What should I do with a rotten father, what should I do with such a father?

The recommendations are as follows:

First, you can enrich yourself, improve yourself, work yourself, and strive to become a capable person who can stand well in society in the future.

Second, he did not blame or comment on his father's many selfish actions, and dealt with them indifferently. In order to avoid father-son disputes and affect the development of the family.

Third, we should also care about him and help him do something to protect the relationship between father and son. In short, if you deal with it in this way, you will maintain the relationship between father and son, and your father may also be able to converge, improve and change himself, and at the same time, you will be able to harmonize your family by doing so.

Fourth, for some situations in life and study, such as the room where the computer is placed, you can communicate with your father, tell him honestly what you feel in your heart, ask for his consent, and make adjustments to make study and life more convenient.

Precautions for dealing with rogue fathers.

The non-argument with the family should also vary from person to person. For family members with similar age, culture, and educational backgrounds, there is no problem in arguing without hurting feelings. Of course, we should also pay attention to the small argument for pleasure and the big argument for sadness.

The most careful thing to do is to treat the elderly in the family, which is the object of the most arguments to avoid. Because they come from a completely different era than we are, so to speak, from a different planet. Their ideas are not something we can understand.

Nor are our ideas understandable to them. Of course, don't dream of changing each other, such arguments are the most fruitless and meaningless. As mentioned above, there is no need to argue about anything other than family economic issues, health issues, and children's education.

If this situation is suggested, it is okay to reduce the contact with your father, because we cannot choose what kind of family we are born in, the fate of the first half of our life is given to us by God, but we can choose the fate of the second half of our life, come on young people!

I don't have the ability to stay away from my garbage father, and I face it every day, it's really unlucky! I can only hope that Lord Yama will help!

Hello, happy with your question. If you have an unhappy family of origin and lack fatherly love, then you are likely to have flaws in personality and temperament, and there will be a lot of setbacks and resistance on your way to growth.

I also have such a father, who has been scolding me and my mother, and beating my mother to death, scolding me and my mother, dogs.

Summary. Hello dear dear, my father is our father no matter what, he is no longer a weapon, how bad he is, he is still your father, your father's dedication and love for you is irreplaceable, please be kind to your father, maybe sometimes your father wants you to be better, but did not find the right way to communicate, this is a little troublesome, don't deny your father because of the incorrect way of expression, although your father is not pregnant with you born in October, although not a family wealth, but your arrival has made him happy, Your achievements are his pride, and he may not know that something happened later, maybe his family has changed, maybe he hates himself for not being able to give you a good family, etc.

Hello, my father is our father no matter what, he is no longer a weapon, how bad he is, he is still your father, your father's dedication and love for you is irreplaceable, please be kind to your father, maybe sometimes your father wants you to be better, but you haven't found the right way to communicate, this is a bit troublesome, don't deny your father because of the incorrect way of expression, although your father is not pregnant with you born in October, although not a family wealth, But your arrival once made him happy, your achievements are his pride, maybe he didn't know what happened later, maybe the family changed, maybe he hated himself for not being able to give you a good and socks family, etc.

Kiss and give you a few suggestions. 1.Think more empathy, understand the father's difficulty, and be a parent will know that it is not easy for parents to tell 2

Help your parents do more housework, take care of the house, and come back after a tiring day to grind the mood will be better3Don't lose your temper with your parents, come to the table when you have something to discuss.

If you can be considered a pillar of support at home, go home and have a family meeting.

1. In view of my father's wrong behavior and the pressure on the family, I will stop my father's control over all money from now on.

2. 80% of the gambling debts incurred in the past will be repaid by the father, and the rest of the family will help 3. If you do not repent, you will sever the father-son relationship and let the parents divorce, and the gambling debts will not be responsible from now on.

In black and white, let Dad sign it.

For such a family member, he can only pull down his face and force him to change, otherwise he can't take it seriously.

It's not difficult, the whole family can control his money together. If there is no money, who will bet with him?

It also lets your mother let off steam, and your dad gambles outside, and doesn't give money if you lose. How many tens of thousands are still owed.

My mother reported the case and asked the police to discipline her.

My parents are the same as you, our family is two sisters, I owed 100,000 yuan ten years ago, I came out after three months of high school, my father took the book money sent to me by my mother to block, and now it has been out for five years, I have helped them pay back 10,000, but now my mother is not in charge of things at all, and it has been four years since the divorce. My dad hasn't paid back the money in the past few years, this year he still owes so much money, my sister and I are married by ourselves, and there is no wine in my hometown, there is no one at home, my parents don't care about us, I also have my own baby now, I don't expect him to help me, don't ask me for money again, gambling people just don't change, every time I talk to him, it's the same afterwards.

I think everyone has their own difficulties, and your dad must have his own ideas. Let's open our hearts and sit down and talk about it.

I don't know what to do about it. Expect a good reply from others.

Sympathy, can't think of a good idea because he's a dad.

In addition to eating, drinking, prostituting, gambling and smoking, my dad basically doesn't do serious things, he lends money, not only does not help me to defraud me of 3,000 yuan, I directly keep him now 2 married, in fact, he is not married, and lives together. There slashed him 10 times, and then went out of tune. I haven't seen him since, and if I want to see him again, I'm going to hack him to death! @