Why has the refusal of the Dink family become the goal of contemporary young people?

Because of the heavy responsibility of marriage, contemporary young people are more inclined to advocate freedom and do not want to let the shackles of marriage bind them, so refusing to marry the Dink family has become the goal pursued by contemporary young people.

1. I have high requirements for marriage and feel that marriage is a great responsibility

In this era, it is difficult to simply find a partner, and it is even more difficult to find someone who can live together for a lifetime. In addition, marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, once the choice is not right, then you will have to face a variety of problems, such as the tension between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, extramarital affairs, domestic violence and so on. Therefore, many people think that love is very beautiful, you can relieve loneliness, but you don't have to take on too much responsibility, there is really no need to think about getting married.

Second, the burden of raising children is too heavy

In the past, there were many children because there was one more person at that time, and there was one more labor. Now it is not easy to raise a child, the child's milk powder, diapers all need money, and if you want to go to school, you have to find a good school; to attend cram school; You have to learn talents and so onHalf of the money earned is spent on children, it is really not easy to be a parent, and in addition to money, it takes a lot of energy to bring a child, and you can't take care of your interests and hobbies at all. Therefore, in order to live more freely and freely, many people choose to refuse to marry the Dink family.

Third, the work pressure is too much

The pace of modern society is too fast, and if you are not careful, you will be left far behind. The usual work pressure is already very highHaving a baby definitely has a serious impact on work, especially for working womenMaybe when you come back from maternity leave, your place has already been replaced by someone elseEven if you give birth to a child and return to work, how to balance family and work in the days to come is enough to be a headache.

The refusal to marry the Dink family has become the goal pursued by contemporary young people, because not having children has become the consensus of young people nowadays, which can avoid many troubles and do not have to worry about children!

Because the life pressure of contemporary young people is relatively high, they are more eager to get married in the Dink family, and they feel that such a family is more relaxed.

Because today's young people don't have a sense of responsibility, they don't want to take on too much responsibility, and they want to live easily.

Contemporary young people prefer to pursue themselves and are unwilling to be tied down, and it is normal for them to be reluctant to get married due to the high pressure in society now.

This is because the pressure of marriage and children is very great, and it is very difficult to raise children, so couples are unwilling to raise children, but they are still very loving.

The main reason is that the pressure on the life of today's young people is particularly high, and they find it overwhelming to get married.

Because young people themselves are a mirror and know the meaning of raising children.

I can't afford to give birth, I can't afford to raise it, and I hate children.

Men mainly have no money, and women can't find more money.

Of course, you can't be a human being.

The unmarried and Dink tribes think that their financial strength and energy are not enough to afford the cost of raising a child, so they simply do not have children. It's good to live alone or with your lover for the rest of your life, and there's no pressure.

But this involves an important issue in the second half of their lives, that is, pension. In addition to bringing fun and happiness to our daily life, having children also has one of the most important reasons, that is, raising children to prevent old age. This is also one of the most important contents of our traditional concept, and the issue of pension has always been concerned by everyone.

After all, with the development of society, the speed of scientific and technological innovation is far beyond the speed that our people can accept. In our daily life, it is not difficult to find that the older generation is indeed abandoned by society. Whether it is intelligent transportation or intelligent medical treatment, it has given a huge challenge to the elderly people who use geriatric machines.

And the child can quarrel enough to play a good role in reconciling. But how do the unmarried and dink families retire when they get old? In fact, this generation of young people has long found a good way out for themselves.

The first is to be self-reliant and take care of yourself. Young people today have long been accustomed to living alone, so taking care of themselves has long been an essential skill for them.

But when they are old enough to be cared for, they will find a nursing home for themselves. Playing chess with his good sisters in a nursing home, teasing cats and dogs. It is also a novel idea of contemporary young people.

Coupled with the fact that nursing homes are now more advanced in equipment and better service, they are no longer the kind of places we stereotype about elder abuse. In the nursing home, you can meet old men and women of the same age as you, and you will even have many of the same interests. This will also make it more satisfying for their retirement life.

Marriage is essentially a relationship of mutual interests, we say in the most traditional marriage model of the male protagonist and the female protagonist, the man gives the woman property, gives the woman a sense of security, gives the woman a sense of security, the woman and the man have children, cooks and cooks and does housework, and Pei Tong gives him a sense of belonging......That's it.

The essence of marriage is a big gamble, the bet is your own happiness, future, body, money, freedom, if the marriage is a big gamble, I am sure to win, I will definitely go, but I can't guarantee that I will win the bet, so I choose not to gamble, no bet and no loss, that's the truth. If I can find a man who loves me and spoils me, I will definitely get married, but I may not be able to find it, maybe I will have to work hard to be his mother when I get married, I'm afraid it's Watt, a good free single life, but why should I get married and suffer? Therefore, not getting married is the most conservative approach, although you will not get the sweet happiness of love, but there will also be no risk that it may come because of marriage.

Also, I'm not unmarried, I'm Dinkism, that is, I'll get married in the future, but I won't have children, but I'm not in a hurry to get married, just like buying a lottery ticket, you have to spend time studying the trend! Marriage is the same, you can't be hasty, you have to take time to see if a man is suitable for a lifetime. And as for why you don't want to have children, this article will not go into details, it can be boiled down to:

Having a child has a reward for paying, I don't think it's worth paying for that return, there are advantages and disadvantages to having a tomato and not having a child, but I think the benefits of not having a child mean more to me, and I am more able to accept the disadvantages of not having children.

