Mother in law, are you going to make such a fuss???????

If you were her daughter, what do you think would happen to her? Speaking of which, if you are not her family, she will treat you as an outsider, you should not cook this meal, as soon as you do it, it will be your job after that, it is not delicious, she has eaten it for most of her life, it is not delicious as soon as you come, what logic is this, I will be angry when I see such a mother-in-law. Why don't you move out of the building?

Later angrily is still to come.

Your mother-in-law is really, what is the rice is not delicious, it has been eaten for decades, why can't the daughter-in-law even cook when she enters the door.

You really shouldn't cook this meal, after making so much, your in-laws don't understand you at all, and you don't feel distressed when you are sick.

Next time, if there is a similar situation, you can directly say ah, say that you are sick and need to rest, and then call your husband and ask him to take you to the hospital. Then talk to your husband about the situation and let him comfort you.

The best-case scenario is that you two come out on your own.

Why don't you tell your husband this? You mother-in-law is inhuman! Let's live separately!

Also, saying that you can't cook?? He also worked as a daughter-in-law, if he didn't know how to cook, how could he raise your husband so much? It's not delicious, haven't you eaten it for decades? Why doesn't it taste good with you? He sincerely asked you to do it.

Don't make it so delicious when you're cooking, just make it bad, who let him do this to you. Scheming and inhumane. If I were you, I wouldn't cook at that time, and I would go back to sleep when I went back to my room, or I would go to cook, and the food would be very unpalatable. Talk to your husband about it in the evening!

Poor baby, friendly hugs.

Hehe, relax, the longer you struggle, the more awkward you become.

Tell him directly that you are sick and can't cook, see what he says, and communicate with your husband, there are some things that you can't say directly to your mother-in-law.

The reasons why your mother-in-law deliberately provokes you: competitiveness, elders, and self-righteousness.

1. Competitive mentality: think that you are right, do not listen to the persuasion of your daughter-in-law, even if you have realized that you are wrong, you are not willing to admit it, you have to compete.

2. Elder psychology: The mother-in-law thinks that she is an elder and her son is born by herself, and does not allow her daughter-in-law to be presumptuous in front of her, thinking that her daughter-in-law must listen to her.

3. Self-righteous psychology: The mother-in-law thinks that she is an elder and the mother of her son, and her son will not ignore her, even if he doesn't care about her, he will not do anything to her, and he is fearless.

Mother-in-law deliberately provokes you with a solution

1. Pretend to be stupid if you don't know what to say: When you first get married, your mother-in-law is still embarrassed to say some things clearly, so when they see that their daughter-in-law is not pleasing to their eyes, they will say some yin and yang words to the daughter-in-law, and then let the daughter-in-law realize it herself. Under normal circumstances, the mother-in-law's words are very clear, as long as the daughter-in-law who is not lacking in heart can understand it.

I said it to you on purpose, and I was embarrassed to say it after I understood it, so I could only sulk on the side, so after a long time, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will soon appear. So what do you do when your mother-in-law talks to you? That's right, play stupid!

2. Don't get used to smelly problems: Some mothers-in-law were still very good when you first got married, but after a period of time, they are getting more and more inches, why? Because everyone couldn't figure out each other's temper at first, they would tolerate each other in the process of getting along.

And as a daughter-in-law, she will please the old man in every possible way.

At this time, some mothers-in-law saw that you were a bully, and began to rely on the old and sell the old to ask you as an elder, and then you found that you had been in a dilemma. In the face of such an old man, when you find a problem, you should immediately stop the loss, clearly tell your in-laws your attitude, don't blindly obey, otherwise their bad problems will become more and more habitual!

If your mother-in-law tells you everything, it means that your mother-in-law trusts you very much. Treat you as your own family and treat you with great respect. Relatively speaking, I also treat you as my own daughter, what do you have in mind? I'm willing to share it with you.

How to get along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the best.

1. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a special and difficult interpersonal relationship. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live in the same family, and there will often be conflicts in the management of family affairs, etc., and the son's double-sided tape is needed to deal with it flexibly. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can communicate more, respect each other's living habits, and so on.

2. There is only one hostess in a family, so don't be too strong in many things, and have a concession to each other, but don't give in to principled things, including how to educate children.

3. About taking children to agree in advance Try not to interfere too much with the mother-in-law Many of the mother-in-law's concepts are too old-fashioned And they always have a set of experiences that they think are very right Always feel that she can bring her son up and her grandson will no longer talk about it, but mothers will be very disgusted with the parenting concept of the older generation So the child tries to bring more by himself Don't give it all to the mother-in-law and then pick and choose Try to do everything yourself.

4. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can respect each other without too much hypocrisy, treat each other sincerely, people's hearts are made of meat, and treating each other sincerely can definitely be exchanged for the respect of the other party.

This mother-in-law sounds okay, no one understands each other perfectly, this is good, some mother-in-law thinks that her son is the best in the world, this mother-in-law can be handled, the second and third children are also good, in fact, after being married for a long time, it is not entangled in the words of the mother-in-law at all, it is like an old tree in the yard, and it is too lazy to pick out the shortcomings after watching it for a long time, and the woman should ignore it, and the woman should grow herself.

Your mother-in-law is willing to be with you and tell the truth, which means that she trusts you and doesn't treat you as an outsider, and there are not many such people in your life. You have a good mother-in-law. She is not partiality in doing this to favor her son, but she sincerely wishes you to live a good life.

When you meet such a mother-in-law, burn high incense. I believe you are a good daughter-in-law.

My mother-in-law only tells you everything. This shows that you are a person who can be a human being. So even the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is so good, your mother-in-law treats you as a confidant.

Summary. 2. Be weaker.

If the mother-in-law is a very strong person, then you should be a little weaker, don't compete with the mother-in-law, after all, the family and everything is prosperous, if it is really not a big deal, although her temperament is good, don't hurt the harmony.

What should I do if my mother-in-law is too unreasonable?

Hello kiss, mother-in-law is too vexatious We can do this: 1. Don't make noise Of course, in the face of mother-in-law's vicious words, most women can't stand it, and they want to hate each other. It's understandable that I can't stand the vicious mouth of my mother-in-law, but if you want to solve the problem and resolve the conflict, this kind of quarrel will only add to the rift and will not do any good.

The best way to deal with quarrels is actually to be polite and first, first do your own thing, make your mother-in-law impeccable, and then find someone who is familiar with your mother-in-law to be a lobbyist, and slowly change this habit of mother-in-law. Secondly, the husband is a key, if the mother-in-law is unreasonable, no matter how obedient he is, he will feel annoyed.

2. If your mother-in-law is a very strong person, then you should be a little weaker, don't compete with your mother-in-law, after all, the family and everything is prosperous, if it is really not a big deal, although her temperament is good, don't hurt the harmony.

3. Let children be a good relationship The elderly like children, and talk about children's topics in front of their mother-in-law, such as children's learning, children's naughtiness, and children's progress. These will increase the topic of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and inadvertently shorten the distance between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.