How to overcome psychological barriers? Less whiteheads

Hello, I empathize with your problem, because I also have the same experience, and I also inherited my father's less whitehead, when I was in middle school, I had a headache in the face of this problem, always beware of others laughing at me, worried about other people's strange eyes, sometimes I just find a place where no one is around, and slowly have fewer and fewer friends, become withdrawn, and isolate myself from others. Later, I realized that it was because I paid too much attention to myself, I cared too much about other people's eyes, and it was all my own wishful thinking.

It's normal to have this kind of thinking, because everyone wants to be respected by others to satisfy our self-esteem, so we try to make ourselves perfect and have no flaws, so that others like us and respect ourselves. Everyone will be like this, but the way of choice is different, some choose to make themselves beautiful, some people choose to do a good career, and some choose to make themselves rich.

At the age of seventeen or eighteen, he is in adolescence, and his mind is in a critical period of development and perfection. At this time, when the self-esteem is at a high level, it is necessary to want or demand respect in every aspect. Since the psychological quality is not yet sound at this time, driven by self-esteem, choose some incorrect ways to satisfy your heart.

For example, you are required to be beautiful and handsome. In terms of height, weight, looks, clothing and so on. This is an incorrect way of making decisions, focusing on one's own external qualities and ignoring one's inner qualities.

The more this time, the more you should focus on your studies or work, since you can't choose your own appearance, you can't change it. So why don't you choose what you can change, what you can change is to improve your academic performance, get your job up, with good grades and good technology, why do you worry that others will discriminate against you and look down on you? Also, you can try to communicate with your classmates, will they really stop being friends with you just because your hair is gray?

Less gray hair is really annoying. Especially at your age, the most important thing is image. Girls are more severe.

I'm the same, I started to have a white head at the age of 22, and I didn't care. I'm 29 now, my gray hair is very conspicuous, and my colleagues and friends often tell me to dye it, but I never want to dye it. After being troubled by gray hair for so long, it didn't affect my life of work and making friends, so I may be used to it.

My husband didn't love me because I had a little white head. Relax and do what you have to do, and slowly you won't care too much about your gray hair. Go to Chinese medicine and prescribe some Chinese medicine, although the effect is very slow, it is just a psychological comfort.

It's better than nothing.

1. Many people have whiteheads.

2. The white head is also good, and it looks far-sighted.

3. The white head looks mature.

4. Let go of the idea of whitehead, don't mention it again, and it shouldn't be a characteristic you care about. The connotation of people is more important.

5. When a person is strong in his heart, he will be very confident, and these phenomena will not have an inferiority complex on him.

I don't think it has much to do with it, because it's because of genetics that you have a gray head, at least you still have hair, and some people for some reason will never grow hair. I think you should adjust your mindset first, there is nothing wrong with gray hair.

Some people even go out of their way to dye it.

In real life, people can't control what happens to them, but they can control their mentality; People can't change others, but they can change themselves. In fact, there is not much difference between people, the real difference is in the mentality. Therefore, whether a person is successful or not mainly depends on his mentality.

There are good times and bad times in life, and it is impossible to be adversity everywhere; There are peaks and valleys in life, and it is impossible to be at the bottom everywhere. Being proud because of good times or peaks, and being depressed because of adversity or troughs, are both shallow lives. In the face of setbacks, if you just blindly complain and get angry, then you are destined to be a weak person forever.

I think it's good to dye it, it's nothing. You can also dye some popular colors for a better look.