Do young people think that the old man is annoying and unfilial?

In the past, people thought that young people were not filial to the elderly, that is, after the old people got old, they did not take care of the elderly, did not give the old people money to spend, and the other is that after graduation, young people did not go to work, but sat at home and let the old people raise, thinking that these two young people are not filial.

But with the development of society, this kind of unfilial piety has also mutated and become more unreasonable, and these are the things that young people are doing now.

So what did these young people do to break the hearts of the old people?

First, the "vampire"-style gnawing old people.

Nowadays, young people are under more and more pressure, and their living expenses are also increasing, especially their usual friends have a lot of dinner, eating, drinking and having fun, so many people feel that no matter how much they earn, they will not spend enough, and the more they earn, the more they spend. Therefore, a large number of people began to reach out to their parents to ask for money to spend, and the elderly are very frugal in life, even if they have a pension.

Can't spend it either, there are still a lot of deposits.

These young people don't want to earn money and save their own money, but they also squander the pension of the elderly, and even ask the elderly to buy a house and a car for themselves. There are also some people who don't want to work hard to find a job to support themselves after graduation, and always stay at home and don't go to work for various reasons, so they want to be a "rice worm and let the elderly support themselves."

These people are very selfish, and they are also very excessive to the elderly, they have the ability to support themselves, but they are still sucking the blood of the old people even harder, this kind of person not only has no sense of responsibility, but also is not filial to the elderly.

Clause. 2. Leave the elderly alone in their hometown and become "left-behind elderly".

When it comes to the left-behind elderly, many people may feel that these people should have very poor family conditions, so they have to leave the elderly alone in their hometown, and their children go to work outside. However, with the progress of society, this situation rarely occurs, most of the children have graduated from college, in order to make themselves have a better future and better development in the future, so they go to the big city to develop and settle their home in the big city.

In this case, in order not to burden the children, the elderly can only live alone in their hometown. In the hearts of the elderly, they always put the children first, but the children do not want the elderly, they think that the elderly are healthy and it is nothing to stay in their hometown. This kind of thinking and behavior is not responsible for the elderly, and there is no idea of filial piety to the elderly.

Clause. 3. Give the baby directly to the old man.

Now in China, there is basically a pattern: young people go to work, and old people help take care of the children. Young people feel that their lives are stressful, they have to go to work to generate income for their families, and they have no time to take care of their children when they go to work, so it is natural for the elderly to take care of their children.

But the elderly also came from a young age, they used to have financial pressure, and no one helped them solve it, they all carried it by themselves.

I don't think it's unfilial piety for young people to be annoyed with the old man, but I think it's understandable that he doesn't act like he is tired of the old man.

Young people dislike the elderly, first of all, it depends on the specific reasons, and it cannot be generalized. As a young person, you should communicate more with the elderly, explain the problem clearly, and the elderly should be more considerate of the young people, so that the relationship will get better and better.

As long as you don't contradict your parents or don't support your parents, you are not unfilial to the elderly, sometimes you may not communicate well with yourself, speak badly or directly scold yourself for nagging, it is normal to be upset, but don't do it against the elderly.

In fact, many young people are annoyed by the old man's room, after all, Lao Yang is very nagging. I don't think it's unfilial, when the elderly are unwell, or when something happens, we are the first to appear in front of them.

Young people dislike the old man in their hearts, but they don't show it, and they still respect the old man in life, so it is not called unfilial piety.

If young people think that the old people are annoying, it is actually not unfilial, because this is a very normal emotion.

It's normal to feel annoyed, but it's best not to show it, because the elderly are old and can't move, and there are some things they can't do, and if you behave annoyed, they will be very sad.

It's just that in my heart I think the old man is annoying, it's not unfilial, if it's expressed in words and actions, it's unfilial.

In today's society, there are more and more such children. The lack of affection for their parents is the lack of warm education in their growth, and such young people can talk endlessly to others, but they often cherish their parents like gold, and it is too early to talk about unfilial piety.

