What if your best friend is hiding something from you and tells another person?

I think this is a very normal thing, no matter how good a friend is, or how close the relationship is, sometimes there will be some things, inconvenient to say, this is not called concealment, just didn't tell you.

Therefore, you need to change your thinking, even if you are a friend, there is no need to tell you everything. It's just that the other party may feel that there is no need to talk to you about this matter, but it can't be said that the other party is hiding it. For example, if you ask, the other party will still tell you, that's fine.

It's just that you may have scruples, or it's hard to talk about, and it can't be regarded as a concealment.

Even if the other party really hasn't told you something, it's his own business, not the two of you. Just like me, I'm not actually a person who likes to share my heart, I can handle many things by myself, or I can carry down the grievances and setbacks, so there is no need to say everything, for a man, a little illness and pain can be called clearly, it is a sign of weakness. Therefore, it may also be that the other party feels that this matter is insignificant, or that they can handle it themselves, so there is no need to tell others everything.

In fact, everyone has some things on their minds, such as between you and your family. No matter how good your relationship with your parents is, you will take care of it, and you will not tell your parents everything. For example, some trivial things in daily life, or some annoying things, may not want to worry the family, and then choose not to say it.

It's not a cover-up, it's a thoughtful way.

So, your best friend.

If you don't tell you something, you can't just say that there is a rift between him and you, or that he is no longer the best friend, and this does not affect at all. To be a man is to be a little more free, your friend and best friend, choose not to tell you about this, then you don't want to pursue it, he may just not want you to worry, or just want to have some private secrets.

In fact, anyone is not willing to be completely in front of others, and will always leave a private space for themselves. This space is only accessible to oneself, and even loving husband and wife sometimes have a certain amount of personal space and do not interfere with each other. So, you should choose to understand and support your friend, rather than being suspicious of him.

You have to have faith in your relationship, good friends are still good friends, and there will be no estrangement because of a little thing.

What you should do is to give each other a certain amount of space, instead of asking too much questions. Since you're best friends, I think you should be relieved and don't worry about such trivial things.

Sometimes when your good friends around you don't tell you something that you don't know but others know, you will always feel uncomfortable, feel panicked, make yourself feel uncomfortable, but it also affects the normal relationship between two people, for these things, if it happens, we must face it with the right attitude, and we should treat it in the right way.

When you hear something from other people's words that your good friend didn't say to you, don't immediately reverse your attitude because of this, and say something in front of others why she didn't tell me, why didn't you tell me, and then don't say it directly in front of your friends, why don't you tell me something, this will not only affect the relationship between friends and others, but also affect your relationship, pay attention to the way, don't pick it out to say, know that you can talk to the other party tactfully, Ask if there is something wrong with you that makes the other party distrust.

Don't force others to tell you everything, when friends want to share with you, they will naturally share with you, put your mentality right, others don't tell you that you are indispensable, to give the other party the feeling that I am there, as long as you confide in me I will listen, sometimes this is not a sign of a friendship crack, it may also be related to the other party's personality and psychology. Have a good talk with your friends, find the reason, even if there is no reason, don't go too much to involve this aspect, it is certain that there is a certain distance from friends, leave each other the necessary space, or it can also be equivalent to not knowing this matter, good friends do not say that there are always good friends for reasons, don't always take this kind of little thing to heart, two people need to communicate more, not everything can be reflected.

Everyone has good friends, and friends are the ones we rely on when we are not with our parents, helping each other and sustaining each other. But even then, there will be contradictions and secrets between friends.

When I was in junior high school, I felt that my friends had to think about me all the time, and my best friends could only have me. But as I grew up, I realized that I had misunderstood. When we grow up, we meet a lot of people and make different friends.

Our friends may become friends with people we don't know or even know. If our best friend doesn't tell you something, but tells another person, I hope we don't get angry. We should treat it with a normal heart!

People will meet all kinds of people in this life, and we can't limit our friends to other friends. She didn't tell you what was on her mind, not because she didn't treat you as a friend, but because she felt that it was more appropriate to talk to another friend. <>

People's personalities are different, some are very good at taking care of people, and some need to be taken care of. If you are a person who does not take care of people, your friend will not come to you if he has troubles or problems that cannot be solved, because he does not want you to worry about them. We should understand the decisions made by our friends!

I've questioned before if my friends don't take me to heart, but no. We can have different friends, but that doesn't affect our feelings. If a friend doesn't want to tell you about it, she must have her own reasons, and we should give them understanding and support, rather than blindly questioning it.

Therefore, when our friend does not tell us what is on our mind, what we should do is to give her care and support her, not blame. We can't control anyone's life, and we can't be too selfish.

I think everyone has their own privacy, it is their right to say it or not, and it is also their right to choose who to share their secrets with, even if she is your best friend, you have no right to ask her to share all her secrets with you. But she shares her secrets with others, and she is always a little unhappy as her best friend.

We all have the experience of sharing our secrets with strangers in our lives, and the secrets that we have kept for many years are revealed in the words of strangers. Some careful thoughts sometimes don't like to share with the people closest to them, because they will consider whether their opinion of themselves will change after sharing, and whether they will underestimate themselves. But people who are not so close to themselves don't have so many scruples, and some secrets are just said.

It is also possible that part of her secret involves you, maybe she has an opinion about you in some way, or maybe there are some things that involve your interests, and she doesn't know how to choose, and needs to listen to the opinions of third parties. If that's the case, she won't tell you if she is reasonable, she may be protecting you. If you want to know, talk to her, but if she really doesn't want to say, don't go on.

In fact, there are many kinds of friends, some are suitable for playing together, some are suitable for revealing their hearts, and some are suitable for supporting each other. The types of friends are different, and the things they share are also different. If you think about it, you probably don't go to her for anything.

That person may be thoughtful and can give constructive comments about your current friend's situation, don't pay too much attention to it.

She doesn't want to tell you because she doesn't want to trouble you, or she feels inconvenient to tell you, so she hides it from you, and you have to understand her.

I think it's going to be very sad, after all, I've always regarded him as a friend, but I'll still take the initiative to care about him, after all, I'll still treat him as a friend, maybe he just has some things on his mind that are inconvenient to talk to me.

If your best friend is hiding something from another person, there's no way you can pretend you don't know.

I think the landlord should think about it: if she didn't go to this year's class reunion, and you know her secret. If you accidentally said something wrong, do you want her to forgive you?

I think it's hope, if you want her to forgive you, maybe she wants you to forgive her. You should cherish each other, and if you cherish each other, where is the betrayal? You cherish her and don't want to lose her as a friend, then you have to forgive her, maybe she really just said it unintentionally, who can be without fault?

If this secret is too important, I understand your feelings, and I also know that it is whether you can let go, whether you can look forward, I know that it is really difficult to let go, but you also have to try to let go, slowly let go, and look forward.

What people will think of you when they know your secret may not be what you think it is, they may take the secret as a joke, or they may forget about it after that time. If it's a lifelong event for you, then try to fulfill the secret you told her and tell them that you can do it. I also know that they may take your secret seriously, and they know that you are in an awkward position, but that is not an option for you.

They are them, it is none of your business what they think, just try to be yourself and change your perception in their eyes.