I want to learn but I can t control myself.

You have to study hard, and you have to learn if you don't want to learn for your goals.

You can give yourself a reasonable study plan. Let yourself study in a planned way, and make it mandatory for you to make a study plan according to yourself.

When you are tired of studying, you should relax yourself appropriately, such as: listening, reading books, chatting on the Internet, talking to friends about your learning pains, and letting him (her) share it with you.

But I still have to go to school, for the sake of my ideals, endure it. If you think about it, after more than ten years of struggle, in exchange for a lifetime of happiness. If you succeed in your studies, you will be blessed for the rest of your life. College graduates and high school graduates are treated differently.

Try to relax yourself, listen to **, read books, chat online and share your boredom with netizens.

For the sake of the future, we should study hard now.

The situation you mentioned is the common nature of people, lazy, procrastinating, unwilling to endure hardship, but hoping to change the status quo, achieve good academic results and a good life, for these, I will talk about my own thoughts, I don't know if it's right. First, it is necessary to analyze the current situation and establish one's own ideals. Everyone has their own ideals and goals, but there is no pie in the sky, so make short-term and long-term plans for yourself, and then always be vigilant and achieve them step by step.

The second is to deeply reflect on one's own learning attitude and methods. With ideals and goals, that is, correct attitudes, the next step is to implement them conscientiously and to the letter. About learning methods.

It is nothing more than listening carefully to the class, actively asking teachers and classmates for advice if you have questions, thinking more, having a deep understanding of each knowledge point, drawing inferences from one another, and achieving a thorough understanding. Here I will talk about the three-practice learning method. First of all, before the teacher's class, preview the course content to find out the difficulties and doubts, so that the teacher can focus on listening to the lecture during the class and not know how to ask questions in time.

And then there's the practice. For the practice we do the most, do a do in class, after class practice questions belong to the scope of practice, I focus on the process of practice, pay attention to thinking and induction, sort out the various question types, find out the solution method, and summarize the difficult problems that will not be on a difficult problem book, for later review. Finally, there is the review.

The knowledge that has been learned should be reviewed regularly, because the human brain will forget, according to the law of people's memory and forgetting, do daily, weekly, and monthly review, and review and consolidate and improve the old knowledge. The third is to insist on perseverance and not expose to the cold. Every day, we must check the completion of the plan we have made for ourselves, revise and improve our learning, and we must be strict with ourselves and be consistent.

Only in this way, you will continue to grow on the road of learning step by step, and you will gradually achieve good results, realize your ideals, and shape a mature and successful life.

If you want to study hard, but you can't control yourself, then you have to set a goal for yourself, give yourself a small reward for completing the goal, and give yourself a small punishment if you don't achieve it, so that you can control yourself.

You can let the people around you supervise you, as long as you want to learn, when you can't control yourself, let your parents, teachers, classmates, etc. help manage you. Remind yourself to study hard all the time. If you really want to learn, how can you not control yourself?!

If you want to study hard, but you can't control yourself, then you don't have the determination to study hard, you have to know that if you don't suffer from learning, you have to suffer from life, only by studying hard, will you change your fate, you must recognize the importance of learning, and make up your mind to develop a benefit of learning.

Find classmates to supervise yourself. Talk to your classmates about the three chapters of the law, how long you must study or what you have to complete every day, and if you don't complete it, you have to accept a fixed punishment, so that once you form a habit, it will have a good effect.

If you want to study hard, but you can't control your own words, then you need your parents to help you, you and your parents have a good discussion, make a study plan, what time to read every day, or what homework to do? It's okay if you don't want to be so specific, anyway, let your parents try to help you and supervise your learning.

Learning is a must for everyone! Knowledge not only improves quality, but also changes people's lives, the so-called book has its own Yan Ruyu, the book has its own ** house, so the way to control yourself is: 1

Set goals, 2Request for Parental Supervision, 3Find your companions!

It's good to have the idea of wanting to study hard, what you lack is self-discipline, self-discipline is to be cultivated, we have to learn to persevere, we should not indulge ourselves too much, work hard towards the learning goal, believe in yourself, you can.

Make your own study plan. We must grit our teeth and resolutely follow the study plan. But those who shake and affect their own learning.

Games or something? Resolutely throw it to the back of your mind. It is necessary to cultivate and exercise one's strong heart.

and strong willpower. Do you want to say no to online games?

Because you have developed a habit of not wanting to learn, if you really want to study well, set a goal for yourself. What kind of results to accomplish within the goal, so that it will improve slowly.

Ask your parents and teachers for help, take the initiative to hand in your mobile phone, check the information with your parents when you use your mobile phone, let your parents supervise your homework, improve efficiency, and get used to it over time.

I don't think it's really good to turn off the mobile phone and put it aside, or find someone to supervise you, and you can only play for a few hours a day with the fixed mobile phone software, and lock it up at the point, and you can't control it or have to rely on the outside world.

1.You can try to lock your phone with the app (I used: Sunshine Self-discipline) 2You can go online to buy the artifact of locking your mobile phone3(For me) go alone (preferably without being easily distracted by a companion) library to study.

If you want to study well, you have to restrain yourself, you have to make yourself self-disciplined, you have to understand and clarify your goals, and you have to think about your future path, you have to study hard.

Learning is to make up your mind to learn, in the current era without knowledge will be difficult to survive, knowledge will change fate, every day to plan what to learn, do not think about anything, full of thoughts about learning.

I think if you can't control yourself, you can also make a study plan for yourself, so that you can follow the plan step by step.

