Should working families send their children to key schools as phoenix tails, or to ordinary schools

There is really no way to generalize about this kind of thing, and the main thing is that the decision should be made according to the child's situation。If the child can withstand pressure and has a strong ability to resist pressure, then he can go to a key school as a phoenix, so that the child can learn better under the encouragement of others. If the child himself has no ability to resist pressure and always withdraws when encountering difficulties, then it is better to let him go to a general school to be a chicken head, which can build up the child's confidence and make the child's learning process easier.

Let's take a relatively simple example, the neighbor's child has a good academic performance, and if it is placed in a key school, it can only be regarded as a relatively low ranking at most. But if he is put in an ordinary school, this child's grades can be regarded as among the best. The neighbor thought about it for a long time, and finally put the child in an ordinary school, because he knew his child's character very well, this child's character was originally weaker, and he couldn't help but retreat when he encountered difficulties, and he would not dare to face it, if he put the child in a key school, then his self-confidence may be hit hard, and if he doesn't get it right, he will be directly slumped, but if he goes to a general school, because the child's grades are very good, so he can improve his self-confidence over there, The child will also have a more relaxed life.

So this really has to be decided according to the child's temperament, some children have a strong ability to resist pressure, while some children have no ability to resist pressure. And I don't think this has much to do with working families, even if they are working families, key schools and general schools can afford tuition, so there is really no need to consider income, after all, most families can support their children's education. And even if the family conditions are relatively average, if the child can have better learning, I believe that many parents are willing to smash the pot and sell iron.

Therefore, working families are not a big problem, the focus is on how to choose children.

If there are really parents who encounter such a thing, they must remember to communicate more with their children and do not make their own decisions over there. We must learn to let go and let children choose by themselves, only in this way can we cultivate children's ability to make their own choices, so that they can better deal with things in the future. If the parent takes it upon himself to enroll the child in a school he does not like, then the child will have a rebellious mentality, and in the end the gains outweigh the losses.

Therefore, communication is essential in education, in order to be able to make the family more harmonious and the child to learn better, we must pay attention to communication.

It depends on the child's personality, if the child is the kind of person who can improve his ranking by working hard and become very motivated and confident, then go to an ordinary school, if it is the type that is very resistant to pressure and the more frustrated he is, he will go to a key school.

Of course, it is to go to a key school to be a phoenix, the learning atmosphere of the key school is better than that of the general school, and the child can exercise his learning ability when he goes to the key school.

It will let the child go to a key school, because the education in the key school is relatively first-class, the child can get a better education, and the future development will be better.

I think I should go to a general school as a chicken head, because if the family conditions are not very good, if you have to go to a key school, the child will have low self-esteem.

You should go to a general school to be a chicken head. Because doing so can increase the child's self-confidence in learning without putting too much pressure on the child.