Why are people not afraid of loneliness when they are young, but they are afraid when they grow up?

People will always encounter a lot of troubles in the world, when you are young, all the troubles your parents will help you solve, when you grow up, if you don't have any good relatives or good friends around, there will be no one to help you, so you feel very helpless, so you are afraid of loneliness.

Because when I was young, everyone lived by the side of my parents, so I never had to be afraid of no one around me, and when I grew up, it was different, and the people around everyone would be very separated due to different work or lifestyle, so if there were no friends, it would be really lonely, so when I grew up, I would be more afraid of loneliness.

Because people never have to think about their own lives when they are young, and when they grow up, they will run around for survival, and they are not afraid of loneliness when they are young because they have the care of their families, and if they don't have good friends around them when they grow up, it will seem as if there is only one person alive in this world, and they will be very afraid of loneliness.

When you are young, everyone lives under the protection of your parents, and you don't have to think about what to eat and wear tomorrow, let alone your future work, so you are never afraid of loneliness when you are young, and when you grow up, you will be very afraid of loneliness.

There are many reasons for this, I think the more classic is that when you were young, you had all kinds of good friends around you, everyone was in school, there were many classmates, and when you grow up, everyone has their own things to be busy with, and no one will always be by your side, so when you grow up, you will be very afraid of loneliness.

Children's friendship has always been the kind that can be coaxed with a piece of sugar, and when they grow up, everyone likes different things because of different values, so if there is a disagreement between two people, it is difficult to heal, so they will be more afraid of loneliness than when they were children.

When I was young, everyone's mind was imperfect, so even if it was just me, I would be very happy, but as I grew older and my values were perfected, I grew up with a lot more thoughts and emotions. It's easy to think too much, and if it's just a lonely person, then I'll be very scared.

When I was a child, I was always able to play with a group of friends, and even when I was alone, I would play with myself. After growing up and understanding a lot of things, people nowadays are relatively empty, unable to find their own direction, and always feel very lonely, so they have a sense of loneliness.

Why be afraid of loneliness?

People are afraid of loneliness and confuse loneliness with loneliness. Loneliness is what people describe others and others, while loneliness is what they describe themselves, and loneliness is not the same as loneliness. Your loneliness seems to be yours alone, you eat, sleep, and walk alone.

But what about other than that? You also have your interests, your hobbies. Do you feel lonely and lonely when you are alone and focused on something?

After I retired, I often stayed at home alone. Reading and writing often makes me interested and forget all my worries. I wrote a poem about this:

There is no quiet peace in the downtown of Modao, but I am afraid that I will not be attentive. In his later years, when he was studying, he lived in the mountains behind closed doors.

You see, am I lonely and lonely? Not only no, but I prefer to be alone.

In fact, loneliness is not terrible, it just depends on how you face it. Sima Qian completed the Chronicles in solitude, Beethoven composed music in solitude, and Marie Curie studied X-ray ...... when she was lonelyCountless scientific research achievements and grand masterpieces in the world are born in loneliness.

Don't be idle on lonely days. Don't make excuses for your loneliness on lonely days. Indulgence, unrestrained, that is the worst thing to do in solitude.

We can't live in a lively world forever, there will always be lonely times. How nice it feels to be alone and not disturbed by the outside world! When you are alone, you can do things that you couldn't do before, and you can live your own wonderful life.

Loneliness is not scary, so why do you still say "endure loneliness"? If I had to say anything, it would be to concentrate on what I am interested in.

Find the right path for you and do something meaningful. It's like writing, playing badminton, table tennis, basketball, walking, reading, singing, ......As long as you have pursuit, perseverance, and fighting spirit, you will definitely be able to solve loneliness.

Money, be a man, bravely face the difficulties of life and overcome your fears.

When I was a child, I didn't feel lonely, but when I grew up, I thought a lot, especially when I saw people around me in groups.

If you really can't have someone to accompany you all the time, if loneliness is a compulsory lesson in life, then it's better to think about what to do in the lonely time. There are a lot of thoughts in the human brain, and these scattered thoughts are like a group of people working in different directions, and they will feel very tired, but when you focus on one thing, the strength is in one direction, and those pessimistic thoughts will not be perceived.

Think about it, when you are busy at work, do you feel lonely? Only the goal is completed in the eyes, and you will not feel lonely.

I don't know when, I feel like I'm going to be scared to grow up.

When comparing yourself to others, you always feel.

I am taller than others.

When you compare your age with others, you think you are younger.

Whenever I was excited to celebrate my birthday, it was a happy thing, but I was a little sad and inexplicable.

When I got older, I realized that year by year, after the end of the year, I also smiled and walked through my life.

Whenever I have participated in a funeral of the deceased, a kind of confusion and reluctance arise spontaneously.

Maybe one day, he will be put into a coffin, a burst of suona, a few firecrackers, under the crowd of onlookers, a few people mourn, and then, maybe into the ground, or maybe into the air.

Go to the funeral home to send off your deceased relatives and friends for the last time.

Looking at the remains lying among the flowers, people know.

From then on, he will never wake up again, and his final destination will also be placed in an eternal dream.

I once dreamed that I would be forever young, but my temples were like frost and my eyes were clouded, and it was the past years that kept ringing the alarm bells.

Urging the pace of life, slowly moving towards the end of life.

When you're with young people, they know what to say, and you like to hear it the most.

Flatter the mausoleum stool a few more words, they never say that you are old, but against your will, you are the same age as them.

When others don't want to be near you, when people go out, leave yourself at home, and when it's time to eat, bring your furniture.

Let you use it alone, old, really old, don't feel how useful you are, and don't be embarrassed.

The birth of a new life is thought to be that death has been following and waiting.

Decades, a hundred years, there is no infinity.

You will often meet old men or old ladies on the street, they are hobbling, bent like a bow, full of gray hair, deaf in both ears, don't think there is anything strange, these are the gifts of time.

The years are silent, in fact, every day, night and dawn, to spend a birthday, you have to go through spring, summer, autumn and winter.

Although you can't hear the bell announcing the year, the sun and the moon are recording your life journey every moment.

No one, getting younger.

White lies, so just listen to them, the key is your own, and your heart must be young!