If you want to study well, you must first be interested in learning, so that you can manage yourself well and not play or do something else.

Affected by the learning environment, the people around you may affect your learning status, so find a quiet environment, or study with some classmates who study and have good grades, and you can communicate with each other.

Make a reasonable study plan, give yourself appropriate rewards, and keep yourself motivated to learn.

You can use study software, or ask your parents to take care of your electronic devices, and you can go to the library and study room for self-study, where the atmosphere is good.

Make your own study plan, control the study time, and you must concentrate when studying, and develop good study habits.

I don't know, I may just be ready to study, but you may want to play for a while, watch TV, you can't control yourself, you can join that kind of punch-in group, everyone has to punch in, what will happen if you don't punch in? It's better for everyone to go back together.

No matter what you do, you must have perseverance and perseverance, otherwise no matter how simple things are, you won't be able to do it.

The simple is a student, there is no self-discipline, so self-discipline is the most important thing for a student to do, if the marriage has self-discipline, he will restrain himself very well.

If you want to study well, you must make a detailed study plan and implement it carefully.

I want to learn, but I can't.

This requires a strong sense of self-awareness. A plan should be made first. First of all, you have to listen carefully to the class, you have to do a preview before class, and you won't have too much trouble in class, and if you don't listen carefully in class, you can't write homework after class, and you can't think of it at all.

So it's important to listen carefully in class. Second, you should complete your homework autonomously. When writing homework, don't always turn to the book, use your brain.

I really don't know how to use software or ask the teacher, don't be afraid of the teacher. If you don't understand the knowledge, you have to ask, and you can't just taste any subject. Go deeper.

You can arrange which subjects to do every day, study a few pages a day, and then take notes every day, remember to find your own questions to practice, but don't do too much, stick to it for a long time, and you will find yourself improving! Good luck.

Find someone to supervise. You can make a watch and clock in every day.

Everyone has their own shining point, just you don't find it yourself. I also have gray hair, and I'm only a sophomore. There are many factors that cause it, it may be genetics, it can be overconsumption of brain cells by staying up late, or it can be excessive stress.

Why numb yourself by playing with the computer? All people are never born equal, and if you want to win this so-called equality, you need to fight for it yourself. And what's the use of you just running away?

We only have such a short life, do you want to live a life like this? Knowing your own shortcomings, you shouldn't feel inferior, but to change yourself, can you do it? As for you saying that you can't manage yourself well, it is because your own perseverance is not strong, and if you want to win the respect of others, you should first respect yourself.

To tell the truth, the only generation is pampered by the family and parents, and there is no room and freedom for personal growth. The premise is that the only generation takes the initiative to understand the outside world, listen to more about the growth stories of their parents from their grandparents and grandparents, and tell some of the news on the Internet. Adults and elders also have the pain of growing up, and there are troubles from generation to generation.

Having experienced, how to break through the encirclement and find the balance between yourself and your parents, you need to do more homework on "being a man". Adapt the next three-character scripture - at the beginning of people, growth is bitter; Parents are kind and learn to cook. Encourage growth together.

First of all, you have to admit that you are a good boy because you are at least aware of your shortcomings and want to correct them. It's just that I haven't found an exit yet, and I haven't had the courage to face myself, believe in myself, and change myself.

In fact, everyone is not useless, as long as you are willing to believe in yourself, don't close yourself off and put yourself naturally, get along with classmates and friends, believe that they are still very welcome to you, some of your previous ideas are just what you have been imposing on yourself. So believe in yourself, believe that you are the best, there is no perfect person in this world, as long as you carefully discover, you may be a landscape in the eyes of others at some point.

Hope it helps!

No one is perfect, all you say is that you are inferior to others, from another perspective, you should think about your strengths and learn to develop your strengths and avoid weaknesses. If a person looks down on himself, then how can others not look down on you? If you can ask questions about learning, it means that you are not yet decadent to the point of paralysis, and you should cheer up and believe in yourself.

You can ask a loved one, teacher, or friend to supervise your studies, give yourself a proper sense of pressure, and do whatever you do, with one thing in your heart: I can do it. I believe in you, come on

You have to build confidence, what's wrong with the last place in the class, believe in your own ability, "I am born to be useful" Maybe your talent is not in learning, Tolstoy, Edison and other hours of study are not good, people grow up to be scientists, do you look at those so-called champions of a certain science in a city in China who will become famous when they grow up? How much do you contribute to the country? Now you have to discover your strengths and play to them, believe that you are the future pillar of China, and let go of distractions.

You have succeeded since you asked this question, study hard from now on, let those so-called eugenics in your class see your strength, and don't be disappointed if your efforts are not fruitful, because you have tried. Don't think you're bad, you have a lot of potential! Believe me, and even more so in yourself!

I await your good news.

When you can't control yourself and regret it, you can punish yourself with some small measures, such as going to the playground to run a few laps, or finding a bunch of questions to fix a fixed time period and bury yourself in it, etc. It can not only be memorized for a long time, but also conducive to learning.

Learn to learn, play to play, homework to write, don't run to the office, let the teacher teach you, listen carefully in class, just think about what the teacher said, it's best to read through the textbook the day before, no, you want to learn after class, you can learn, you don't want to learn to have a good time.

Slowly get used to it, and the grades will go up.

If you want to play games, then you will play like crazy for a month, and then you will get tired of playing, and then you will focus on studying, so you might as well give it a try.

It's okay, grades are not the key, as long as you want to study well, you should be fine, you say you can't control yourself, you can let others take care of you, but the premise is that you won't refute him, don't feel inferior, mental health is also very important.