Why are people always being bullied in the countryside?

I just want to say that most people in the city still look up to the country. After all, there are a few people who look down on the countryside. In fact, most of the time, I am too sensitive, and I always feel that people in the city look down on me.

It's because I feel that there is a gap between the people in the city, in many ways, such as dressing and talking. In fact, it's more about the inferiority complex of the countrymen themselves, so what you have to do is to do things well, don't care about the opinions of those so-called city people, the most important thing is to be confident, ambitious, and make some achievements, and show those city people!

The social climate is like this, just like a new employee will be bullied by an old employee, but the most important thing is that you must not look down on yourself, you can't be bullied, you can't lose your dignity.

The weak can never escape the fate of being teased by fate; Those who are suffering or are getting rid of suffering have no right to complain; If there are tears, we will swallow them in our stomachs; The one who bullies you let him go to the scoundrel; But you have to try to make yourself strong....It can not be successful, but it cannot not be without growth; The process of growing up is the process of becoming a strong person! Let's work hard and struggle (!)

It is said that everyone is equal, but this society cannot be equal at any time, so we can't take ourselves lightly, and we will act when it is time to act.

You should also note that there is a positive side to the situation, and it is a great opportunity to get a workout, which many people lack!

Honest people are always bullied in the countryside now, and they should all have these four obvious characteristics.

One: kind-hearted and easy to speak.

In the face of other people's requirements, always try to meet them as much as possible, and do not fight back. Sometimes they even believe the sweet words of others, hypocrisy, and are taken advantage of and deceived. In most cases, swallow your anger, knock out your teeth and swallow your stomach, and consider yourself unlucky.

The solution to this dilemma is to increase your ability to discern right from wrong and try to be brave enough to say no to people who are clearly bullying you. That is, to train the courage. Kindness is right, but it is not to be done to all people.

When it's time to get angry, you must have courage, you must be sharp, you must return the color, and you should not waste one.

Two: Stupid and silent.

Most honest people are not highly educated, self-ashamed, regard others as very high, regard themselves as very humble, are not good at pleasing others, and have the courage to do nothing. In line with the principle of being a man who can't afford to hide. The solution is to try to communicate with people more and speak your mind.

Once raw and twice cooked, three or four times can also show. In the end, I came to the same as others, with hands and feet, laughter and tears, affection and love, suffering and worry, and there is no shortage of that.

Three: Dead eyes, a tendon, I don't know how to be flexible.

Honest people are often solid-eyed, carrying pennies in the alley, going straight, not flattering, and echoing the voice. Brainless, one way to the dark. The solution is to learn to weigh the pros and cons, what to do and what not to do, what is right and what is not.

When you meet someone and say three points, you can't throw away all your heart. A good man can know how to bend and walk. Be flexible.

As long as you don't violate your conscience and the law, try your best to protect yourself from being bullied by others indefinitely.

Four: Isolated, lack of friends, and little help when encountered.

Honest people like to be imaginative, alone, not good at making friends, thinking that they can't climb, so they are good at themselves and have no quarrel with the world. The solution is to try to associate with the kind and peaceful good people around you, learn from their way of life, life treatment and experience, treat them as close friends, and gradually open yourself up and grow.

The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change. Changing oneself does not happen overnight, it is necessary to build self-confidence, to see oneself as a member of society, to integrate into life, and to mingle with others. Change yourself in life and train yourself.

Everything is practiced. At the same time, we must also treat honest people well, and do not extremely damage the self-esteem of honest people and challenge their bottom line. The Kunshan anti-homicide case is the best lesson.

First, people with good faces are easy to suffer because the old saying is good at being bullied, horses are good at being ridden, generally people with good faces do things are hard-working, never stealing and playing tricks, and will not take the initiative to refuse, it has always been the style of good people, so in daily times, we find that whether it is friends or relatives, usually when there is something to always love to ask you for help, one is that you will not refuse, not only that, you are also willing to bear your own losses and do things well, and second, you don't have to worry about repaying your favors, Even if I don't return your favor, I can still ask you for help next time.

Because of discrimination, people generally look down on people who are weaker than themselves and will bully them.