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Anonymous users2024-02-111) Trying to be friends with him.
Talk to him about life, life, friends, family, relationships, etc., to see how he reacts and what interests him. Once you find a topic that interests him, he will be more willing to talk about it. His attitude towards you and the way he speaks to you will also change.
This will be of great help to your daily work communication. Imagine who wouldn't want to get along with a colleague he could talk to?
2) Review yourself.
People who dig into the horns of the bull are usually more serious. Maybe you did something wrong or something that made him unhappy. Correct your own shortcomings and make others impeccable.
People who drill the horns of the bull are usually relatively simple, straightforward, and not as sleek as sophisticated people, and this kind of person is still more along. Think about it, would you rather work with someone you can't figure out or someone who is simple and straightforward? Maybe the former will make you feel very comfortable, but the activity of his heart will make you more afraid.
In short, it is not easy to learn to communicate, don't think about "why am you so unlucky to meet such a colleague" or "I really don't want to pay attention to him, just transfer away" and so on, these are some immature mental activities. So face your difficulties, make it a task to get along with him, and try to solve it.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10I feel that for this kind of person, it is better to tolerate him more, and try to make him happy under the condition of not violating the general principles, and it will be better slowly.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Understand him and respect him, but don't be honest with him.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08It's not a bad thing to love to get to the bottom of the bull's horns, you just want to understand the problem, which is also good for yourself and can increase your knowledge.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07Keeping a plain heart and loving to drill the horns is an act of refuting others, after all, it is not a very good phenomenon. Other people's words and if and oneself noIt's a very annoying behavior, and you'll know it if you think differently, because you don't want anyone to drill your own horns. Therefore, some behaviors often seriously affect your interpersonal communication.
People who love to drill the tip of the horns often can't say a word when they fight ghosts, but they want to show off themselves, and they are jealous, and when they see the people they hate, even if others are right, they will do everything possible to drill the tip of the other party's horns, in order to show that they are more knowledgeable, and they are often self-defeating.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06Then you look the other way!
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Anonymous users2024-02-05In such a situation, you should find a psychologist, establish a good relationship with the doctor, help you establish a behavior model through the doctor, and change your behavior through analysis**, behavior**, family**, and psychology**.
First of all, it proves that you still have a lot of ideas for yourself. But you may not be thinking so much that you are on the wrong path and cannot extricate yourself. It's good to have your own thoughts, but it is recommended that if you have a situation in the future, let yourself calm down first, don't think about it, do something else, wait for a while, and then rethink this matter, maybe there will be a more mature understanding. >>>More
Your penchant for digging into the horns just means that when you look at any problem, you always like to analyze it from the same angle, and it is not a big problem at all. To put it simply, it's just a matter of angle. I can tell you that a lot of people are like this, don't worry. >>>More
Recently, when I was doing math problems, I only liked to think about one aspect and not think about the others. For example, when it comes to the Pythagorean theorem now, I only want the Pythagorean theorem when I do geometry problems, unlike other aspects. What should I do? >>>More
You don't have to worry about them, they are not your friends or relatives, no matter how much it is, it's better to turn a blind eye! I think that other colleagues were coaxed by this man, which is not necessarily a good thing, and I can only blame these women for being stupid! There's no need to be serious with them, and there's no need to think about how to face it, it's a big deal to change jobs! >>>More
When I meet such a person, I am basically like a smiling tiger, easily do not offend him, and try to stay away from him as much as possible, just nod my head. >>>More