Would you give him a baby if he wasn t married?

You just said to him, you don't have the ability to raise children now, at this time having a child is a lot of pressure for two people, and it's not good for children, it's not good for you, especially if you're not married, you're all women, I'll tell you the truth, don't ruin yourself for men, after a woman gives birth to a child, this life is basically stereotyped, it's hard to have any big breakthroughs, don't regret it then, my boyfriend often says that he wants a child, but he said that he is not sure if he can give me and the baby a good future, He won't do that, think about it, if you have anything on your mind, you can tell me, I'm also a woman.

No way!!! It's not good, neither you nor your children are protected by the law!

After that, he dumped you, and you have no place to cry!

And it's not good for children, you can't get a household registration!

Resolutely no, what should I do if I don't want you anymore and don't want to take responsibility Of course, this is a later story.

To hell with any man!!

Don't be stupid. What if he changes his mind after giving birth to a child? Can you easily part with the affection of mother and child?

This kind of man is really rare.

Absolutely not, if you are unmarried and pregnant. Then once there is something wrong. You don't have the protection of the law.

What should you do? So don't be so impulsive. If your boyfriend still disrespects you so much after your repeated persuasion, then I advise you to break up with him!

Of course, if he listens to you, you should continue to be good.

It is best not to get pregnant out of wedlock.

Don't give her a child, after getting married, you have to think about the consequences...

If you get married and have children, you should be responsible for everyone.

I think 90% of them said no!

Does it take a lot of money to get married? To put it simply, what should you do if he abandons you after he doesn't get married and has children? Remarry with children? Without legal protection, there is no security.

But there are two impacts:

1. You can give birth to a child in a regular medical institution without a marriage certificate. There are some obstacles on the issue of household registration, because you can't get a birth certificate without a marriage certificate, and you can't get maternity insurance without a birth certificate, so you need to pay for all the examination and hospitalization expenses;

2. From a formal point of view, it is an illegal act. The child's parents give birth out of wedlock, which is a violation of the family planning policy, and they need to accept the punishment of the local family planning office and pay social maintenance fees.

To apply for a household registration for a child born out of wedlock, you also need to prepare: ID cards and household registration books of both parents; Medical certificate of the child's birth; If there is no medical certificate of birth, a paternity test issued by a qualified appraisal agency shall be provided; Marriage certificate or explanation of birth out of wedlock; Single mothers whose children live with their mothers also need a certificate of unmarried from the marriage registry.

Legal basis

Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1071:Children born out of wedlock enjoy the same rights as children born in wedlock, and must not be harmed or discriminated against by any organization or individual.

A biological father or mother who does not directly raise a child born out of wedlock shall bear the maintenance of the minor child or an adult child who is unable to live independently.

Population and Family Planning Law of the People's Republic of China

Article 18: The State advocates age-appropriate marriage and childbearing, and eugenics. A couple can have three children.

Where the requirements provided by laws and regulations are met, arrangements may be made to arrange for the birth of another child. The specific measures shall be formulated by the people's congresses of provinces, autonomous regions, and municipalities directly under the Central Government or their standing committees.

Ethnic minorities should also practice family planning, and the specific measures shall be formulated by the people's congresses of provinces, autonomous regions, and municipalities directly under the Central Government or their standing committees.

Where there are inconsistencies between the provisions on the reproduction of children between the provinces, autonomous regions, or municipalities directly under the Central Government where the husband and wife are registered, they are to be applied in accordance with the principle of benefiting the parties.

Measures for the Administration of the Collection of Social Maintenance Fees".

Article 3 Citizens who give birth to children in accordance with the Population and Family Planning Law shall pay social maintenance fees in accordance with the provisions of these Measures.

The standards for the collection of social maintenance fees shall be based on the annual per capita disposable income of local urban residents and the annual per capita net income of rural residents as the basic reference standards for the calculation and collection, and the amount to be levied shall be determined in combination with the actual income level of the parties and the circumstances of giving birth to children in accordance with the provisions of laws and regulations. The specific standards for the collection of social maintenance fees shall be prescribed by provinces, autonomous regions and municipalities directly under the Central Government.

No unit or individual may violate the provisions of laws and regulations by adding additional items related to family planning and raising the standard for the collection of social maintenance fees.

Legal Analysis: Yes. You can go to a regular medical institution to give birth without a marriage certificate.

The hospital is a place to treat diseases and save lives, as long as you are pregnant, you can go to the hospital for prenatal check-up and hospital delivery, and you will also show the baby's birth certificate. After pregnancy, it depends on the actual situation in the local area, and some places cannot apply for a birth permit without a marriage certificate, and maternity insurance cannot be applied for without a birth permit, so all examination and hospitalization expenses need to be paid for by yourself.

1. You can give birth in the hospital without a birth certificate, and the hospital will show a birth certificate, but it may be more troublesome to get married to the baby without a dust hall, depending on the specific situation of the local area, and sometimes you need to pay a social maintenance fee.

2. After pregnancy, you need to go to a community hospital or maternal and child health hospital to apply for a maternal health care handbook, and you can give birth in a hospital if you have a health care handbook, and you can also be reimbursed.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1046:Marriage shall be completely voluntary between a man and a woman, and neither party shall be allowed to coerce the other, nor shall any organization or individual interfere with it.

