I was divorced and didn t tell my current girlfriend, will I be rejected if I say it now?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-28
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    will reject you, the reason is very simple, because you are not honest, did not tell people at the first time, so that people feel that there is a very strong sense of deception, in fact, this is deception, if love is based on these two words from the beginning, then I am afraid that the relationship will not last long, even if she said it was okay at the time, but there will always be a hurdle in her heart, because of this deception, the relationship has cast a certain shadow. If people reject you, I think then maybe you have taken advantage of others, and people feel that they have suffered a loss in this regard, and I am afraid that there is little hope of saving this relationship, give her time or leave her!One cannot live without a conscience.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    She will definitely be angry, but how angry is it, this is not easy to judge, first of all, you are cheating, and this will make the other party distrust you, the most important thing in love is trust, and you deceived the other party at the beginning, whether she rejects you or not depends on how much she loves you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's possible, but it's important to confess to your girlfriend as soon as possible, otherwise the longer it takes, the more serious the consequences.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Getting married and starting a family is a major event in life, and your divorced person has already made a mistake by talking to other girls to hide their marriage history. It's not too late to tell her, and if you tell her before or after marriage, the consequences will definitely not be good. There are two situations that care, first, because you tell her now, she thinks you are quite honest, this is a chance for you, of course, the premise is that she thinks you are excellent, and your interaction with you can see that your character and talent have overshadowed that little flaw, and second, she may say, I have had the same experience, if she says so, are you ready?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The most important factor in a relationship is sincerity and honesty. When you encounter things, you have to learn to empathize, if the same problem happens to your girlfriend, can you accept it?If you can't accept it yourself, then prepare for the worst of rejection, because there is no love for no reason, and there is no hate for no reason.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think you should find a time to tell your current girlfriend about your past, lest you hide it and cause trouble in the future, you tell her, maybe she can understand, if you don't tell her, if she knows in the future, she will definitely quarrel with you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I was divorced, but I didn't tell my current girlfriend, if you didn't say it at the beginning, you will definitely be angry if you say it now, but whether you will refuse depends on how much she likes you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    As for whether you will break with you if you tell her, it is not certain. First of all, it depends on whether you are good enoughIf you look at the girl or the girl's family, do you care a lot about your divorce? If you are good enough and the woman admires you, it is probably fine.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In fact, it doesn't matter whether you divorce or not, the most important thing is whether this woman is real, likes you, if he is sincere to you, he doesn't care about you these things, the most important thing is whether you give everything to this woman and want to be with her.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Before you get married, confess and be lenient. You hid it from her, and you divorced yourself, which is already wrong. Don't wait for the marriage certificate to talk about it, that is not good, the woman, including the woman's parents, will have a feeling of being deceived.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    From the perspective of conscience, you conceal your divorce situation and talk to others about friends, which is a bit inauthentic at the beginning, although you have the heart to change your mistakes, but the choice is up to the woman, and it is her freedom to leave you or not.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, no matter what the result is, you must be honest and credible, and you must not fool others. Remember that while fooling others, you are also teasing yourself, which is the fundamental principle of being a human being!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If she chooses to continue with you, it is your blessing, and if she chooses to break up, it is a punishment for your wrong original intention, so that you can remember it next time. I don't think a marriage obtained by deception is definitely unhappy, and the end that awaits you is likely to be another divorce!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I have been divorced, and I can't blame myself, it's not my fault. If you want to hide the facts, once you expose them for a day, it is likely to cause a strong reaction, and you may even be considered unacceptable.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    My girlfriend is divorced, and when I first met her, she told me that she had never found a boyfriend since she was divorced, but recently I found out that she had found another after the divorce.

    Thank you for your attention, the key is, has she completely broken up with her ex-boyfriend now? Does she really love you? If she really loves you and you love her, and she and her ex-boyfriend are over, then her previous experience has let it go and no more need to mention it.

    If not, she still has a relationship with her ex and doesn't love you very much, then you are the legendary spare tire. You just think about it a little more, do you want to work harder for it? Or quit depends on how deep your relationship is.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you ask people all over the world about this kind of thing, and people all over the world give you answers, you still have to decide according to your own heart.

    I don't know what words to use to say about your girlfriend, scheming? Deceit? ......It's not a good adjective, the problem is that she did just that, and even now she doesn't intend to tell you, if it weren't for her parents who said it, the biggest possibility is that at the wedding your relatives heard it from her relatives:

    She divorced and found an unmarried young man, she is really capable! Then it will reach your parents and your ears through their mouths, intentionally or unintentionally, and soon the happy newlyweds will become a mess of chicken feathers.

    It's not that divorced people are excluded, and people who are not divorced can't find unmarried people, but that marriage should be sincere and honest, and indeed everyone has a past, but if everyone knows the girl's past, and the girl still pretends to be okay and doesn't let the boy know, this is deception and harm to the boy.

    I once watched a show, a 30-year-old divorced woman in rural Shandong, pretending to be a 25-year-old unmarried girl in Beijing, talking about a 23-year-old boy who only worked, the boy's family was very good to her, and later the boy knew that she had been married and had children, and the anger and pain of being deceived and fooled could be felt across the screen, and the woman was still there and said, I love you, I can't live without you, don't you love me too? Can't because I didn't tell you how married I was and how old I really was, you don't love me, I don't believe it! It's so disgusting, even the host said, you are a married woman in Beijing, you know too well how to get along with a boy who has just left school, and you know too well how to make a boy who has never been in love like you, why can't you be a little sincere when you only think about scheming?

    As for you, whether you want to break up, ask your own heart, and then ask your parents what they think. Also, look at the details, sometimes you will find that the same is the bride price and jewelry, unmarried and divorced, and your girlfriend is divorced and unmarried, even if you want the same thing, it feels very different.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    talked about marriage, which shows that two people love each other and spend their lives together. Then, the other party's past will all go with the wind. You are the one you want to cherish now and in the future. Don't break up, walk together bravely, and you will be happy.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you want girls to like you, you should be sunny and generous.

    Girls love sunny boys. Sunshine refers to the energetic and athletic type of boy.

    At the same time, girls also like generous and responsible boys. When boys speak, it is very important to have confidence, and they must always act responsibly.

    As long as you work towards these aspects and are full of confidence, there will be girls who will like you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    stabbed her in the sewer with a steel pipe, and this kind of thing was questioned.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The first is to reject you.

    The first is to reject you.

    The reason is very simple, because you are not honest, you did not tell people at the first time, so that people feel that there is a very strong sense of deception, in fact, this is deception, if love is built on these two words from the beginning, then I am afraid that the relationship will not last long, even if she said that it was okay at the time, but there will always be a hurdle in her heart, because of this deception, the relationship has been cast a certain shadow.

    If people reject you, for the person who asked this question, I think then maybe you have taken advantage of others, and people feel that they have suffered a loss in this regard, I am afraid that there is little hope of saving this relationship, give her time or leave her! One cannot live without a conscience.

    <> the second one, it's that she doesn't care.

    <> the second one, it's that she doesn't care.

    I don't care that there are two situations, first, because you tell her now, she thinks you are quite honest, this is a chance for you, of course, provided that she thinks you are excellent, and your relationship with you can see that your character and talent overshadow that little flaw, and second, she may say, I have had the same experience, if she says so, are you ready?

    To sum up, how deep the love is, or whether there is the same experience and whether it is honest or not, determines the outcome!

    To sum up, how deep the love is, or whether there is the same experience and whether it is honest or not, determines the outcome!

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