After the divorce, I know my character flaws, how to change them?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-23
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    How to say it, your husband is good enough to you, this time it may be that you really broke his heart, if you want to live with him again, then you have to try your best to keep him, such as a child or something, you tell him, he wants him to give you one last chance, but at the same time you have to remember that this is the last chance, if you are together again in the future, ask him to remind yourself when you are emotionally unstable, and make a little progress at a time! Hope you can be happy!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    doujiamingwang: Hello, you should adjust your emotions, try to restrain yourself, learn to be decisive, if he no longer loves you, you can only silently bless him? Actually, there is nothing wrong with loving someone, but you are wrong first.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Then you can only change it slowly and read more books.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    At the end of January this year, my family said that no matter who I had with such a personality in the future, I would not be happy, and I would still quarrel. This divorce has hurt my family a lot. I'm also really first, and we are officially reconciled.

    During the period I was really going crazy, I couldn't live without him, I always contacted him, he changed the phone number, I passed his friends.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I was bothered by this problem as you at the beginning, I was very decisively divorced, but after I divorced, I realized the difficulties of 2 marriage, a married man is a treasure, and a woman is worthless, and even a rural person looks down on you, so what I want to say is that you should think clearly about divorce and then draw conclusions.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Oh, what is the use of you talking to us, what are you doing, think about the consequences, be sensible first, analyze more.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's true that you have such a bad temper because you love him too much, and he is too tired to avoid you. Your man will definitely be annoyed if you make a fuss like this. I hope you will endure the unsatisfactory in life.

    If you still have him in your heart, change it for him for so long, don't wait until Heng Oak loses it to regret it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I found that your temper is similar to mine, and I was told that these are to be run in by the jujube stool, and after a long time, it will become a habit to slowly wander, and then there will be no quarrels, I think, if you love him so much, why don't you slowly get used to it, my temper was the same before, but now I have changed a lot. Come on.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't think too much, there's nothing you can change by going your own way.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Like my wife, I'm leaving.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's hard to say, I hope you don't mind.

    I don't think you know what love is.

    Love needs to be paid, and you are blindly taking, unreasonable. You also know that you have a bad temper and want to change it, so why can't you do it, have you ever thought about it?

    Now that you are all divorced, I suggest that you improve your living conditions, be friends with more cheerful and open-minded people, and say what you think, don't think that everyone else knows, understands you, and understands what you want. If you don't tell it, how will others know? Think about others from their perspective and understand others.

    It's okay to take a deep breath, look at more greenery, and observe them carefully. When you feel angry, try to control yourself and think about the consequences.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You care too much, and you can't express it, and you always want him to understand you, but he can't always do what you want, but if you don't do a good job, you can't express your thoughts yourself, and you always use noise and hurt instead, and this is not good, you have to learn to quiet yourself first.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Go to the hospital and talk to a psychiatrist, plus the ** of the drug, don't worry, it will recover soon.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It seems that you divorced because of your reasons, and if you remarry, you have to consider yourself, what are your shortcomings, and what problems have arisen in your marriage. Half a year doesn't seem like a long time, but it can change a lot, if your husband can tolerate you, not divorce can also help you change your temper, so if you really still have love, you have to fight for it and grasp it. There are a lot of external attractions in modern society, so no one will be able to *** after half a year.

    If you still love your husband, you have to reflect on yourself, after all, your husband still gives you a chance, and you still have a chance to cherish it after you lose it. But maybe you're not suitable, and if you don't have any other burden, you can also consider other options.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Useless. The natural character can't be changed, and if you leave the capital, you have to make another rake, which is really not like words.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Shouldn't he change his temper, you know, a slap doesn't make a sound, it's a two-way street, and each other has to reflect on it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This kind of man, this kind of family, don't do it, if it's me, in the case of no children, I will choose to divorce, the road ahead, no one can say, but there will be no worse than now, as a woman, you have to know how to take care of yourself, it's not a big deal, it's just a man, it's a lot of money outside, why bother for him, even yourself, but also your elderly parents, this is very undeserved, don't you think?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I feel that if he hits people regularly, do you feel that he still loves you?

    If there is no happy marriage, what is the point and happiness of lasting?

