Why don t you want to talk to someone when they re chatting?

Chatting with a stranger is nothing more than two results, one is to become a good friend who talks about everything, and the other is to become a friend who "doesn't speculate for more than half a sentence".

When we find that we are with a person, it is already "more than half a sentence of speculation", I believe that we will also reduce the number of times we chat with this person. Because in the process of chatting, we can't find each other to have a common point of view, and even feel that this person is completely opposite to ourselves, at this time, there will be a kind of rejection, and we will not continue to talk over time.

At least I feel like that, since I stepped into the threshold of 30, I don't blush with a friend because of a difference of opinion, I don't feel really necessary. If we have the same views and hearts, we can be friends.

If we don't have the same point of view, then I don't have to say my point of view again and again, I will look for friends who share my point of view and ignore those who have a different point of view.

Chatting with a person on the Internet, I found that the two people had nothing to say, and what they wanted to say had been said before. If you can't find a topic to talk about, you don't want to talk to him.

Chat with a person, starting with unfamiliarity. Someone who is curious about what this is like. After in-depth understanding, I found that this person did not agree with my three views and did not share the same life values, so I wanted to give up this person and continue to look for the next person who could meet my appetite.

Chatting is the process of socializing with friends. When I found that there was a big gap between this friend and the class I lived in, and it was not helpful for my life and work, I didn't want to continue to talk to this friend.

A person's attitude can affect the atmosphere. If the person you chat with always has a negative attitude, pours some poisonous chicken soup every day, and can't see the hope of life, you will hate this emotion and don't want to chat with such a person. I hope that I can meet people who have a life pursuit, can give myself encouragement, discover the beauty of life, and thus have the motivation to continue to fight for the future.

First of all, I think it's as if everything has a certain freshness, and when I started chatting, I felt that this person was very interesting, because I hadn't been in contact with it before, whether it was his chat method or chat topic, it felt like there was a certain freshness, but when I chatted again, I felt that I couldn't find a fresh topic anymore, and I felt that chatting with him was boring, and I didn't know what to say every day, because some topics felt like they had been said before, and there was no freshness, which was particularly boring. <>

Also, if you chat a lot, you will know whether he is a caring person or a person of rhetoric, that is, after chatting for a long time, his personality will be easily seen. It is also easy to judge whether this person is the type you want to communicate with, and if you feel that his personality is not the person you want to communicate. I don't feel like I want to have such a friend, and sometimes the chat is about some topics I don't want to talk about, and I always say it vigorously, so I feel that this person is really annoying, and then I don't want to chat.

It's because of your lack of patience. Of course, chatting with friends is more or less mixed with some freshness, and after a long time, it is normal for this freshness to run out, and classmates and friends may really have nothing to say, and when you need help, even if you don't say it, they will take the initiative to lend a helping hand. Now that you have nothing to say, start taking action, help the people around you as much as possible, care for and support those who need you, and try to manage a rapport with your classmates.

If you talk to a mom boy, it's hard, and the conversation ends the next day, it's boring, to put it bluntly, you don't have a common hobby or don't be interested.

Many people hate each other, are indifferent to each other, and lose basic respect because they find that they are not speculative with each other, which is what everyone should reflect.

Words are not speculative, ask questions, and get to the bottom of things!

Even if there is a common topic, there is nothing to talk about.

What's wrong with this day and age, and what is there to talk about? Don't have to get down to business?

Does that need to be explained? The more you talk, the more you show it, and the more you talk, the less you talk.

Because in the end, there was no chat.

Because I don't feel it anymore.

I don't want to talk about it when I chat, I don't want to talk about it, I don't want to talk about it, maybe there are a few common topics between two people, if you have the opportunity, you can eat together or do something together, there will be more interesting things to talk about!

In fact, for social fear, it is simply not knowing what to say (covering your face). Ordinary people may just feel that there is nothing to say. Not necessarily a problem.

Summary. For example, there are probably several reasons for this:

I want to be accompanied but I am worried that my safety circle will be violated, so I will be on guard and keep my distance while accepting it.

I want to maintain a good communication or habit, but I don't have the patience, or I feel that this is disturbing and causing me to be irritable, so I don't want to chat.