Article 1047:The age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 years for men and 20 years old for women.

Article 1048:Marriage is prohibited for lineal blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations.

Article 1049 A man and a woman who wish to marry shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration authority. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.

Article 1050:After marriage is registered, the woman may become a member of the man's family, and the man may become a member of the woman's family, in accordance with the agreement between the man and the woman.

Article 1051 Marriage shall be null and void under any of the following circumstances:

a) bigamy; 2) Have a family relationship that prohibits marriage;

Miyoshi) has not reached the legal age of marriage for socks and hidden.

1. If you don't want children, there is no need to get married In fact, there are many problems in the marriage system in the current society, and once many people get married, it will be very difficult to get rid of marriage after entering marriage. So if you don't want to have children, there's not much need to get married. Second, whether or not we get married in society now has little to do with whether we want to have children or not But now society is a very open society, whether we want children or not, we can choose to get married or not.

Because if we don't want to get married, but we want to have children, we can choose to be single. If you want to get married and don't want children, you can choose Dink. 3. But if you want to get married, you can get married anyway But in fact, whether you want to get married or not is just a matter of whether you want to or not, and it has nothing to do with any other factors.

If you really want to get married, you really want the other half, you can choose to get married. Marriage does not need to be mixed with any other factors, as long as you want to, you can get married no matter what. Is it necessary to get married without having children2 First of all, I think you still have to be sure whether you have thought about becoming a Dink.

If you think about this problem clearly, then it's very simple. Not having children means that your life can be more dynamic and challenging, because you don't need to rush home from work to cook for your child, and you don't need to get up in the middle of the night to feed your child or change diapers or anything. You can eat whatever you want, at least you don't have to vomit half to death when you're pregnant, or think about whether eating a little chili pepper or crab or your favorite thing will have a bad effect on the little life in your belly.

Not to mention having to survive a long pregnancy of about 9 and a half months. When you need to work overtime, you have one word: "Plus!"

You don't have to think about working overtime, and the children will be brought to the husband or the elderly, and you will not encounter the black treatment of the employer, you directly explain: I am a Dink family, and I don't need to consider the impact of giving birth to my work on work. Then, it can be expected that as long as you seize the ** period of personal value-added, you will naturally be able to fly as high as you want.

The sense of self-identity and the abundance of money that comes with soaring at work is pleasant. Secondly, having children and getting married are two different things. Marriage is to find a person with the same three views to spend a lifetime together, and with TA, there is a partner who can work together.

Of course, the premise is that you make it clear to the other person that you don't want to have children at the beginning, and if he agrees with your idea, then you can try to date. In this way, when you are working hard for your work, you will not be so lonely, and there will be someone who will think about you. There's someone who can let you down your guard and talk to them about ideas that you can't talk to your colleagues, girlfriends, or even your parents.

If you think about not having children, you must take appropriate measures.

If you can have children without getting married, will you have children? Do you think that's a good thing? Will the institution of marriage disappear if it continues like this?

Recently, Sichuan has introduced a new policy, after February 15, when the birth registration in Sichuan is carried out, the restriction on whether to get married will be abolished, that is, children born out of wedlock can also be registered for childbirth, and the legal certificate of the newborn can be obtained, and marriage is no longer a sufficient and unnecessary condition for childbearing. As soon as the news came out, it immediately fryed. There are different opinions from all walks of life, and some say that this will lead to polygamy, lead to social chaos, and lead rich men to play arbitrarily.

I have a few thoughts on this.

First, the restriction on marriage should be lifted. The fundamental purpose is to solve the situation of low fertility rate and negative population growth in China in recent years, population decline and serious aging, which will have an impact on all aspects of the whole country, and the direct purpose is to encourage the birth of children, in order to cancel the marriage restrictions, and enhance everyone's willingness to have children. **The starting point is good, but can the policy work, the main reason why many women dare not have children is the certainty brought by the institution of marriage.

This certainty is a moral and legal constraint on both parties, a kind of livelihood guarantee. Secondly, the most important reason for reluctance to have children is that the cost of raising a child, the cost of time, energy, etc. is very high, especially in the three major expenses of housing, medical care, and education. What's more, now that we have experienced the epidemic, various industries are sluggish, all industries are waiting to be developed, residents' economic income is not high, they are all tightening their belts to live, and their jobs are unstable, and the pressure on the whole family is still very great.

Second, if this matter is implemented, some girls who don't want to get married and are afraid of marriage can not get married, but they need to have enough insurance, trusts, **, etc., to protect themselves and their children, and these property rights must be claimed in advance. If you do not have the protection of the marriage law, you must learn to protect yourself.

Third, when going on a blind date in the future, the girls should have more eyes, they have never been married before, and they all default to having no children. Now I have to ask clearly, although the other party is unmarried, he may not have children.

Suppose you're ready to be a mother. You can give birth. I will give birth.

Unless a fool will get pregnant unmarried, this can only harm yourself and your child, you give birth to someone else's child, others don't have to be responsible, do you think it can be done.