Is there something you didn t understand when you grew up?

To this day, I still don't understand why more and more people, when comforting those who have been wronged, always advise that suffering is a blessing? What makes me feel this is because recently, the coat brother Zhu Zhiwen has been on the hot search again. The reason for the hot search is that the door of his house was kicked open by people from the same village, in fact, since Brother Dayi went to the Spring Festival Gala, this kind of news is really common.

Almost every time, the neighbors in the village lined up to borrow money, and they only borrowed and did not pay back. The villagers kidnapped Brother Dayi with morality and came again and again to ask him for money. Once Brother Da refused, or did not express his position immediately, abuse and beatings followed.

How do I understand the phrase "loss is blessing"?

Another thing that I still haven't understood to this day is emotion. The so-called god of the heart is born from the heart, and human beings have emotions since birth. Babies cry and cry when their needs are not met, such as when they are thirsty, hungry, or insecure, they will cry to express their unhappiness.

When you grow older, you will have the pursuit of beautiful things in the future, and you will need companionship and support. During this period of childhood, if the child's needs are not met in time, or the parents lack the correct way of education, the child will have to spend his life in the future to ** his childhood, because the child's emotional deficiency. When they grow up a little bit and the three views begin to mature, people will begin to understand the world.

Understanding the world and society, knowing different people, seeing different things, and finding more and more that emotions are the most complex and unpredictable. And often, the most troubling emotions are not available in words. So I never understood the meaning of the phrase "empathy" because I never did.

In fact, many things are not that we do not understand, but that we are powerless.

When I grew up, I understood that we should live seriously, not in the middle of nowhere. It's a fulfilling, good feeling to do every day, and it's always like that.

is the maintenance of a relationship, and it must be the same as the three views of two people. There are common topics to be able to talk about, whether it is friends or couples.

The way to make money is something I didn't understand when I grew up. One thing that you may not understand later.

Why do good people have to go through 9981 difficulties to become Buddhas, but bad people can become Buddhas as long as they put down their butcher knives? This is a question I haven't been thinking through.

People always fantasize about growing up when they are young, but when they grow up, they want to go back to when they were children, and I believe many people are so conflicted. When I was young, I didn't understand the troubles of adults, and after becoming an adult, these troubles would also be added to myself, so I felt that the world of adults was very difficult, and the good life of childhood was really very happy. So what are some things that everyone only knows when they grow up?

Everyone may not have tried to make money by themselves when they were young, but when they grow up, they find that it is really difficult to make money, and the money earned every day may not be enough to spend, everyone will feel that it is very easy to spend money, go to the supermarket casually, maybe a few hundred yuan will be gone, but when you work, you will find that it is very good to be able to earn 200 yuan a day, and even some people do not even earn 100. So when you grow up and work to make money, you will find how happy your life was when you were a child, you don't need to worry too much about money-making skills, you only need to spend money, but when you really grow up, you will find that the world of adults is so difficult, and it is easy to understand the hardships of your parents, so many people also care about their parents and are considerate of their parents when they grow up.

I know that life when I grow up is very boring, there will be a lot of pressure, and people often calculate among themselves, only after they have learned more things, can they bring themselves a lot of opportunities, and many things need to rely on themselves.

People need to go through a lot of difficulties in their lives, it is not easy to make money, there will always be contradictions between people, there will be a relationship of interests between people, cooking is very easy to learn, and we can understand a lot of things when we grow up.

The need to pay for social security is something that you only know when you grow up. In the past, I always thought that social security was fully borne by the state, and residents did not need to pay a penny to enjoy it. Only later did I learn about the significance of social insurance.

There's no such thing as a free lunch. Having social security is already a good benefit.

When I grow up, I have a lot of troubles, and when I grow up, I want to go back to when I was a child, I will get married, I will have children, I will start a family, and I will work when I grow up.