Each of us, no matter what the current state is, must face the problem of "pension" in the future, but it is still a life, and we must also provide for the elderly. In life, only life and time are fair.

Therefore, it's all about taking precautions, and when you are not yet old, thinking and planning for the future pension is really not too far, but imminent.

However, this is not what needs to be considered by those who are not married and the Dinks, but everyone needs to consider, those who have children may not be their own dependence on their own pension, and even their own burdens and disasters, there are many such examples, those who are facing a bleak and helpless situation can not survive, and those who can't die are not all regretting knowing today, it is better not to leave no offspring, and they can spend their old age in peace. This is a matter of probability, depending on luck and one's own fate, and the unmarried and the Nadink are in a completely different state.

For such people, some trillion judgments will adopt stepsons to support them in old age, but this is unreliable. But let the relatives and ancestors.

There are quite a lot of pensions, especially in rural areas. After his death, the family property was also inherited by the juniors.

If the economic conditions are not good, you can care for the elderly at home, and you can get it with money, and those service personnel who are not related by blood will be more like grandchildren than their own grandchildren, which is of course their professionalism and is determined by their salary. After death, make a will and notarize.

You can also live in the temple, and the temple will provide for the elderly, and all the inheritance will go to the temple after death.

The most suitable is still the nursing home, according to their own economic ability, choose different grades of services, how much their own family resources, how much they spend, how much they plan to stay, naturally will be considered, should be planned, but also in the promotion and promotion.

When I am old in the future, I hope that I can still maintain a healthy body, and I can also go to the mountains and rivers, travel the world, and the final end of my life will either die on the way to travel, or die on the way to travel, I hope that I am such a life.

This is because they yearn for freedom, advocate a free and easy life, do not want to be bound by others, do not want to pay for others, just want to be themselves quietly. Disturbances.

This is because most women are getting stronger and stronger and able to protect their own lives, and they don't want their families to become a burden to them and affect their development prospects, so they choose to use the way of not getting married to cover up and bury Hongmao to ensure their perfect life.

Because having children and getting married, it still has a relatively large impact on their own personal impact, so they will choose not to get married.

Not to marry or dink is personal freedom! But Dink doesn't understand, the two of them have been together for a lifetime, staring at each other with big eyes, no matter how hard they work and how good their relationship is, what's the point of not having children? The relationship is so good, Dink is just an excuse to enjoy and can't afford to take responsibility!

Moreover, because the unwielding nature of modern marriage is becoming more and more clear, the damage to children in the family after divorce is very great, and the children of the broken family are often casually frustrated, depressed, extroverted, afraid of marriage, and so on.

Getting married, buying a car, buying a house, and all kinds of things add up to 2 million, and 2 million Lao Tzu can live well on his own, and every day is not the same woman.

Because nowadays, the unmarried and the Dink are generally highly educated, high-income, high-IQ, high-minded people, too busy with work, and a change in the way of thinking, all pursue self, independence, enjoy life, be free, and then have the high cost of raising children, and are afraid of trouble, etc.

Everyone has their own ideas and lifestyles, and they can't change anything if they don't support it, but under normal circumstances, they still have a warm home and have children, and a perfect life will lead to a happy life.

In today's society, the divorce rate is relatively high, so many people don't believe in love very much, and think that a person is very free to do whatever he wants, in fact, I also like freedom but I am more afraid of loneliness, so I will not be an unmarried person, I think it is good to have a partner to accompany me. The main reason for the Dink is that there is a lot of social pressure, and it takes a lot of energy and money to raise a child, so some people who want to have children will feel too much pressure, and then there are two people who don't like children and think that two people live well.

Personally, I believe that the Dink and the unmarried are a matter of giving up their right to marry and reproductive rights in life. If you compare who is happier with those who are married and those who have children, these are two different things, and there is no comparison.

Whether or not to get married, whether or not to marry is completely determined by one's life philosophy and living habits, which is beyond reproach.

Whether or not to dink or not to marry is not a criterion for testing happiness in life. In many Dink families, the lives of single people are also colorful, even freer and happier than ordinary families.

I think everyone has their own choice, as long as you live happily, life is so short, why bother yourself, some people may think I am selfish, but I want to say that you can't empathize, don't be morally kidnapped, you can never experience a woman's disappointment, despair, and strangeness, powerlessness, and guilt in marriage. If I had to choose again, I would be willing not to marry, because it would be difficult for Dink to stick to it in China.

This kind of person has no concept of society, no responsibility, and this kind of person is not suitable for having children, because he is irresponsible, irresponsible to society, and cannot be responsible for himself, and is not optimistic about the Dink family.

The Dink people will live very well, now people can't afford to get married, can't afford to have children, life is becoming more and more difficult, is it that the society has regressed, the happiness index of the Chinese is 100 points, everyone scores a few points.

I think it's up to other people to live their lives, whether they don't get married or don't have children, and I neither support nor oppose their ideas.

The unmarried Dinks are all avant-garde and freedom-loving people! But ordinary people really can't understand it, depending on who it is.

In real life, some people just play, and they will get married, and they will not even have children after marriage, because they think that children are a burden to them. Personally, I think it's wrong for them to do this, the first is that they can't conform to nature, and they are destined to die lonely and old, and the second point is that you may not feel anything when you are young, and when you are old, you will regret your choice

Since Japan's economic development has been a little faster than China's in the past, there are many social phenomena that can be used as references. In Japan, there is a phenomenon of "bankruptcy after old age". I couldn't afford to pay the electricity bill of 5,000 yen a month, so I barely ate the cheapest noodles bought for 200 yen.

A lot of them are unmarried or dink.