    I am a ** doctor, if you need to consult in the future, you can add me, the number is my name.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't approve of divorce, I think your temper should also change, and I also think that your husband loves you. Life and marriage cannot be the same as love. It's not the same to be married or not to get married.

    You have to feel that you are his wife, and there are some things that you have to respect him. And I think you are seriously insoluble in this family now, mainly because you have too strong a personality. Sometimes you can't change it, so you have to adapt.

    For example, you have your own savings and do not pay for the family. It's all because you don't dissolve in the family, you don't see yourself as part of the family. And you think the family is stingy.

    People have been frugal for decades, and they won't be able to change just because you came. The mother-in-law herself and the daughter-in-law are opposed, from ancient times to the present, it depends on how you treat her and how you change.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Take advantage of the fact that you don't have children, so let's get a divorce.

    Otherwise, what can such a marriage bring to yourself?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Cheer up a bit, okay? You are not the most miserable person in the world, there is nothing to be afraid of divorce, you have a stable job, and your parents are still alive, but you didn't see it for a while and married a bad husband. Although they all say that persuasion and not persuasion are not discouraged, why should they swallow their anger?

    Divorce is divorce, and being happy is the most important thing. It's good that you know how to fight for your rights, and you can ask for legal information. The current marriage law is a little more biased towards the woman, and you can make reasonable requests.

    Your parents must want you to have a good time, be happy, don't be sad, cheer up and think of ways to help yourself is the most important thing.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You have money to burn! My family can't afford 100,000, and my girlfriend can't afford to buy a Buick, but we are very happy after we get married, we go to work together, commute to and from work together, my parents are farmers, and they love us very much, and when your family is poor, you will know that feelings are important.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You have to cheer up, man, a lot.

    We are women in the new era, and we are still worried that we can't find good people.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Your family is very rich, so if you don't have children, and your parents tell you to divorce, just leave, it's useless to stay in this kind of place.

    Don't waste your time looking down on that man.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    When he starts beating you, the foundation of your marriage is shaken. Narrow-minded, alone.

    This article is enough to make you make up your mind to leave him, but you are still asking questions here, which means that you still miss your previous feelings, and you already have a plan to divorce in your heart. A thousand words, I only wish you happiness!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think you'd better leave, and you're not incapable of living, why don't you rely on their family.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You just have to do what you have to do, you seem to be afraid that he will ignore you, will you die if he ignores you? As long as what you do is worthy of your conscience, he will follow him carefully, and if he ignores you, you will ignore him.

    Of course, if he hits you at every turn, it will definitely not be tolerated, in that case, it is better to divorce.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Of course not.

    Say divorce and divorce, remarry after divorce, and divorce again if there is a problem after remarriage = = If you don't rely on men financially, you don't need to believe them.

    It's not that I said, it's really not true that the man said it.

    They don't even know what they think.

    What's wrong with the temper? A little grumpy.

    If you have a temper before you get married, how can you bear it at that time, and if you get married, you can't bear it, which means that you are impatient.

    Women should have their own principles, don't listen to the wind is the rain.

    I tell you, if you tell him that it will listen to you, I promise you that your hard life has just begun.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Since you are divorced, I must not have considered you, and your temper can be changed without divorce

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You tell him that I can still dump you after remarriage.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    A slap doesn't make a sound, your boyfriend is too selfish, if he is willing to give up on you, you'd better not pester him, because the twisted melon is not sweet, on the contrary, if he cares about you, no matter how imperfect you are, he will love you and love you, it can be seen that he loves himself more than he loves you, if he turns back first then you can consider accepting him again.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    First of all, when a man says this kind of answer to his own woman, usually you shouldn't dwell on it anymore. It's the truth. He said that it was good to gather and disperse. This means that you are just an expired product.

    It is recommended that you have a clean break with him. You just don't give up on him for a day. Sooner or later, he will come back to eat your piece of meat.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If it's not suitable, why be together. It shows that he is already crazy! Let it go. People who love each other don't need to torture each other. Explain that he is not the most suitable person for you. No one can live without them.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Are you true love? Maybe it's just for something else? To love someone is to love what he has, to embrace what he has, to do anything for him, to make any change for him...

    Because of the incongruity of personality, it is very righteous to say that you are very naïve or not really love each other at all, otherwise, why not try to compromise for each other and change yourself?

    I'm sorry, I'm direct, but honestly.

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