Everyone's life is not easy, the family conditions are not particularly good, studying hard is the only way out, there will be a lot of unsatisfactory things when you grow up, you must adjust your mood, you want to go to college, sometimes your parents are not because you don't like to eat this thing, but also leave this thing to you.

When I grew up, I realized that it was on the road to growthThere are so many unavoidables, and finally understoodThe older you get, the happier you become, so we learned to find happiness in unhappiness, many timesWhen you encounter difficulties, you have to face them calmly, no one in society will be as accustomed to themselves as their parents, more and more clearThe more Bai grows up, the more lonely he becomesThe truth.

1. First things firstWhen you grow up, most of you have no choice

After the college entrance examination, on the way to the university, it was the first trip in life. At that time, I still had a desire for the future, joy, and excitement. From the place where you are tired of being bored to the place where another group of people are tired of starting a different life.

This trip left behind his youth and the 18-year-old who was underage.

From now on, learn to be an adult and learn to grow up. At that time, I thought it was a great thing to grow up. From the unfamiliar to the familiar, the people who are dominated by all kinds of things every day have pieced together a complete self.

When I grew up, I realized that I couldn't be completely myself anymore.

Everything is so unavoidable. You'll be embarrassed and reluctant, but you'll do it anyway. The life of an adult is not so easy. This has become a norm and a law.

2. The second thingWhen you grow up, you learn to find happiness in unhappiness

When I grow up, it's not like when I was a kid. It is always possible to laugh innocently. Every time I laugh, I am more or less reluctant. The laughter is higher, and the happy things are less.

After graduating from college, you will either face job hunting, starting a business, or starting a family and having children. Everything is a road that most people have walked and is recognized by the public. Everything is quietly on the table, you are not happy, but you are okay, laughing back and forth.

Because I know how sad it would be to be unhappy all the time in the midst of all these unhappy things. So I learned to find a little bit of happiness in unhappiness. This happiness is the motivation for you to get up early tomorrow and wait for me, and it is your courage to continue to move forward.

3. The third thingWhen you grow up, you learn to be calm and calm

A female colleague in the company was going to get a divorce in the afternoon, and I thought that such a big thing, how about it, I would also take a half-day off. Go ahead and handle it. But she said, "No, just go there at lunchtime."

I thought that she would be sad to do anything in the afternoon, and she didn't have any energy. But when she came back in the afternoon, she was still so serious and diligent in her work.

There is not a trace of superfluous personal emotions that affect the work. How strong can an adult's heart be, to which it can divide itself into two. Don't let the other self affect the current self.

1.When I grew up, I understood: life depends on yourself, life is hard work, if you work hard, there will be harvest, if you work hard, there is hope, if you are confident, there is a smile, if you look away, there will be happiness, look at the world with pure eyes, the world is wonderful, live in an indifferent way, life is beautiful, with a normal attitude to see the loss, life is easy, the years are wasted, tired and fruitless, do not say tired, do not complain of troubles, not for the scenery, not for showing off, only for the heart of the persistence, just to find yourself, in fact, Living is a kind of mood, a kind of longing in the heart, a kind of fulfillment, a kind of perseverance in the heart, and a kind of abundance.

2.When I grow up, I understand: I know and cherish, understand the true meaning of love, and you, cherish and cherish, lose you, what about the world, how to have everything, so don't ask, don't say, everything is in love, parting for a thousand years, can not block the simple permanence, meet and know a lifetime of love, fate remains the same is true love, how many years do not look back, stay with you to the white head, only love you alone, even if you have to endure thousands of years of wind and rain, keep a moment of heartbeat, remember the bone tenderness, willing to win the heart of a person, the white head is not separated, willing to hold the hand of the son, grow old with your son, A flower and a world, a leaf and a Bodhi, draw a dust, keep a bright moon, fall in love in the city, love and hate in a dream, hold hands and love for a lifetime.

