Why do you always feel like you have endless things to say to one person, but not to others?

He's just a good friend of yours, and he's very trustworthy to you, so you can say anything you think you can say to him, he will only care about you, he won't cancel you and criticize you, and other people are not familiar with you, so of course no one else can have endless words, I have a good friend of the opposite sex, similar to you, I want to say anything to him! Actually, we're just friends!

It may be that he gives you a sense of intimacy and makes you feel more approachable, or it may be a tacit understanding between each other unintentionally, a natural fate.

He's going to make you feel comfortable, so you have nothing to say to him, and I have it too!

You've met a soulmate. Like to talk to him and her. I think his style suits you.

No, I guess he's your confidant

Only a confidant can feel this way.

It seems that you are not good at talking, or that you generally do not communicate with people. Somewhat introverted.

There are fewer than a thousand cups of wine for a confidant, and there is no speculation for more than half a sentence.

Because you like him, or are nice with him! It's that simple!

He's a good friend of yours, right?

Or, you don't care about him. It doesn't matter what he thinks. It doesn't matter what you say.

Dear, if you love someone so much, you will have a feeling of indescribability and incomprehension. That feeling is like being tricked by someone, always haunted by her dreams, tea and dinner, as the so-called: not seeing each other for a day is like three autumns.

Her smile, words and deeds will come to your mind; Always obey what she says, and sometimes she is willing to know that she has been deceived.

I am a relatively negative person, and many times, I am particularly distressed that I don't know how to communicate with others, especially the older I get, the less I know, and the fewer people can speak, and I enter a vicious circle.

When I talk to my colleagues, I never know how to speak, and I always ask questions that are meaningless and inconsequential. I feel that I can't grasp the degree of chatting, and sometimes I envy others who can easily get acquainted with a person, but I can't.

In fact, looking back, I was also in a position of being envied by myself in the past. When I was in college, I went to a relatively unfamiliar environment, and no one knew about my past. Tried to change yourself in the fiber hall, and the result was very successful, and you can talk eloquently in the face of strangers.

But why I was able to do that, I don't remember exactly. Probably because there is less harshness, others will not care too much about what they talk about with me, and it doesn't matter if they are wrong.

And now, I often worry that I will say too much wrong. One of the things I say the most to myself is to talk less and do more.

Therefore, I will try to choose to speak less, especially in an unfamiliar environment, and it is even more pitiful to have fewer words.

Once upon a time, there was a slight depression and I felt that my life was gloomy and I couldn't find an exit.

Now, I often ask myself if I will be autistic, but then I think about it, I probably won't.

No matter how little I say to others, at least in my life, my parents and best friends, when chatting with them, there will always be endless babbling and never worrying that they are wrong, they will be unhappy, this is probably a kind of trust and certainty, that is, knowing how they are, and this is also the most relaxed time for me.

I have always felt that in life, there must be such a person, there will be endless words, whether it is happy or unhappy, as long as you are relieved to complain, they will listen, will not speak, but as long as you know that he is there, it is a kind of happiness.

Summary. Hello, sometimes when you are with someone you like, even if you don't have to speak, you will be very happy to see it, and you will not feel embarrassed without talking. After a long time, there may be a common language, so whether there is something to say or not depends on the individual.

Hello, sometimes when you are with someone you like, even if you don't have to speak, you will be very happy to see it, and you will not feel embarrassed without talking. After a long time, maybe there is a common language for the stool fingers, so there is no time to say about dates, and it varies from person to person.

But he's a good friend of mine, and we've known each other for 10 years, and we've always had something to say, I can be generous in front of him, but I'm not sure if it's friendship or love, and he's chased me for a long time before he took the lead.

Does he have a girlfriend now?

No, but I feel like we feel like family.

There is no pure relationship between a man and a woman. Maybe it's just you thinking that, but you don't know what he thinks.

I've always wanted to be with him, but I'm not sure if I like him, and he's a good friend of mine, and I don't want to lose that friendship.

Indeed, if you can't be a lover, you can't be a friend in the end, you can only be a stranger.

Summary. My dear, a person who doesn't say a word has these reasons, the first is that something happens at home, so he feels that he can't afford it, so he feels very uncomfortable and doesn't speak.