It's easy to be hot for three minutes, and a moment ago I was happy to find someone to chat with, but when someone chatted, I felt that it didn't taste like that, so boring, or a person suitable for this mentality.

For example, you can probably say that there are several reasons: you want to be accompanied but you are worried that your safety circle will be violated, so you will be on guard and keep your distance while accepting it. I want to maintain a good communication or habit, but I don't have the patience, or I feel that this is disturbing and causing me to be irritable, so I don't want to chat.

It's easy to be hot for three minutes, and a moment ago I was happy to find someone to chat with, but when someone chatted, I felt that it didn't taste like that, so boring, or a person suitable for this mentality. Finally, it's almost impossible but does exist to look at the possibility: capriciousness caused by mental illness.

Summary. I won't talk to you when I chat, and there may be the following reasons: First, it may be that both of you are not good at chatting and use a way that can only close the topic.

To use an analogy: one party asks you if you have eaten? Fang said:

Well, ate it. The whole chat was closed like this. The whole other party stays on whether to eat or not.

Second, you have too few topics in common, and there is no freshness when you chat. You can dig into a lot of common topics, in fact, chatting is very simple and requires a lot of skill. Every bit of life can be shared, but it just depends on whether you are good at turning the bits and pieces of life into words to share with friends.

So why do you not talk much when you talk to me.

I won't talk to you when I chat, and there may be the following reasons: First, it may be that both of you are not good at chatting and use a way that can only close the topic. To use an analogy:

One party asked my brother and grandson, have you eaten? Fang said: Well, I ate it.

The whole chat was closed like this. The whole other party rents a dust stall and stays on whether to eat or not. Second, you have too few topics in common, and there is no freshness when you chat.

You can dig up the cheats and dig up more common topics, in fact, chatting is very simple and requires a lot of skills. Every bit of life can be shared, but it just depends on whether you are good at turning the bits and pieces of life into words to share with friends.

Dear, what is the specific situation, can you talk about it?

First, it is easy to rely on Lu Youfan for more communication.

If two people are working partners, it is likely that they need to talk about work matters frequently, and at this time, if they still need to work after work, then it is easy to add some personal things. In this way, everyone will become dependent due to too much communication. After all, people are emotional animals, and as the saying goes, it makes sense to stay in love with hail for a long time.

The Internet sometimes has the ability to beautify the other party, because we don't know the environment and real thoughts of the other party when chatting, and it is easy to fantasize. So now online dating is also very popular, which is generated by frequent chats on the Internet.

Second, ambiguity and spare tire.

Sometimes we talk to someone a lot, but that person is not actually single. But we have a very common language, and the more we chat, the hotter we get, and we even have the illusion of being in love. This kind of chat is very dangerous.

You'll get deeper and deeper, and your relationship will be an ambiguous one. Or maybe the other party treats you like a spare tire. It is irresponsible to do so, we should be serious and dedicated when dealing with relationships, it is not easy for two people to be together.

In general, frequent chatting can give people the illusion of being in love, and when this feeling of love is generated, we should ask ourselves if this illusion is the feeling of really wanting to be in love. We should have a good talk with the other party, and if we don't want to develop further with the other person, then it is better to refuse as soon as possible. In addition, it is wrong to be ambiguous in the relationship and treat the other person as a spare tire, and love must be open-minded.

Because the topic of discussion is too practical and too realistic, there are not many arguments.

Summary. And many people are not sure how they feel about themselves when they talk to the person they like. In the end, whether the other party likes him, or he feels like a friend, there is no positive answer in his heart, so he is reluctant to talk to the person he likes.

Why don't you want to chat with someone you like.

Good morning, dear. Because when I talk to someone I like, sometimes I think about it. I'm afraid I'll say something wrong.

So chatting will be very restrained because of these. But I feel that he is the person I like, and I am very willing to chat with him. And sometimes if there is no topic, there will be an awkward conversation.

Most people are reluctant to talk to someone they like for these reasons.

And many people are not sure how they feel about themselves when they talk to the person they like. In the end, whether the other party likes him, or he feels like a friend, there is no positive answer in his heart, so he is reluctant to talk to the person he likes.

Do you have any answers based on what the teacher said?