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I feel that it still depends on the situation, if you are very sure, just confess, if you don't have it, don't do it, if you are rejected, it will be very embarrassing, especially those women (men) you are not familiar with, she (he) will go to the propaganda, saying how you are, in fact, what you can't get in my heart will always be the most beautiful and the best Good luck, I am sincere and sincere, I hope to exchange for your affirmation.
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Of course, because if you love someone, you will care too much about her, and everything about her is so important in your heart. So, once a person falls in love with someone, then he becomes a little silly, and he is willing to ask her for his consent for everything.
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Personally, I think it belongs to the people-pleasing personality. Caring too much about what others think and ignoring your own feelings. We must have the courage to be hated, and loving ourselves is the beginning of a lifelong romance.
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Hello, I am the emotional fairy sister, waiting patiently for me.
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A person is always afraid that others will be angry and may have something to do with their own upbringing, lack in growthA sense of securityOr because they are too sensitive and psychologically fragile, which leads to a bit of timidity, psychological fragility, and lack of self-confidence.
How to fix it?
1.Enhance self-confidence, adjust your mentality, relax your mind, and establish the right oneoutlook on lifeValues.
2.Communicate more with family and friends, relieve stress, constantly reduce your own sensitivity, and adjust your psychological vulnerability.
I'm @Li BaiWe look forward to your attention!
A person is afraid of others being angry, generally because he or she either wants something from others, as the so-called desirelessness is rigid, or there is love, and you will only care about him (her) if you love him. The root cause is that instead of finding oneself, realizing oneself, and expressing oneself, the right to give back to others or social norms, the result is that the more afraid others are angry, the more bad they behave, the more they are afraid of others being angry, and the more they are afraid of others being angry, thus forming a vicious circle. To get out of this state, to awaken from the depths of one's own heart, to live should be expressed freely and fully like a blooming flower.
Thank you for having me; Why am I always afraid that others will get angry?
You are a very kind person, you are also very loving, your living environment is very special, or you only live in your own world, and you have to break the inner wall.
Other people are all good in your heart, and you want to communicate with others, but you don't know how to communicate properly, or.
That's right. Be bold, be confident, be strong. Observe more of the people around you, learn more about the things next to you, raise your head, and look at it with confidence.
Communicate with people you know, with sincere eyes, and ask them for advice with your inner thoughts.
Humility makes people progress, pride makes people backward, these are all old sayings, but they are very beneficial and always effective.
Rest assured, others will not be angry, they will only love you a little more, believe in yourself, rest assured yourself, take the first step, step by step is the future.
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Summary. When you see someone, you get angry because you don't like them.
When you see someone, you get angry because you don't like them.
You hate this person, so whenever you see him, you get angry.
It is recommended that you have a good attitude and communicate with your family, classmates and friends.
There is a reason to see a person angry. First, you need to analyze what causes you to be angry. Second, find a way to solve the problem that is causing you to get angry. In summary, things have happened, and it is absolutely not necessary to dwell on the matter itself, so that the more you think about it, the more angry you become, and you have to spend all your thoughts on thinking about solving the problem, so that you can disperse your anger and go stupid.
He's my colleague, and I have to see him every day.
Isn't it that he speaks annoyingly?
He's just a person who has nothing to do, ignore him, and he'll make trouble for you.
Is he making things difficult for you at work? Please tell me about it, and I will give you an analysis and give you advice.
If you meet such a person, the best thing to do is to ignore him and not use him.
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In fact, this kind of person who almost never loses his temper in social interaction is not a good person to associate with, and it can even be said that their personality trait is very dangerous.
Inhibition of inner emotions.
In our daily life, we may meet people who are mild-mannered, humble, rarely quarrel with others, and even if their interests are harmed in certain situations, they will also express their opinions relatively gently and will not be angry.
They have some of the following characteristics:
1. In fact, it's not that you can't get angry, but you're not very good at expressing your emotions;
2. They will suppress their needs, whether they are life needs or psychological needs;
3. Living a very tiring life, everything you do will limit your inner thoughts.
This kind of inhibition is actually very detrimental to the expression of feelings. We can imagine that when more and more negative emotions are accumulated in the heart, but for various reasons we do not vent them, the pressure on our thoughts and emotions is very huge.