My dear, a person who doesn't say a word has these reasons, the first is that something happens at home, so he feels that he can't afford it, so he feels very uncomfortable and doesn't speak.

My dear, there is another reason why a person suddenly doesn't say a word, that is, he himself encounters an unsolvable difficulty, and feels that there is no one to help him, so he will suddenly close himself and shut up and not speak.

My dear, everyone is in such a state when they encounter powerlessness. <>

My dear, no matter what kind of difficulties we encounter in life, we must maintain a positive attitude and solve them head-on, so that we can better overcome and face the <>

Although people are all social animals, we also have different preferences for people we chat, some people want to chat more if they like it, and some people don't want to chat if they don't like it. So if you don't want to chat with the other person, how should you solve it properly? The choice of topic.

If you don't like the other person very much, then it's best to talk about some superficial words, and don't talk too deeply, I think the other person will still think that you are interesting to him. I don't want to talk to each other, what should I do? Frequency of replies.

If you are not very interested in the other person, then don't insist on awkward conversations, slow down the frequency of your responses, and let the other person feel your coldness. Words of reply. When dealing with the people we like, we always try to make ourselves as cute and beautiful as possible.

So for people who don't want to chat, try to keep it boring as much as possible, and say more. Don't talk about emotional topics. Be sure not to take the initiative to talk about emotional topics, or the other person will easily think in that direction.

You should also respond indifferently to emotional topics, saying that you don't feel it. Be direct about your attitude. Most people are hot when facing the person they like, and if you directly express your rejection, I believe that the other party will not be too entangled.

Two scenarios:

1. In reality, there is really this person, you care about him, it is his business that he is willing to be a fart, you can ignore it.

2. There is no such person at all in reality, it is your feeling, that is, you have "delusion", you can say it yourself, it is early, it is very easy. You need to see a psychiatrist right away**.

If you don't feel annoyed, then give a face and listen to the chat, ****, if you feel annoyed, get up and leave.

Is that ta a repeater, keep repeating what you said, haha, it's funny. Whether they want to learn from you, or whatever, do you want to be humorous, you have to figure it out.

Prove that the person cares about you and likes you, so say the same thing to you, and hope you think about it.

Mutual love is the most beautiful thing in the world, so when a woman falls in love with a man, it is natural to hope to get 100% of his love, and talk about how two people can love each other forever. But a man's feelings for you are not for nothing, there is always something that attracts him. You know, those women who make men love more and more have a few things in common!

First, gentleness and virtuousness.

As the saying goes, "heroes are sad to pass the beauty pass", since ancient times, gentle township is poison, how many heroic husbands nod their heads in front of their gentle wives, and spoil women lawlessly. There is no doubt that most men eat soft rather than hard. So, you might as well put away your irritable temper, coquettish with men, satisfy the so-called vanity of men, and occasionally squeeze out a few tears to soften his heart, so that he is reluctant to leave you and say heavy things to you.

Second, it's comfortable to be together.

Happiness is not about finding the perfect person, but about trying to build a perfect relationship with the right person. Caring too much about him and pleasing him will spoil him; But being too arrogant and egoistic will make him afraid of you. Love needs the right amount of air and nutrients, and you will always be the person who is not far away or close to him, and who will never abandon him.

People who are not too awkward to get along, but relaxed, are the most heart-warming existence, love, is the companionship that needs to be spent a lifetime together, so being with such a woman will really make people very comfortable.

Third, don't complain casually.

In the emotional world, if a woman wants a man to love you without you, don't complain. Nagging is the most unbearable for you, smart women are full of knowledge of this, they know what to worry about with men, or what not to care about, they don't care about what they shouldn't care, and they don't complain all day long, which makes men upset.

Fourth, respect men's preferences.

Men playing games is believed to be a common problem that many women hate. However, it is normal for men to like to play games as well as women like to go shopping, and even nowadays many women like to play games, which has cultivated a common interest. But this is not to require women to like men's preferences, after all, many things are barely coming.

Everyone's personality is different, but those women who know how to integrate into a man's life circle, accept and respect each other's preferences, can often be cherished by men.