Are there any mothers like me who divorced just after giving birth?

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One of my female classmates filed for divorce from her husband 4 months after the child was born, on the grounds that she didn't love her husband and insisted on getting a divorce, and she made trouble for a month. Now that my daughter is 4 years old, I go to see her once a month, and I live a chic life, but I don't know if she is really happy or superficial. In front of us, she always preached to us, talked about her life experience, and taught us the truth.

Seriously, I look down on her, her husband loves her so much, and her daughter is still so young, just for a sentence, if she doesn't love her, she will divorce hastily, and she has no sense of responsibility at all. For me, a complete home is the most important thing, a family, neat, happy, safe, healthy, better than anything else.

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The child was sentenced to his family, the child is still young and I am not able to raise him, I don't know if my mother-in-law knows about our divorce, I don't know if the child's father has revealed some information to her, he is going to tell his family in the next few days, and my mother-in-law said this to herself when she was watching TV that day. I don't want anything to ask him for anything, what is the point of marriage and what to want, if money can buy happiness, there will not be so many unhappy people in the world" I don't know what you think, such a family, a man, what do you think is happy, if you don't want anything, then you are too stupid, you think, you leave everything he wants to a man who is not responsible for the family, the children and you. And all you take away is the scar he brought you.

You will be in this haze for the rest of your life, will you forget what he did to you, even if you don't ask for anything, will you forget??? No, it's very simple, only people who hurt others will forget, how can someone who hurts forget to hurt. He won't have a trace of guilt, If there is, then, how can he do such a thing A woman giving birth to a child is like passing through a ghost gate At this time, he does this kind of thing Then he is not as good as a beast **What else is love, for such a person Why do you give him love Don't you think it's a waste???

So if you are a smart woman, you should learn to protect yourself at this time, instead of going out of the house

Now some people will divorce immediately after giving birth, what do they think? Nowadays, many couples will choose to divorce after giving birth, and many people don't understand why, why they still want to divorce quickly when they have children, in fact, there are reasons for this.

1.Lack of communication between couples. At the beginning of the marriage, the newlyweds are often sweet and sweet, and they confide in each other about everything.

However, after the birth of the child, Bao's mother shifted her attention to the child. Daddy's communication. As for Bao's father, he is busy working to make money and is usually tired when he comes home.

In this way, the two reduced the frequency of communication due to fatigue. Over time, it will only become more and more negligent in communication, leading to emotional estrangement and eventually parting ways.

2.Men are indifferent to women. It is said that men are all children, and their role in marriage is more likely to be that of a big boy who needs to be taken care of by a woman, rather than taking the initiative to care for others.

After giving birth, you not only have to endure physical pain and hardships with a baby, but also have to endure great mental pressure. If Dad Bao at this time is still the same as before, he doesn't take the initiative to take care of Mom Bao, doesn't take the initiative to take care of the baby, and doesn't care about Mom Bao. Regardless of whether the mother is tired or not, whether the body recovers well or not, it will make the mother.

Discouragement, which leads to a rift in the relationship between husband and wife. If Baoda is not repaired in time, it will eventually lead to a breakdown of the relationship.

3.Bao Ma serves the whole family alone. Many mothers will leave their jobs in the late stages of pregnancy to concentrate on raising their babies and wait until the baby goes to kindergarten.

took care of her husband, some lived with her in-laws, and also took care of her in-laws, becoming "servants" in the family. Not only is the work hard, but the husband does not receive understanding and support, and there may also be quarrels, which can lead to the rigidity of the relationship between the husband and wife, and eventually divorce.

4.Today's women pay more attention to the present moment and will not wronged themselves. In the eyes of many people, a woman is "worthless" when she gets married.

No one wants to remarry if she has children. Therefore, it is too bold and incredible for a woman who is married and has children to dare to file for divorce, just like choosing a person to die. In fact, today's women dare to do this because today's women pay more attention to the present and will not wronged themselves.

They don't care about the future. As long as they feel that their current life is miserable, it should end immediately. As for what will happen later, they will not scare themselves, on the contrary, they will think better for the rest of their lives, thinking that divorce is a new beginning.

Because these women know that men don't care about themselves very much after giving birth, they want to divorce immediately.

