What should I do if the baby wakes up as soon as he puts it down and can only sleep in his arms?

The baby may not be asleep in this state, you should hold it for a while, and when the baby enters a deep sleep, you will not wake up when you put her down.

Many babies can only fall asleep in the arms of their parents, if they are relatively young, may only be a few months, it is a normal situation, parents have to spend more time, try to let the baby fall into a deep sleep, and then put the baby into his bed. Pay attention to handling gently, because a small movement of you may wake up the baby, and the surrounding environment is relatively quiet. <>

Secondly, because when holding the child, parents like to shake, if the baby has not this action just put down, it is very easy to wake up, so parents can try to give the baby a bed that can be slightly shaken, which can imitate the action of the parents to shake, the baby's sleep has a soothing effect, and it can also be the parents' hand shake, which will reduce the link of putting the child, and the baby will not wake up easily.

The last is to make sure that the baby does not wake up because he is hungry, especially for newborns, who are likely to be hungry for a few hours, so it will be difficult to fall asleep, so you can feed the baby a little food, and at the same time check his diaper to see if it is because he pees so he can't sleep.

In my experience, I think it's because you didn't get the timing right. You can take a look at my previous similar question "What should I do if my baby wakes up when he puts it down?" 》

Be sure to pay attention to the timing of the release, this is very important. When the baby has just fallen asleep, it is still in the light sleep stage of sleep, so it is easy to put it down and wake up. Sometimes if you want to change the status quo, then don't see the baby fall asleep and put it down immediately, you should hold it a little longer, and you can wait for the baby to enter a deep sleep and then slowly put it down.

Through many attempts, I have also practiced countless times, and I have found a way to judge whether the baby has entered deep sleep, which is to gently lift the baby's arm, if you find that the arm is soft, it means that the baby has begun to sleep deeply.

Of course, the solution to the problem must not only solve the superficial status quo, but also solve the root cause. The reason why my child has a serious problem of sleeping is largely because he drank milk before going to bed and then went to sleep, but due to the baby's gastroesophageal reflux problem, we can hold the baby vertically for 20 minutes and then slowly put the baby down, and later, the baby's subconscious will associate "falling asleep" with "vertical hugging". Therefore, in order to solve the problem of holding sleep, you need to break this relationship first.

There is also a guide to the baby's sleep slowly, which is some of my summary of experience, you can combine my previous questions to see it.

When the baby falls asleep, the baby must learn an ability, so parents should establish good sleep habits for the baby, although at the beginning it will feel that the task is very simple, but as long as you master a reasonable method, and solve the problem of the baby's sleep, it will also be very fulfilling.

Every baby's sleep problems are different, so don't copy the methods of parenting books and other people's homes, but implement them according to your baby's situation.

All baby problems are not isolated and singular. Therefore, we must pay more attention to some details of the baby's usual life, comprehensively analyze, and gradually break through one by one, and be patient. Persistence, persistence, persistence, whatever theoretical system you use to help your baby learn to fall asleep on his own, once you decide you want to do it, stick with it.

Pat on the bat. Because your baby is insecure, you can put your baby down, then pat him and fall asleep quickly.

You can find a substitute such as a doll to rent an oak, the baby has been in your mother for a long time so it can't do without you, you can use a bu-shaped Kai doll, the plush feeling on the doll can replace you.

Slowly cultivate the baby's habit of letting go of the rest and returning to sleep. If you keep holding it, the mother is tired, the baby can't sleep well, and it is not a good habit to fight hunger.

The child is insecure! In traditional Chinese medicine, it is a weak heart qi!