So in this case, once the emotion is "ignited" due to some factor, the final result may be unpredictable.
In his masterpiece "Self and Id", the famous psychology giant Sigmund Freud systematically put forward a view of the individual's view of himself, and he divided human self-perception into three levels: "self, id, and superego".
The ego is a relatively basic level, which is greatly affected by human physiology. When this level of self is suppressed for too long, the personality at the level of self will lose control and engage in some uncontrolled behaviors.
Type C personality.
Psychologist Frigoman once distinguished between different personality types, among which type C personality refers to those who are accustomed to suppressing their emotions, and in the field of psychology, this type is called "cancer".
People with this kind of personality are often outwardly embodied in a kind of all-encompassing appearance, and in the eyes of outsiders, they are mild-mannered, approachable, and indifferent to all kinds of things that happen around them.
Such people tend to have a good reputation with others, because they are calmer and less contentious when they get along with others.
As the old saying goes, "self-cultivation and family rule the country and level the world", Confucius also said that "a gentleman should save himself every day", and to be a person with good character, he should restrain some of his temper to a certain extent.
But we should master this degree, after all, it is too much, and too much suppression of one's personality will cause damage to one's body and mind.
In fact, from a psychological point of view, regular and moderate venting of inner stress is conducive to physical and mental health. From an individual point of view, this behavior helps to unload the negative emotions that have accumulated in the heart and enable them to carry out their work and life better later on.
From a collective and social point of view, this kind of behavior is also conducive to social development.
For example, sociologist Georg Zimmer's "safety valve" theory and the famous social conflict theorist Cosse's research show that moderate collective emotional venting is conducive to the development of the whole community in a good direction.
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Not being angry, generally speaking, is a kind of self-cultivation, city-government, calm personality, calm and rational performance. The vast majority of people think it is a good quality and are striving for it. As for whether it is afraid or not, it depends on the angle from which it is judged.
If it is an enemy of such a person, it is terrible because the other party rarely has the opportunity to make mistakes. If you are friends with them, it is easy to get along with. In addition, whether it is terrible or not depends mainly on whether the other party is kind or not.
Are people who don't get angry scary? Know.
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A person's old anger will affect his mood, negative emotions will cause a lot of bad diseases, will make the body's immunity decrease, some diseases that are easy to get angry will come to the door, and anger will make people ugly, so there is nothing to regulate your emotions Don't get angry easily, you have to know that many things are not worth your anger.
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From the perspective of traditional Chinese medicine, often getting angry and angry can easily cause hyperactivity in the liver, which will cause certain damage to the liver and cause disorders in liver cell function. And it is often easy to get angry, which can cause a sudden increase in blood pressure and a short temper, which has a certain impact on cerebral blood pressure and kidney blood pressure. Frequent anger can easily cause hair loss, although there is no certain scientific basis, but many patients have this condition.
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A lighter one will affect one's personality and be unpopular with others, and a heavier one will affect one's body and may get various diseases.
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A person is often angry and always angry, which has a very big impact on physical health.
Because anger itself will cause a lot of pressure on both the heart and the cerebral blood vessels, people who are often angry will have a bad heart, people who are often angry will have an increased blood pressure, and people who are often angry will cause a variety of diseases. Even stomach problems, indigestion, and so on.
Therefore, people who are often angry must go to the doctor to see if they have a tendency to be depressed. Otherwise, you shouldn't get angry too often.
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The consequence of a person who is always angry is that he is unhappy and unhappy every day, and he will feel that life is not satisfactory. And it will be difficult to make true friends when you are often angry, and it will be difficult to find happiness in life.
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If a person is always angry, his temper and mood will get worse and worse, his physical health will become worse and worse, he will grow dark and old, and he will do things more unsatisfactorily. One should keep oneself in a good mood and not get angry at every turn.
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It is easy to get sick and the appearance becomes low. Then, more and more hate yourself.
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You will get sick, you will be angry, you don't feel uncomfortable when you are angry, and your body will be sick after a long time, and more or less problems are directly related to anger. You will be lonely, you will have no friends, you will be depressed.
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A person is always angry, which is very damaging to the body, especially to the liver, and many people's liver disease is caused by being angry often.
