Which man is good to marry, and what kind of man should I marry?

Love and marriage are two different things, when you are in love, you are good, you can't guarantee that you will be good after marriage, in fact, plain is true, many people say: find a love you love, find someone who loves you to marry, that is, the combination of romanticism and reality.

If there are 2 for you to choose, if you are idealistic, have faith, you look at the character of the person, a good character, even if you are poor, it doesn't matter, if you have money, bad character, flowery, not responsible then you will have the hardships in the future. On the other hand, the poor, that is, the bitter points of life, the soul is satisfied, the food and clothing are worry-free all day, and the soul is tormented, I don't think any of them will want to, and it is also a pleasure for two people to create together. Do you believe that you will be poor for the rest of your life?

Being good to you is a kind of love, but the smaller the aspect, the more it seems that love exists, it doesn't have to depend on you for everything, if you see your bad habits, and you are unhappy in time, he will also have to say it.

If you want to get married, keep your eyes open, don't be covered by money, romance, oh!Without hurting the dignity and self-esteem of others, you can do small tests. Just grasp the scale yourself.

This kind of major event, it is better to decide by yourself, so as not to leave regrets.

Which one do you love, marry that one, stupid.

Will people who are good to you always be good to you? If you dare to say forever, then you can also consider it, but do you dare to say forever?

For example, there are two men, let's say you are with both of them, you both feel the same, you love both of them the same, and both of them love you the same. Of course, this is just a hypothesis.

A man has a salary of 10,000 yuan a month, but he only spends 1,000 yuan on you. And the other man, who only has a salary of 2,000 yuan a month, but he is willing to spend 800 yuan on you, so which one will you choose?

To see whether a man loves you or not, and whether it is worth it for you to marry him, I think the important thing is not to see how much he gives you, but how much he is willing to give you.

I care about the degree of feeling and the feeling together!

Parents hope that their daughter will marry very close to the family, but they think that as long as the two people are together, they will be happy, and it doesn't matter if they are in **......

Putian male. Player.

Don't know.

You just say you want to find someone rich

Zhejiang, there is not only a good environment, but also conditions"good"

See what kind of man you want? Men in Shanghai can cook, and men in Xi'an Gu Jia really make you down-to-earth, but not romantic. In short, it depends on what type you like.

What you like is the best.

The conditions you mentioned are actually very easy to solve, and the key lies in whether two people are compatible together.

It's good to marry a man who loves you deeply, has a sense of responsibility, and is willing to shelter you from the wind and rain.

1. Choose a man who loves you:

Women understand that when choosing a man, they should choose a man who is good to them. But what kind of man is a good man for himself? I think that the man who feels sorry for you is the man who is good to you.

It doesn't mean that the person who gives you roses and gifts every day is necessarily good to you, but the important thing is whether he cares about you. For example, when you are sleepy in the car, you can sleep on his lap for a few hours, even if his legs are sore, he will not move, for fear of disturbing your dream.

2. Choose a man who honors his parents:

Filial piety is the foundation of goodness. If a man who doesn't even honor his parents can't be good to you, don't expect him to share your ups and downs.

3. Choose a man who does not have vices such as eating, drinking, prostitution, gambling, etc

A man's daily entertainment is normal, if a man is addicted to eating, drinking, prostituting and gambling, sooner or later he will lose his family business and even do more outrageous things. So, don't talk to such a man.

4. Choose an enterprising and restrained man

Enterprising men, even if they are not rich now, will always be rich one day. But those who are enterprising also need to know how to be temperate, and men who lack self-control will have problems.

5. Choose a man with a generous heart:

A broad-minded man will not be careful, will not make your emotional road difficult, a narrow-minded man will make your life very stressful, and may even lead to the failure of your marriage.

Many women shout, as long as they become excellent, why can't they marry an excellent man? What kind of man is good? Measured by secular yardsticks, blocking everyone's mouths, making them envious even if they have won the crown of winners in life?

Only you know if your marriage is comfortable. A woman's face and complexion can't deceive people, a woman with soft lines and a calm expression, most of her marriages are in good times, her lines are stiff and her face is cold, and most of her hearts are full of resentment.

These negative energies come from the trivial calculations in life, the husband's ego, the demanding demand for perfection, and the disregard for affection. She marrying him was more like handing herself over to a prison cell boss.

If a woman wants to marry a man who is beyond her in all aspects, she always has to make sacrifices, such as accepting the other party's unenthusiasm, inconsiderateness, appearance defects, and personality quirks, which I think is a big joke. How good is a man to make a woman willing to be a slave?

You should marry a man who has independent ideas and knows how to cherish you. Marriage should be married to these kinds of men:

1. The monthly salary is handed over to you, and you only have a small amount of pocket money.

After getting married, my husband gave all his income to his wife, which is not only a trust in his wife, but also a decision: I just want to be with you for the rest of my life, and I will work hard to earn money so that my wife can live a good life.

Although talking about money hurts feelings, many times, money can say a lot of things, such as a man who has one million, and he is still squirming when he pays for a meal with his girlfriend; And there is another man who is only 10,000, but he is willing to do his best to give his girlfriend the most sumptuous dinner.

2. When there is a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I will not say "my mother is not easy".

When there is a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the husband's position is particularly important, and his every word determines whether he is a "firefighter" or a "fire incener".

