat every day, I have to explain the reason to the other person and reassure the other party.

Create surprises for each otherSome people think that long-distance relationships can't create surprises, which is naturally not right, as long as you are willing to think with your heart, you can still create a lot of surprises for each other, so that two people can feel the sweetness of love. For example, buying gifts for each other from time to time, writing letters to each other, running to each other's cities when they are free, etc., can make each other feel the bond and sweetness of love.

Encourage and support each other, don't think that sweetness is two people holding hands, hugging, playing, etc., in fact, mutual encouragement and support is the greatest sweetness. Especially in long-distance relationships, you can't be with each other, but you should encourage each other and strive for a better future for both parties. When you think of someone who is working as hard as you, you will feel extremely relieved and sweet, because you know that you are not struggling alone, and your future is full of flowers.

<> "Ways to Keep a Long-Distance Relationship Sweet."

1. Build a sense of security.

The most hurtful thing about a long-distance relationship is "distance", which cannot be touched or seen every day, which is easy to make people feel uncertain about this relationship, or have unnecessary suspicions. So building a sense of security for the other person is the most important thing!

01.Consciously disclose the other half to the circle of friends, which is the most basic in love.

02.Chapter 3 of the covenant: don't turn over old accounts, don't take office in advance, and don't say break up.

03.The most important thing is to respond to information and report your itinerary in a timely manner.

04.Take care of the other person's sensitive emotions, be able to read the other person's mood and comfort them appropriately.

05.Remember and do what you promised.

06.When you need to make a decision about your love life, discuss it together.

07.Know how to refuse the opposite sex who takes the initiative to approach you, and pay attention to tone and proportion when chatting.

2. Increase intimate interactions.

01.Watch movies and TV dramas or listen to songs together, and you can also discuss the plot.

02.Save money together. Meet and go on a trip.

03.Take photos together to record life and put each other's daily ** together.

04.Work together to make a small day mark of the week that belongs only to the two of them and realize it.

05.Shop online together and choose clothes or daily necessities for each other.

06.Urge each other to improve their burning selves in the days when they don't see each other.

07.Discuss and plan for the future together.

3. Maintain a sweet sense of ritual.

01.Stay in touch online every day and check in in the morning and evening.

03.Say more sweet words: Occasionally, you can also use Shiwei love words to trick the other party.

04.Prepare a surprise (gift or surprise appearance) for the other person.

05.Meet on a regular date and make each other's lives look forward to each other.

06.Take a set of ** regularly and wash it out as a souvenir.

07.If you can't celebrate the anniversary together, you can also order a delicious takeout for each other.

08.Give the other person a personal gift to make them think of you all the time.

09.You can make a handbook for every fishing meeting.

10.Make an appointment to use (wear) the couple's model together on a certain day.

Fourth, the important principles to adhere to in long-distance relationships.

01.Trust, respect and understand each other.

02.If there is a contradiction, it is necessary to directly defeat the enemy, actively communicate, and put an end to the Cold War.

03.Do not have a warm smell with any of the opposite sex.

04.When you have nothing to do, you can reply in seconds, and you can explain in advance if you are busy.

05.Honesty does not deceive, and confession does not hide.

06.Think more from the other person's point of view.

07.Express your love for each other.

08.Very firm in the relationship and have a common goal.

<> "Ways to Keep a Long-Distance Relationship Sweet."

Build a sense of security.

The most hurtful thing about a long-distance relationship is "distance", which cannot be touched or seen every day, which is easy to make people feel uncertain about this relationship, or have unnecessary suspicions. So building a sense of security for the other person is the most important thing!

Consciously disclose the other half to the circle of friends, which is the most basic in love.

Chapter 3 of the covenant: don't turn over old accounts, don't take office in advance, and don't say break up.

The most important thing is to respond to information and report your itinerary in a timely manner.

Take care of the other person's sensitive emotions, be able to read the other person's mood and comfort them appropriately.

Remember and do what you promised.

Regarding your love life, when you need to make a decision, you should discuss it together.

Know how to refuse the opposite sex who takes the initiative to approach you, and pay attention to tone and proportion when chatting.

Increase intimacy.

Watch movies and TV dramas or listen to songs, and you can also discuss the plot.

Save money together, meet up and go on a trip.

Take photos to record life and put each other's daily ** together.

Together, set small goals for the week that belong only to the two of them and achieve them.