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If a person is always angry, it is not good for the body, which will lead to physical and mental exhaustion, so it is better to be optimistic and smile more.
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People are always angry, their breath is not smooth, and they are stagnant, which can cause high blood pressure and heart disease. Accumulation produces depression.
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If a person is always angry, the body's immunity will decrease, and various diseases will appear with it. For example, heart disease, liver disease, and cancer can all occur.
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There was an old woman in the room next door to me, and she was angry every day, but she was full of anger. The more you swear, the more energetic you get. Oh his thoughts.
The behavior is already extreme. It can only be said about everyone's emotions. It's different, some people have the consequence that their appearance will be very haggard and aging faster.
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Those who are angry and hurt their bodies or have a body of disease. So don't be angry, take care of yourself, your body is the capital of the revolution.
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A person is always angry. You can get all kinds of diseases. And the people rebelled and left. To be a man must be quality. Learn to deal with problems calmly.
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If a person is always angry, he will easily get sick, causing unhealthy health and reducing life expectancy.
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If you are always angry, your liver will be bad, and when it reacts to your face, you will have a lot of spots, gray, and you will have no complexion and no energy.
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First of all, it will make people have a better impression of their personal image, and lower the close relationship between the people around them, after all, no one wants to coax anyone all the time, and adults should restrain themselves.
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Anger can affect a person's health and even life! Getting angry often will inevitably lead to sub-health!
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I think if a person is always angry, the consequences are very serious, after all, anger hurts the body, I think people are always angry, I think this person's temperament is too big, and it is also very bad for the body.
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What will be the consequences if a person is always angry, and the consequences will definitely be bad, so if you can get angry and sulk, then you will easily get sick, and if you leave, then your mother will not have it.
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Qi hurts the body, so it's important to maintain a calm mind.
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When you see someone, you get angry, this time to beLearn to adjust your state and find the cause of your anger. The other is to let the prime minister be able to hold the boat in his belly, and don't worry about some trivial things.
Regulate mood disorders
When you see someone, you get angry, and you have to find the reason. It's a bad thing to be angry, there's a saying about it"Punishing yourself for the mistakes of others" is the best interpretation of anger. So don't get angry, find the cause, and give the right medicine.
Because anger hurts the body, instead of sulking, it is better to find him to solve the contradictions and disputes between the two parties.
Adjust your emotions and don't worry about it. As an adult, or a person who is constantly maturing, we must learn to control our emotions and not be disturbed by emotions. We must be confident, have confidence in doing things, and have reasons to do things.
Don't start a nameless fire, because it will harm others and yourself. Learn to control your emotions and you will be given a thumbs up.
Learn to forgive others. In the face of friends and even enemies around you, you must learn to reconcile, even if you don't reconcile with him, you must reconcile with your own people. Don't hurt yourself because of what others do, which is not conducive to study and work.
It's also not good for getting along with your family. Because emotions are transferable, if they are always in a relatively low mood, they will lose their temper with their family members and close people, and even make them feel inexplicable. In fact, I only knew that it was because of the appearance of this person that caused the emotional illness.
Therefore, we must learn to understand others, and there is nothing that cannot be overcome.
Learn to deal with bad emotions. Bad emotions that need to be vented out can be foundHobbies,For example, practicing words and meditating, singing to vent, or even playing games to vent can be done, but there must be moderation. We were okFind a friend to enlighten yourself, let them judge and find a woodpecker doctor for your bad deeds.
We can also find a psychologist and ask them to analyze the cause for themselves and not let themselves fall into emotional control.
The process by which I control my emotions
In my daily life, I used to be cautious, and I often lost my temper or vented my frustration on my family. I found out later because of mineRhinitisBecause rhinitis can make the mood uncontrollable and appear very restless. In addition, I am not good at controlling my emotions, and I am a little stingy, and it is easy to hold on to other people's mistakes.
Later, I found out that others are not so hateful, and it is because I am too self-conscious.
So I gradually figured out that I should focus on myself and not always blame othersComplaining about others is dissatisfaction with oneself and a disapproval of one's own strength. If you are strong enough, you don't care about the failures and mistakes of others. Do your best, keep your heart, and set sail.
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