Is it the same with someone else s boyfriend? Why are other people s boyfriends so good?

Maybe you're thinking too much!

Or maybe you're too concerned!

He may not like to carry the ticket with him, so stuff it to you, or inadvertently! There is another possibility that he wants you to understand the money he spends for you, but not stingy, maybe you think about it from a different perspective! He feels it's worth spending any money for you!

But you're not with him because he's generous, are you? I don't think you're a money-hungry woman! It's not right to lose your temper because of this little thing about shopping!

After all, he didn't say anything about paying for you, but he was to be blamed by you! This is also not right! Think about it!

If you have anything to say, let's spread it out and say it to two people! To be kind, you can't break up if you don't agree! As soon as the word breakup comes out, it will be engraved in each other's hearts forever!

Do you think it's a matter of course for you to spend your BF's money?

And are you thinking too much?

I don't know what a receipt is, in fact I never pay attention to what receipt I have to take when I buy something. When the two of us go to the supermarket together, I never go to the queue, I always go out early from the non-shopping outlet to smoke and wait for her to pay and go back. I always give her a cash sum of money as living expenses from time to time.

Do you still say he's generous? My boyfriend doesn't like that, he doesn't even want a small ticket, hehe.

Don't think so much, and don't keep suspecting yourself, if you want to know what he is doing, you can ask him directly, "Honey, why do you hold a receipt at me every time you buy something, and want to ask me for reimbursement, right?" Ask him half-jokingly, so that the two of you won't be unhappy, and you'll know the result!

You have too much heart, don't fret.

I think this man is too contrived.

I think the main reason for this problem is that you don't know someone else's boyfriend.

On the one hand, is a boyfriend in someone else's mouth reliable if he is good?

From your description, you know that someone says that your boyfriend is good in front of you, which makes you compare with your boyfriend very differently, what I want to say is that what others say is reliable? Maybe she understands it from a positive perspective, but you look at your boyfriend negatively, can that be the same? In my impression, from a man's point of view, you say that someone else's wife is good, and you say that someone else's boyfriend is good.

In fact, this truth is very simple, men and women are the same, that is, because the contact is too frequent, the two people have no secrets at all, and without the sense of mystery, the attraction will naturally become smaller and smaller. If you are together for a long time, and there are some bumps and bumps, the feelings of each other will become more and more diluted, which is why the marriage has a seven-year itch, and eventually love will become the root of family affection.

On the other hand, why do you say that your boyfriend is not good?

This is because her boyfriend has been with me for too long, and I have only seen his negative effects. It's the same with my wife, once the days go by, it's naturally someone else's good. It may be the same as what you said in your description that your boyfriend smeared you, it may be that you have been together for too long and too closely.

The so-called distance produces beauty, why do so many people divorce after the epidemic?

Isn't it because two people spend too much time at home? If two people are busy with their work and career every day, can they have a conflict and divorce? Therefore, you have to sit down and talk about it, and you have to reflect on yourself, but I can say for sure that other people's boyfriends are not necessarily better than yours, but other people's ugliness is not publicized, and the two of you do have some unsatisfactory places in the process of getting along, and the contradictions have been expanded, so this situation has been created.

All in all, I think you look at someone else's boyfriend because you haven't been in contact with him, and you don't know him at all. It's like a man saying that his wife is good to others, because you don't know him, and you don't know the situation on his side. Only experience will understand why some men or women feel blind after being fooled?

It's because you're confused by illusions, so my advice to you is to put away this theory first, talk to your boyfriend about it, and if you really can't get together, there's no need to slander each other!

Others show you the good aspects, and others directly quarrel and estrangement and will not show the outside, and you can only see the good aspects.

Because what we can't get is the best, we always compare the shortcomings of our boyfriends with the advantages of other people's boyfriends, so we think that other people's boyfriends are better.

Because I don't have an in-depth understanding of other people's boyfriends, I just see the appearance, I only see the advantages of other people's boyfriends, and I don't see the shortcomings, so I think other people's boyfriends are good.

Distance produces beauty, in fact, no one is perfect, the more you understand you, you will find that a person cannot be a merit.

The main difference between a boyfriend and an ordinary friend is that when you are in trouble, he will immediately think of the knowledge to help you, which means that he is a person who loves you, everyone hopes to meet the right person in love, and hopes that the person I love will also love me, but not everyone can do it.

Lucky people will directly meet the destined person, and there are many people who will experience the situation of not being able to love, maybe you have chased him for a long time, you have paid a lot for him, but you just can't get his heart.

At this time, it is naturally helpless and powerless, but the person you love doesn't love you, what a sad thing!