No, it's just disgusting. It's that everyone complains sometimes, and sometimes the old people have some stubborn thoughts that are difficult to understand, and it is very likely that young people are upset.

Hello, you have this kind of thinking itself is a manifestation of unfilial piety, after the elderly are older, there will be some trouble, but we must be tolerant, after all, each of us will have an old time. So, don't think so.

Young people's psychology is always annoying to the elderly, is this considered unfilial piety? This mainly depends on his actual actions, if he just feels annoyed in his heart, and takes good care of her in actual actions, then he is still filial to her.

The old man is your future, their own present, and one day you will become like them, so why bother so much? After all, they brought you into this world, you must respect them, you can't move when you're old, you must be filial.

Count, those who have this kind of thinking should correct it as soon as possible, because everyone will get old one day, and what if they are old and others dislike them.

No, even if it's your own parents, there are times when your heart is more annoying, and there are people who say things that are more ugly, but their hearts are very soft.

Dislike doesn't count. Because the lifestyles and living habits of the two generations are completely different, they will definitely dislike each other.

This can't be said that everyone has a time when things don't go well, and the old man will feel annoyed when he has a lot of things.

Not counted. Because every young person will dislike the old man and annoy him, because the old man cares about you, he will naturally talk a lot, so the young man will be annoyed, but this is not unfilial piety.

The duel is unfilial. It is also unfilial to say a thousand reasons. Raising children and caring for the elderly is both a Chinese tradition and a Chinese law.

1. The manifestations of unfilial piety among young people and their effects.

1.Addicted to a lazy life, he left all the housework to the elderly.

There are many young people who are very addicted to a lazy life, and they have reached the age of managing their own lives, but they are still: after eating, let the old man wash the dishes, let the old man wash all the dirty clothes, and leave the children completely to the old man to take care of, and even ask the old man for living expenses. The old man always tries his best to satisfy the child, but once the old man does not complete something that the child instructs, the child will put the responsibility on the old man, which makes the old man aggrieved and helpless at the same time.

The old man was at an age when he should have enjoyed happiness, but he was very sad because of the unfilial piety of his children.

2.There is no basic respect and gratitude for parents.

Some young people always cover up their disrespect and disgratitude to their parents under the guise of "parents are our closest people, and they don't need to care about so many coincidences", and treat the elderly who work hard to take care of them every day, they never say thank you, but always complain and blame the elderly. After a long time, the old man's physical condition will only get worse and worse, and he will be exhausted. Therefore, children must respect and be grateful to the elderly.

2. How to be filial to one's parents correctly?

1.Respect the ideas of parents.

When it comes to childcare, young people should not take "old people take care of children" as a matter of course, but should follow their parents' wishes. If parents are willing to take care of their children, then young people should not always point fingers at the way the elderly take care of their children, otherwise it will only hurt the hearts of parents. If parents are unwilling to take care of their children, then do not force them, and let them live their old age according to their own ideas.

In daily life, it is necessary to respect the ideas of parents and not ask parents to do something, which is filial piety to parents.

I can't be with my parents all the time, and I may be more self-conscious.

<> young people pay more attention to the quality of life, and the value concept of the older generation is to be diligent and thrifty. When they were young, they were often hungry and had no food to eat, and they could better understand that it was not easy to make money. People of my parents' generation have been thrifty all their lives, and their monthly consumption is only a handful.

We basically have to change our socks every month or two or even weeks, and the life of our parents' generation is one province after another. A pair of socks can last for years, not to mention some other household items. Unless you can't repair it until you are old, you can throw it away, and you can also be self-reliant when you eat.

Grow your own vegetables, unlike young people who order takeout at every turn.

Who provides the happy life we have today? It's all thanks to our parents. The post-60s and post-70s generations are not even able to maintain a normal livelihood at our age, and we are used to living a hard life. I am reluctant to spend money when I earn it, and I can save a little bit is a little.