The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarreled, and the husband confidently told his wife: "My mother has not been easy all these years, we should understand her." "This is said as if it is easy for a wife, but is it easy to take care of the housework and have children for this family?

The wife is easy to rebel, and the original grievances in her heart are even more aggrieved.

It's not easy to be a mother, and it's not easy to be a wife, even if you can't be as "favoritism" as the groom for no reason, at least understand "my mother is not easy" at the same time, but also understand the wife.

3. Take the initiative to help your wife share housework.

I found that in the relationship between grandparents and grandparents, most of them are grandmothers who cook, do laundry, and do housework, and grandpa reads the newspaper and walks in the sun. They have adapted to this pattern of getting along, but they have also coexisted peacefully. I don't know if there is more housework now, or if women now have more roles, if a woman is allowed to take care of the housework alone and take care of the children's eating, drinking, and Lazar, she will either become a yellow-faced woman or a resentful woman.

A former colleague, his wife gave birth to triplets for them, and his wife had to resign and go home to take the baby. But when my husband saw the messy home after getting off work, he threw a sentence: "I take a baby at home every day, and I don't know how to sweep the ground."

I can't imagine his wife alone with three children, but I can imagine that she can't eat, she may not be able to eat, and it should be understood that she has no time to sweep the floor. When the child was less than a year old, they divorced. Do you think that their marriage finally came to an end because "the wife does not sweep the floor"?

It was the husband's indifference and incomprehension to his wife that made his wife feel cold.

If the husband returns to the messy house, instead of blindly blaming and complaining, but taking the initiative to share some housework, maybe these three lovely children will have a complete home.

The man who said these things to you must leave decisively.

What kind of man is most worthy of marrying?

Looking at your own wishes, of course, those who live a lifetime are honest and upright people.

It doesn't mean that marrying a rich and handsome man means that you have married the right person, the key depends on whether you can understand and tolerate each other in marriage, and whether your temperament is appropriate. If you and your man meet the following seven points, it means that you are not marrying the wrong person.

1. There is something to say together.

Don't underestimate whether you can talk about it together, because most marriages die without anything to say. If you have endless topics to talk about and are happy to share what you see and hear with each other, don't doubt that you must have each other in your heart. Because only trust, only liking, will open their hearts to each other.

2. Two families are "door to door".

The right match here does not refer to the economic conditions, but to the family atmosphere. If the family atmosphere of both of you is democratic, harmonious and happy, then there will not be so many conflicts in your married life, and your choice will be wise. Because you are not only married to this man, but also the family behind him.

3. The three views are basically the same.

The three views involve the outlook on life, values, and the worldview. The three views that affect you can be big or small, from political views and positions to small bits and pieces of life. However, under the premise of maintaining consistency before the three views of right and wrong, the three views in life will affect the quality of the marriage of two people.

I understand your ambitions in your career, you understand what kind of life I want, we are willing to work together for a common goal, and we will actively solve it even if there is friction. That's what it means to not marry the wrong person.

4. Have the same interests and hobbies.

You don't have to have many of the same interests, but at least you have to have the same interests. Men and you have the same interests and hobbies, one is to show that your personality should be similar in one aspect, and the other is that the same interests can add to your life.

5. Don't hesitate to praise and affirm.

The so-called men need to be worshipped, and women need to be pampered. If this man can not only pamper you in words, never hesitate to appreciate and praise you, but also pamper you in actual actions, then this man is definitely worth cherishing.

6. Leave private space for each other.

Your man is not suspicious, fully respects and trusts you, does not interfere with your circle of friends, and leaves you plenty of private space. This shows that your man is generous and broad-minded, and your marriage is based on equality.

7. Empathy.

It's not difficult to say four words, but there may not be many couples who can really do it. When you have an argument or a conflict, he can always think about it from your point of view, instead of insisting that he is right. Such a man understands you, which means that there is no problem with your choice.

In short, it depends on whether you marry the right man, whether he treats you sincerely, and always puts you in your heart. Such a man is a rare thing.

Marrying the right person is not necessarily the most handsome, not necessarily the richest, not necessarily the most burly, not necessarily the best, but the person who loves you the most and is willing to give him the best.

Life is short, and a woman's youth is even shorter, so it is important to choose a lover who suits you to spend your life with. Don't pursue excessive material conditions, don't blindly ask for a handsome face, and marry a man who is willing to be good to you, you are marrying the right person.

First, change your appearance. Second, you must learn to forbear. Third, you must learn to be independent. Fourth, you need to change every day.

What kind of man is most worthy of marrying?

The first thing is to be good to you, because only if he is really good to you, then your married life will be happy, if even he treats you badly, then let alone his family. The second is to be self-motivated and responsible, so that there is hope for your life, and one day your life will be well. In the end, it is to be filial, if he is not filial to his parents, then he is a person who has no heart, and he will not be good to anyone like this.

Marrying a man who is filial to his parents, a man who is more self-motivated in doing things, a man who is magnanimous, and then this man also loves you, it will be very happy to marry this kind of man.

It is a person who can give you a sense of security in the dark night, a person who shelters you from the wind and rain, a person who stretches out your shoulders when you cry, and a person who can snuggle up together and walk through the end of life.

"The Godfather" is a man's Bible, but interestingly, the author of "The Godfather" once said that when writing this book, the image of his mother gave him more inspiration and inspiration. Then perhaps as a woman, you can also find your own answer in this book.