These people may not really like each other, but they just want to deal with the urging of marriage in their own family, or they may do it in order to have a child of their own.

This is because when you are pregnant, there are already cracks in the relationship between the two people, but at that time, women have no way to be pregnant, and after giving birth, the conflict between husband and wife will break out, which will lead to divorce.

It may be that the man will not take care of the woman at all in his life, nor will he help the woman take care of the children, so the woman will be particularly desperate, and finally divorce because of this matter.

Because these people don't have the other half at all when they raise children, and the two have no feelings.

It is because the two people are not suitable at all, and after giving birth to a child, it is found that the two people have more conflicts, and the three views of the two people are completely different, so they choose to stop the loss in time.

Because of these mothers, they have a lot of grievances left during pregnancy, so after giving birth, they will choose to divorce and take the child alone.

It is because life is boring, and the pressure of life is also very high, so these people will choose to divorce when they have children because they are afraid.

Because these people do not have any foundation in their marriage, and the husband and wife have no affection, they will choose to divorce.

1. How to divorce just after giving birth.

1. The way to divorce just after giving birth to a child is as follows:

1) After giving birth, if both parties reach an agreement on the divorce issue, they can sign a divorce agreement and then go through the divorce procedures at the divorce registration department, without time limit;

2) After giving birth, if you choose to file for divorce, that is, go to the court, you need to submit a complaint to the court.

2. Legal basis: Article 1076 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China.

Where the husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1077.

Within 30 days from the date on which the marriage registration authority receives the application for divorce registration, if either party is unwilling to divorce, he or she may withdraw the application for divorce registration from the marriage registration authority.

Within 30 days after the expiration of the period provided for in the preceding paragraph, both parties shall apply in person to the marriage registration authority for the issuance of a divorce certificate; If the application is not made, it shall be deemed that the application for divorce registration has been withdrawn.

2. How to determine the right to custody in divorce.

The criteria for determining custody in divorce are as follows:

1. If the child is under the age of two, it shall be awarded to the woman in principle of direct support by the mother;

2. For children who have reached the age of two, the people's court shall determine the ownership of custody rights based on the actual situation of both parties, and from the perspective of benefiting the children's physical and mental health and protecting the children's lawful rights and interests.

The child can be divorced just after birth, the two parties can agree to divorce, the woman can file a lawsuit for divorce, and the man may not take the initiative to file a lawsuit for divorce, unless the court deems it necessary. The man may not file for divorce during the woman's pregnancy, within one year after childbirth, or within six months after the termination of pregnancy; However, this is not the case where the woman files for divorce or the people's court finds it truly necessary to accept the husband's request for divorce.

1. Whether the husband has the right to file for divorce during the woman's pregnancy.

During the woman's pregnancy, the man and the man may not file for divorce; However, this is not the case where the woman files for divorce or the people's court finds it truly necessary to accept the husband's request for divorce.

The man may not file for divorce during the woman's pregnancy, within one year after childbirth, or within six months after the termination of pregnancy; However, this is not the case where the woman files for divorce or the people's court finds it truly necessary to accept the husband's request for divorce.

2. How to divorce one month pregnant.

If the woman wants to divorce after one month of pregnancy, the man is generally not allowed to file for divorce, and if the woman files for divorce, she can choose to divorce by agreement or file a divorce lawsuit. According to the regulations, the husband may not file for divorce during pregnancy, within one year after childbirth, or within six months after the termination of pregnancy; However, this is not the case where the woman files for divorce or the people's court finds it truly necessary to accept the husband's request for divorce.

3. Can a woman sue for divorce if she is pregnant?

During the period of pregnancy, the woman may file for divorce, but the husband may not file for divorce under normal circumstances, except where the law deems it necessary to accept it. The restrictive provisions of the law on divorce are that the husband may not file a lawsuit for divorce during the woman's pregnancy, within one year after childbirth, or within six months after the termination of pregnancy, unless the woman files for divorce or the people's court deems it necessary to accept it.

Article 1082 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China provides that the husband shall not file for divorce during pregnancy, within one year after childbirth, or within six months after the termination of pregnancy; However, there is an exception where the woman files for divorce or where the People's Law has collapsed and the court finds it necessary to accept the man's request for divorce.