In the face of love, should I think about realistic things?

I think that since it is true love, it must be detached from reality, and if whoever can give you bread you will marry, then is it necessary to fall in love? Can a marriage without love be happy? No, only two people who love each other can get married and be happy, I don't think you should be too worldly, otherwise, even if your material life is very full and surplus in the future, and your spiritual life will be very tired.

Actually, don't you already have an idea, just hope to get support for your idea here, but what you think is all right, love, the first stage can be used without caring about anything, and now ......Hehe, your parents and you are right, long pain is better than short pain - breaking up may be the best option.

The reality is definitely something to consider, since you care about these things now, even if you are together in the future, if life is not good, you will regret it!

If you don't love, let go, and if you still love, hold on. Happiness is in your own hands.

Love and bread, what would you choose? Some people will choose love, and in their hearts love is supreme and irreplaceable. They can do anything for love, as long as they are with their beloved, whether they are poor or rich, as long as two people are together and care for each other, they feel happy.

There are also people who will choose reality, they feel that poor couples mourn everything, and two people together must not only have love but also material security. These people have high requirements for their quality of life, they yearn for a slightly richer life, even if they don't love that person so much, as long as that person can bring wealth to themselves, they are willing to be with that person. It is the so-called money worshippers in society, they may fall in love with someone they don't love at all, get married, and have children for money, for a better life, of course, it's just everyone's own choice of their own life, and we don't have much to say.

If it were me, I would ask for a match between the two. Because this world can't be as perfect as you think. If I meet someone I like, I don't need to be rich, but it's better not to be too poor, just the kind that can get by.

I think that in this case, after getting married, not only will there be love, but also life will be fine, and the best life is not that the person is rich, but that the two of you can take care of each other together, which is happiness.

Therefore, when choosing a marriage, you must be cautious. Don't just think about how rich that person is, in that case, even if you are together, you will not be happy, I hope that all good girls can find their own happiness in the end.

In love, in addition to considering whether the other party really loves you, you should also consider whether the other party has the ability to raise and support the family

The most considered in love should be whether the other party loves you, whether the two of you have a good mode of getting along, and if you talk about your career, this is a guarantee of life, as long as the man is down-to-earth, he can do it. In de facto love, you should not intersperse too many things into it, be innocent, be honest, pure, preferably, you love her and she loves you, you can meet the necessary expenses of life, such as rent, food, commuting, communication, etc., and it is best to have a part of the balance, which can be used relatively freely, or stored to deal with various unexpected problems.

In general, a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, and Shenzhen, a monthly salary of more than 7,000 yuan in second-tier cities, and a monthly salary of more than 4,000 yuan in third- and fourth-tier cities can almost meet the above requirements.

Indeed, with the basic living guarantee, there are conditions to talk about comfort.

For example, if you earn tens of thousands of yuan a month, but you have a salary of 996 yuan, and you have a goal of buying a big house in Beijing, then most of you will not be comfortable, but will easily become angry and complain.

Another example is that you earn a few thousand dollars a month, and although you live in a second-tier city, you are optimistic by nature and do not have much ambition, and at the same time, your work is very easy, and you have a lot of leisure time.

It is difficult to satisfy people's hearts, when you first work and share a house with others, you feel comfortable in a small room, and after a few years, the salary goes up, and you don't want to live in a house without a bedroom and a large living room.

The income is high, and the eyes are also picked. The poor have their suffering, and so do the rich.

Therefore, the key to comfort or not lies in the mentality.

In this life, it is inevitable that people will encounter unsatisfactory times. If you have a good attitude and live a relaxed life, you will be more comfortable.

Everyone understands this.

What really makes people happier and healthier comes from good relationships.

And in all relationships, it is the quality of intimacy that plays a decisive role.

It turns out that a marriage full of conflict and emotionless is bad for health, and can even be worse than divorce.

And living in a good, warm relationship is protective.

People in relationships who really feel like they can rely on another person when they need to have a clear memory for longer.

People who feel that they really can't rely on another person in a relationship will have memory decay earlier.

This shows that the quality of intimate relationships has a direct impact on a person's mental state.

If the relationship between husband and wife is not strong, no matter how good the mentality is, it will collapse one day.

Therefore, the quality of intimate relationships determines a person's state of mind to a certain extent.

Hurt people! It is said that if they are given another chance, they will choose reality. Because even if reality hurts you, you may get material.

But if love hurts you, not only will you be bruised all over your body, but you will also have nothing. So, if someone is hurt in a relationship, they will be more inclined to choose reality.

Rational people will put reality before love, and I am more in favor of this, because only enough material conditions can be perfect for love.

People who are mature enough in their hearts will really put reality in front of love, because such people will be very transparent in looking at people and things, and they can also truly realize how important reality is.

People who value profits. Such people tend to be more realistic, whether it's love or something else, everything will be calculated with the brain. They are very materialistic.

People who like money, because for them money is the most important thing, and love should be the last.