3.When I grew up, I understood: life is difficult, the mentality is relaxed, life, the most rare, is a good attitude, the most difficult to let go, is the true feelings, the most unforgettable, is into the heart, the most difficult to find, is to be understood, people's life, and love and hate entanglement, and gains and losses, and right and wrong.

In life, everyone will have troubles, work, everyone will have problems, in life, everyone has difficulties, if, think simpler, pure vision, and have a normal mentality, there will be a lot less inexplicable troubles, don't be too embarrassed yourself, some people, not worth your heart, some things, do not need to be engraved in the memory, don't wait until you can't do anything, then choose to go with the flow.

4.When I grew up, I understood: happiness is the pleasure of the heart, happiness is the satisfaction of the heart, do not compare with others, do not care about yourself, perfection is a pursuit, the pursuit of perfection at the same time, to grasp the scale of life, happiness is the necessity of life, the pursuit of happiness at the same time, to keep the bottom line of kindness, people's life, how many ditches to cross alone, and how many regrets to leave for the years, all the way to the pursuit, busy, get together and separate, passers-by in a hurry, chance encounters, in and out, bitter and sweet, joy and sorrow.

Gorgeous flowers, mature body and mind, from years of tempering, people relax, the heart is flat, let life easy, let life rich, in fact, people live is not a feeling, life is a mentality.

It turns out that people who seem to be very close are not necessarily good friends, so don't be stupid and easily stand in line.

On the surface, the two of them are so good that they want to wear the same pair of pants, and they want everyone to know that the two of them are good friends, but in fact, the two of them look down on each other, and they don't know how many small actions they have made behind their backs.

If you have a healthy body, you work for money and relationships.

Learning to enjoy solitude is hard, but not learning to be lonely is painful.

First, safety and health are paramount.

Second, money is important.

Third, the context is important.

Answer: When you grow up, you will understand the main things:

1.Physical health is the most important thing. When you have health, you can have everything.

2.Money can't buy everything. Be calm about money.

3.Safety first. No matter when and where, we must pay attention to safety to ensure peace and happiness.

4.Home is the warmest port.

5.There is no quarrel with the world. Always put a smile and optimism on your face in order to live happily.

6.Emotional intelligence should be cultivated and improved. When emotional intelligence is high, you can live freely and satisfactorily in society.

As we grow older, we have a lot of things that we have new positives and opinions, but these views will gradually become as we grow up, and everything has not been hot lately, should children grow up, but what can they do when they grow up? But in my opinion, what I don't understand now is that I can't just grow up to understand. Sometimes you can understand it as you get older.

My main observations are as follows.

First of all, when we grew up, our parents said that you are still young and ignorant, and when you grow up, you will understand. But they don't know that not everything can only be understood when they grow up. As we grow older, we gradually have a new understanding of things, we gradually have a new perspective, and we will have a new understanding.

Therefore, it is not only the arrangement that we don't understand about some things, but we can only understand it when we grow up, and we will gradually understand and understand it when we grow up.

The second is that when we were growing up, our parents taught us, we couldn't listen to it very well, because in our opinion, these things are really nothing, and we can't understand the things we have at all now, because we have a different position from our parents and repent, so the final choice and activity. So in the eyes of parents, there are some things that we don't understand now, but not all things will only be understood when we grow up. Sometimes, as we get older, we learn from our failures and gradually learn a lot of truths.

The most important thing is that we have grown up, we have a new understanding and understanding of things, we are no longer dependent on our parents, in the eyes of our parents, we are ignorant of whatever we do now. In their opinion, only growing up is certainly not when we are getting along with others, we can be carried on our heads, we are vulnerable, but our parents taught us that we can get along with others in harmony, but for some people, different people have different attitudes, we choose me. Why do you think this is happening?

Isn't everyone equal? But after many injuries, I have learned that not all people are worthy of my sincere treatment, and some people are really not worth it, so what I don't understand now is not only to grow up to understand, but as we get older, we will all understand.