Shop online together and choose anti-tremor clothing or daily necessities for each other.

Urge each other to improve themselves in the days when they don't see each other.

Discuss and plan for the future together.

Keep the sweet sense of ritual alive.

Stay in touch online every day and check in in the morning and evening.

Speak sweetly! Occasionally, you can also use earthy love words to prepare surprises (gifts or surprise appearances) for each other

Meet on a regular date and make each other's lives look forward to each other.

Take a set of ** regularly and wash it out as a souvenir.

If you can't spend the anniversary together, you can also order a delicious takeaway for each other and give each other a personal gift, so that they will always think of you.

You can make a handbook for every date and meeting.

Make an appointment to use (wear) the couple's model together on a certain day.

Important principles to adhere to in long-distance relationships.

Trust, respect, and understand each other.

If there are contradictions, it is necessary to explain them directly, actively communicate with them, and put an end to the Cold War.

Do not have an affair with any person of the opposite sex.

When you have nothing to do, you can reply in seconds, and you can explain in advance if you are busy.

Honesty does not deceive, and confession does not conceal.

Think more from the other person's point of view.

Express your love for each other.

Very firm in the relationship and have a common goal.

A good way to maintain a relationship in a long-distance relationship is as follows: 1. Keep in touch, which is very important, even if it is just a text message every day, or make a **, but also let the other party know that he or she has him and her in his heart, and that the person he cares about and loves is him. Of course, the time and frequency of contact are different for each person, and it varies from person to person, but you can't break the contact.

2. If the common meeting conditions allow, strive to meet at least once a month. Although it is said that distance produces beauty, but for long-distance relationships, if you want to have a stable relationship, it is not enough to have a distance, you need to communicate and communicate with each other in the face-to-face letter, and you need to talk about love words and little secrets face-to-face, which is an important method and way to promote the relationship between both parties, and it is also essential. 3. Give each other different surprises, such as a love letter every week.

Although Lu Tan Gaoran's current communication tools are very fast and convenient, they are not worth a love letter, seeing each other's words and words, the heart will be warm, suitable for introverts to express their emotions, and it will also make each other's hard work and persistence in a long-distance relationship feel worthwhile. 4. Understand and be good at taking advantage of the differences in thinking between men and women, tolerating and understanding each other. In fact, whether it is a boy or a girl, there will always be a lot of misunderstandings and incomprehensions in a long-distance relationship, and in order to better promote each other's feelings, you need to think from each other's point of view, know the difference in thinking between boys and girls, and you can tolerate and understand each other, which can reduce a lot of cranky thoughts, and can also ensure the stability and sweetness of the relationship.

5. The correct and best way of communication, in fact, even if the couple is in a city and meets every day, there will be times when they quarrel, not to mention that two people are not in the same place, it is inevitable that there will be a lot of quarrels, and they feel that the other party does not love themselves, or they feel that the other party has a new love, etc., which will make them tangled and uncomfortable, and a reasonable way of communication can effectively avoid this.

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In contrast, it seems that long-distance relationships do have some problems that cannot be avoided. For example, if you get together less and leave more, you will feel that you can't always understand what the other person is doing; For example, the other party did not reply in time, worried that he didn't care about himself or had a new lover; For example, there is little time to get along, it is difficult to have common topics, and so on.

But in all fairness, these kinds of problems can still arise even if they aren't long-distance relationships. Because everyone is an independent individual, in their emotional life, people with a high sense of security tend to have a certain sense of control over their emotions, while people with a low sense of security often suffer from gains and losses. Therefore, a good relationship needs to be maintained, and it requires the joint efforts of both parties.

First, in the relationship, we should first do our own role, and then do the role of the other partner. Exist without attachment to each other, so that both parties have room to develop their own personalities and lives. In addition to being lovers, both partners should have other social support such as friends, family, classmates, and colleagues.

Second, Peicha should be equal and respectful in the relationship, and can have his own views and attitudes, but he cannot completely use his own standards to define others. Get along with friends in the key to things, and communicate in a timely manner when encountering things. Do not judge the other party at will, do not insult the other party emotionally, and do not use violence and cold violence.

Third, in a good relationship, you should give each other the necessary emotional support. People are happy to share good moods, but bad moods need more attention. When you are in a bad mood, you can remind the other party so that your emotions do not cause the other party to misunderstand; When the other person is in a bad mood, you can give attention and see people instead of things.

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