But then again, it's really not to blame him, it's to blame yourself, if a person doesn't love you, you can feel it, it's just that you don't want to admit it, you still want to try what will happen if you continue, will it move him, or it will be different after a long time.

And in fact, the person who loves you, his words and deeds will reveal his love for you, and the person who does not love you, no matter what you do, he will be indifferent, stop deceiving yourself!

He says he loves you, but he never cares about how you feel.

What to like; knew that she didn't like to watch art exhibitions, but he dragged her to accompany her parents to watch the exhibition to show respect; I knew she was sick, but I didn't know to rush over to accompany her.

In fact, from these performances, it can be seen that no matter how much you give, he will not respond.

What is the most feared thing in a relationship? It must be that one party pays, and the other party does not respond at all, just like when you talk to the other party, but he never replies, then your mood must be very disappointed!

Sometimes, don't always be moved by yourself, don't think that as long as I pay, I will get something in return, love is the most unreasonable thing to talk about, it is likely that you give everything, and you can't get a thank you from him, at this time you should understand what he means: he doesn't love you!

Self-touching in love is a very silly act, and usually it will only move you and not the other person.

He is with you, not necessarily because he loves you, it may be that you love him, he is with you, love or not, you can feel it, the person you don't love, no matter how much you give, he doesn't have any response.

If you understand this, stop giving stupidly, love without a response is destined to have no results.

Love is not about one accommodating the other, but about evenly matching, and both parties can give willingly for each other. ”

If you know that the person you love doesn't love you, then quit calmly, don't struggle in the love that doesn't belong to you.

Barely can not be happy, if a person does not love you, you can not force it, instead of entanglement, it is better to live your own life, you have to understand that a person can also live a happy life.

Love is not everything in life, if you love the wrong person, then let go and wait for the right person to appear, he doesn't love you, you can feel it, don't deceive yourself, don't continue.

Almost. Many people live but don't know what they're living for. They become mediocre in the crowds that come and go; Devoured by glitz in a busy life.

Without a self, they become a kite with a broken string, floating high in the sky, but with no place to return. In this vast world, only by finding the truest self can we be like a tree towering to the sky, but rooted in the deep soil; Able to cut through the haze and find your way to be friends with animals. Although there are very few animals around us, we can still understand all animals and the whole world by being kind to them.

When you feel the mysterious aura of the cat, you can understand that the fox's cunning reveals wisdom; When you see the dog faithfully serving humans, you can understand that the wolf's eyes are not cold, but warm. When you praise the bees for their hard work, it is very easy to think that when those pests harm the interests of others, they also do it for their own survival, but the earth does not have time to give him a smarter mind - living things can't always be "good", right? In that case, the world will not be as harmonious as it is now. You will find like-minded friends and partners who share your interests.

Whether you want to roll in the mud or bloom into a lotus flower is your young choice. To put it bluntly, what people in your WeChat circle of friends are posting is the possibility of your future life development. Some people pay attention to the beauty and plainness of a small family, and some people pay attention to the human process of family and country affairs.

If you are good at reading, you can go to any circle you want. But people who scold the street every day and cry and mourn, hurt others and are not beneficial to themselves, are often deleted friends. People live for a lifetime, and the road becomes narrower and narrower.

My understanding is that you are right, it should basically be like this, physiology, love, study and work, etc., that is, you fancy your boyfriend's aspect, there must be something you are interested in, you envy, etc., otherwise you can't make friends with him, say, since you recognize him, don't be different from others. It's optional.

It's up to you to find out.

If you like him and don't reject him, you will be with him.

What are some of his specialties, which will be reflected in his daily life. For example, he can cook, for example, he can fix computers, and whether he is willing to do it.

But other men don't necessarily like you, and they don't necessarily like you.

What are you thinking? Who do you love? I know what I'm going to do!

Yes, only by comparing will you know how good your boyfriend is, and only after comparison will you know if you really love him.

No, I think what belongs to me is the best, there is no need to compare my boyfriend with others, it will only increase my own troubles.

No, I think it's disrespectful to my boyfriend, so I don't compare my boyfriend to someone else's.

No, your boyfriend is unique, and you are unique to yourself, and it is very unwise to compare your boyfriend to others.

I don't compare my boyfriend to other people's boyfriends, because my boyfriend is unique in the world and the best person in my heart.

I don't compare my boyfriend to others because I don't think it's pointless and there's no need to do that.

Yes, sometimes I can't help but compare my boyfriend to others, and then I find that my boyfriend is the best.

I wouldn't compare my boyfriend to others, it's pointless, and it hurts your boyfriend's heart.

I don't compare my boyfriend to others because I think my boyfriend is the best boyfriend in the world.

No, in my eyes, my boyfriend is the best man in the world. Of course, if he has some shortcomings, I will tell him in time.