The people of the parents' generation did not have much pursuit in terms of money and materials, and only spent some money except for normal living expenses, and the rest was to subsidize their own children. It is not said that they can see it like some people, they understand that there is a key to perseverance, that is, to be able to save a little is a little bit and seek more benefits for future generations.

In our traditional culture, the word "filial piety" will be emphasized. Because it is not easy for parents to raise their children. In the past ten years, parents have to spend a lot of time, energy and money, and even sacrifice themselves to raise their children well.

If the child grows up, does not know how to be grateful, does not know how to reciprocate, and treats his parents badly, it can be said that his parents will feel very defeated in this life.

We definitely hope that when we are old in the future, we can exchange for the cold and warmth of our children, so that it is worth it no matter how hard and tiring the upbringing is.

But not all parents can exchange their children's filial piety when they are old. Like my uncle.

The uncle is very doting on his son, and he wants the stars not to pick the moon, and he almost responds to his needs. Usually my aunt wants to take care of the child, but my uncle also said, just such a child, if you don't spoil it, do you let others bully? In addition, at that time, the conditions of my uncle's family were good, and the things I bought for my children were all good and expensive.

Children play and have conflicts, even if the cousin beats someone else, the child comes to sue, and the uncle also protects the calf. He said that if others don't bully their own sons first, can that son beat others?

Because of the child's affairs, the uncle also had several conflicts with his neighbors. Because of this, the cousin gradually developed a domineering and arrogant character. As a child, he was often isolated, and no one liked to play with him.

But now that my cousin has grown up, he is not looking for a job, but only gnawing at home. The uncle wanted him to support himself, but the cousin yelled at him, saying that his uncle's money was enough for him to spend, so why did he go out and suffer?

The people in the village advised the uncle to save some money for himself, don't work so hard, otherwise if there is a minor illness, don't expect his son to be filial to him.

Every time I chatted with my uncle, my uncle regretted it and told us that it was because he missed out that he doted on the child too much and indulged him, which led to the crime of his old age.

The reason, first: the old man does a lot of problems 1, because the child is an only child, spoiled since childhood, 2 only meets the physical needs of the child, and does not think about the spiritual needs of Hongtong skin. 3. Parents don't have good habits.

4. You are not holy, you have no good faith, and it is better to teach by example than to teach by example. Second, teaching materials need to be improved. The three wheels of society, teachers, and so on are dominated by money, and science is paramount, and morality is degenerate.

1. When I was a child, I didn't have parents to care.

If no one cares about children when they are young, they will not only complain about their parents, but even hate them, hate them for not paying what their parents should pay, hate them for giving birth to themselves but not raising themselves, and all the beautiful childhood is buried in the hands of their parents.

2. Being subjected to domestic violence when I was a child.

Domestic violence is a problem that is often heard, but cannot be solved, especially when parents beat their children, it is considered normal by many people, but as long as parents do it, there will be a second and third time, and even more ruthless than one time, which will cause an irreparable shadow to the child, if the child only hates his parents, how can he support his parents?

3. A bowl of water is uneven.

This is a problem that many Chinese families have, parents only prefer one since childhood, and the rest are all left out in the cold, and there are snacks that are always hidden and tucked away, and kept for their favorite children to eat, parents think that other children do not know, but these things are also felt in the hearts of children, and then leave a mark in their hearts, becoming a childhood shadow that is difficult to repair, and when they grow up, they think of these things, and naturally do not want to see their parents.

4. Patriarchal preference and only recognize money.

Patriarchy is also the most common problem in my country's family, I always ignore my daughter, but I love my son in every way, and I can't wait to take my heart out. When she grows up, she is also pressed on her daughter everywhere, so how can those girls who have been hurt support their parents?

In short, no matter what kind of "non-support parents", the initial reason is the harm caused by parents to children, which shows how much influence parents' behavior has on children.

Therefore, for the healthy growth of children, parents should at least be fair, let the children grow up in a healthy and happy environment, not for whether the children can support themselves in the future, just to give the children a sound personality and a happy life.